New Vision Counseling

New Vision Counseling

11209 N May Ave Ste B

Oklahoma City, OK 73120

(405) 921-7776

http://www.newvisioncounseling.org/

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If you asked a million Americans whether they wanted to improve some aspect of their personality, 999,999 of them would probably say "yes." Some would like to improve their personal life or relationships, while others intend to make a difference in their careers. The piece that follows includes several useful ideas for those wishing to pursue greater personal development.


Unfortunately, stress is quite a killjoy to a person's state of happiness and joy. While experiencing stress, our entire body is affected in both physical and mental ways. So that we think clearly and work toward our goals in life, it is important that we eliminate stress from our minds. Schedule a time during your day to be alone, relax, and clear your mind of everything. You can increase how good you feel about yourself and how at peace you feel by using this time to relax.


When you are trying to better yourself, set a deadline. Decide how long you will need to make up your mind and stick to that time-frame. How much time do you need to reflect and gather information? When you decide, set your deadline and tell your self that you are ready to live a better life.


To be successful don't procrastinate. Procrastination results in missed opportunities, if you complete the task today than you can move on to the next task right away. This approach actually reduces stress, since you do not have to rush around at the last minute to get all your projects done.


To increase your chances of success learn from others' mistakes. There are many blogs, books and free seminars that you can attend that will help you set your own goals and guidelines. This helpful advise can give you direction and help you avoid mistakes; however, when you do make a mistake, and you will, learn from it and move on.


Learn to recognize your negative thinking patterns -- then reroute them to a more positive or realistic mindset. Do this with the help of a simple daily log, or work with a therapist to learn cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). CBT has been proven to help people change their automtatic negative thinking into a more positive, realistic thought process.


One great way to make sure you are at peace and live a full and healthy life is through daily devotion. Many many people would testify that when you start your day in God's word and in prayer, you have a much better day than you would've had without having done that. Try it, and see just how important and beneficial it is.


Be timely and reliable. There is no such thing as being fashionably late. Late is late and no one truly appreciates it. If you are responsible for a certain job be sure you deliver on time. You will gain the reputation of being the one everyone can rely on and the awards could, potentially at least, be great!


To ward off feeling sluggish and fatigued, increase your activity level while reducing saturated fats. These fats from fried food and some meat products will cause poor circulation by blocking arteries and smaller blood vessels. Keeping your heart rate up and restricting these foods creates a faster thinking, more ambitious feeling within you.


Build strong and healthy relationships with good people. The people that you share your life with are going to help you in your journey to a happy life. If you are around negative people, it is not going to help you change your ways and find the life that you want to live.


Most people know they want to improve something in their life but remain unsure of how to get started. Although this article has many helpful tips, keep in mind that it is up to you to use them. Whenever your inspiration begins to wane, revisit these ideas to regain your enthusiasm.