Erikson Psychoscocial Stages

Erikson's theory consist of eight stages of development. Each stage is characterized by a different conflict that

must be resolved by the individual.When the environment makes new demands on people,

the conflicts arise. "The person is faced with a choice between two ways of coping with each crisis, in an adaptive,

or maladaptive way. Only when each crisis is resolved, which involves a change in the personality, does the person

have sufficient strength to deal with the next stages of development. Each group has been assigned a stage

that focuses in on the particular conflict associated with this stage in the form of a skit.

PROJECT

Erik Erikson’s 8 Stages of Psychosocial Development

Each group has been assigned a stage of Erik Erikson’s psychosocial stage. Psychosocial is defined by the common problems that emerge through life from infancy through old age. Erikson believed when people faced these challenges they make choices that lay the foundation that influence the growth of their personality

Part I: Each group must present the two skits to the class.

Part II: Elicit from the class what they think the issue is based on the two skits – The goal is not to tell the class but let them identify the issues that emerge

Part III: Explain the conflict that this stage has on personality development – Be sure to explain each term associated with this stage according to Erikson

Part IV: Identify this stage to an experience they have had – Only one is necessary for the group

Part IV: Do you agree or disagree with Erikson’s theory and why?

(5 minutes per group) - Everyone participates

Each group will be graded based on the criteria above

Please note I provided a foundation – you may assimilate or accommodate the skit to fit your schema of how you want to present the stage of psychosocial development

Skit 1A: Trust vs. Mistrust (parent, child, boyfriend/girlfriend)

(Baby crying)

Parent 1: (Parent moves to baby and picks her up and talks to her in soothing voice. Baby stops crying.) Hey Sweetie. What’s the matter? Do you need a diaper change? No. Maybe you just want to be held. (Parent sings “rock a bye baby” and rocks baby).

Years later:

Grown Child: Hey. Where have you been? I’ve been calling you for the last hour. Girlfriend/Boyfriend: I was studying for my psych exam with some people in my class. I turned off my phone so I wouldn’t be interrupted.

Grown Child: Oh. I hope you do well on your test. Do you have time to get together this afternoon?

Skit 1B: Trust vs. Mistrust

(Baby crying)

Parent 2: (parent talking on the phone and ignores crying child who continues to cry). Jane, you’ll never guess who I saw yesterday. Matthew from high school! Do you believe it? (Baby’s crying gets louder.) Ugh – s/he never stops crying and s/he’s driving me nuts. Hold on a minute. (Parents covers mouthpiece and shouts) Shut up! (Child continues to cry. Parent turns back to the telephone). Well, back to Matthew. He’s a pilot now making six figures. If I’d known how successful he was going to be, maybe I’d have taken him up on that prom invitation.

Years later:

Grown Child: Hey. Where have you been? I’ve been calling you for the last hour. Were you hanging out with your ex?

Girlfriend/Boyfriend: No. I was studying for my psych exam with some people in my class. I turned off my phone so I wouldn’t be interrupted.

Grown Child: (sarcastic tone) Yeah, right. And I suppose you were “studying” last night when I called, too.

Girlfriend/Boyfriend: What are you talking about? If you can’t trust me, this relationship is over.

Skit 2A: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt (Parent, male child)

Parent: OK, Bobby, you are a big boy now and you can use a big boy potty. Whenever you feel like you have to use the potty, you tell Mommy and I’ll help you.

Bobby: Sure Mommy.

(time passes)

Bobby: Mommy, I have to go potty!

Parent: OK. Let’s go to the bathroom.

Bobby: (Bobby and parent run to the bathroom but Bobby doesn’t make it and pees in his pants.) Oh, no. I had an accident! (Bobby starts to cry.)

Parent: It’s OK, Bobby. You tried and that is what is important. If you keep practicing, you’ll get it.

Years later:

(Child is now grown)

Bobby: Hey mom, I’m thinking about tryout out for the basketball team. What do you think?

Parent: That sounds like a great idea, Sweetie.

Bobby: Yeah, what have I got to lose?

Skit 2B: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

Parent: OK, Bobby. Whenever you feel like you have to use the potty, you tell Mommy and I’ll help you.

Bobby: OK Mommy.

(time passes)

Bobby: Mommy, I have to go potty!

Parent: OK. Let’s go to the bathroom.

Bobby: (Bobby and parent run to the bathroom but Bobby doesn’t make it and pees in his pants.) Oh, no. I had an accident! (Bobby starts to cry.)

Parent: (shouting) BOBBY! I can’t believe you did that! I thought I told you to use the potty. I guess you’ll just have to stay in diapers forever.

Years later

Parent: Honey, you aren’t really involved at school. Maybe you should try out for the basketball team. You love playing at home and you are getting quite good.

Bobby: I don’t know, Mom/Dad. What if I don’t make the team? I mean, I’ve been practicing but I’m not nearly as good as some of the other guys. I don’t want to take the risk.

Skit 3A: Initiative vs. Guilt (Lisa, father)

Lisa: (Picks up Daddy’s expensive new iPhone and tries to make a call like Daddy).

Daddy: (in a soft voice) Lisa, that is very fragile so I don’t want you to play with it. Maybe you can use this (point to a different telephone) phone to call Grandma. I’m so impressed at what a big girl you are now.

Years later:

Lisa: Daddy, Ms. Chance just assigned us a project for class.

Daddy: Do you need help?

Lisa: No. I’ve already planned out what I’m going to do and I think it’s going to be really cool.

Skit 3B: Initiative vs. Guilt

Lisa: (Picks up Daddy’s expensive new iPhone and tries to make a call like Daddy).

Daddy: (shouting) LISA! Put that down right now. Haven’t I told you never to touch Daddy’s stuff? Now go to your room and think about what you’ve done.

Years later:

Lisa: Daddy, will you help me with my project for school?

Daddy: Can’t you do it by yourself?

Lisa: No. Everything I try turns out terrible. I’m sure I’m going to get an F on it.

Skit 4A: Industry vs. Inferiority (Reed, Ms. Lewis, Mom/ Taylor, Principal, Taylor’s parent)

Reed: Here is my spelling test, Ms. Lewis.

Mr. Lewis: Great job, Reed. Another 100%. You sure are smart.

Reed: Thanks.

Taylor: Here is my spelling test, Ms. Lewis.

Ms. Lewis: Taylor, this isn’t very good. You missed 5 out of 10 words. Did you study?

Taylor: Not really.

Ms. Lewis: Well, you obviously didn’t try hard enough. I want you to get this signed by your parents and return it tomorrow.

Years later:

Mom: Reed, can you show me how to set up this website for my business?

Reed: Sure, Mom. I learned some new stuff at school. If you give me a couple of days to work on it, I can make your site really good.

Mom: Great!

Years later:

Principal: Hello Taylor’s parent. Taylor has been doing poorly in school. He isn’t turning in homework and doesn’t seem to try.

Taylor’s parent: Oh, dear. (turns to address Taylor) Taylor, what is going on? Why aren’t you doing your work?

Taylor: Why should I? I’m going to fail anyways, so why should I bother. I’m stupid.

Skit 5A: Identity vs. Role Confusion (Wynne, parent)

Wynne: I need to stay after school today for the feminism club. Can you pick me up at 4:00? I have to be at soccer practice by 4:30.

Parent: Sure, honey. I’m glad you are involved in new things.

Wynne: Oh, yeah. I met this new girl at school and she is Buddhist! She invited me to go to her temple with her family this weekend. Can I go?

Parent: Cool. That sounds like a neat experience. You’ll have to tell me all about it. But I still expect you to come to church with me.

Years later

Parent: Wynne, we are so proud of you for completing your master’s degree.

Wynne: Thanks, mom/dad.

Skit 5B: Identity vs. Role Confusion

Wynne: I need to stay after school today for the feminism club. Can you pick me up at 4:00? I have to be at soccer practice by 4:30.

Parent: The feminism club? What kind of kid am I raising? You know that stuff is just a bunch of mumbo jumbo. Just take the bus home at 3:00.

Wynne: OK. I don’t think I want to go to church this weekend. I’ve been thinking about it and I don’t know if I believe in all that stuff.

Parent: What? You WILL go to church this weekend and every weekend. I won’t stand for this defiance!

Year later:

Parent: Wynne, your father/mother and I aren’t going to pay for school anymore. You’ve been enrolled for 5 years now and you are no closer to a degree than when you started. From now on, you are on your own.

Wynne: Are you kidding me? Come on!

Skit 6A: Intimacy vs. Isolation (Rick and Alex)

Rick: How are things going with Alicia?

Alex: It’s going pretty good. I really like her and we’ve been talking about getting engaged. How do I know if she is the right one for me?

Rick: Beats me. When Suzanne put the pressure on me, I broke it off. I don’t need a ball and chain for the rest of my life. If you don’t watch out you’re gonna find yourself married, with two kids, living in the suburbs, and not having any fun.

Alex: But I think I love her.

Rick: Love, schmove. I need my freedom. I say dump her and go out with me tonight.

Alex: No. Alicia is too important to me. We’re having dinner tonight and I’m thinking about asking her to marry me.

Rick: You’re loss. Me and Rod are gonna meet some fine ladies.

Years later:

Rick: Hey Alex. How’s it going?

Alex: Great. My son just made honor role and my daughter is trying out for the school musical. Alicia and the kids make everything worthwhile. How about you?

Rick: I’m so lonely Alex. I’m 45 years old and what do I have to show for it? Sure, I’m successful at my work, but it feels meaningless without someone to share it with.

Rick: That’s terrible, man.

Skit 7A: Generativity vs. Stagnation (Sarah and Patty)

Sarah: I’ve had a lot of free time lately and I’ve decided to spend it tutoring kids down at the local middle school. It is really fulfilling to help these kids.

Patty: That’s great! I have no free time. I spend every spare minute working so that I can get a promotion. If I keep this up, I will make partner in 5 years – that the fastest anyone has made partner at this firm.

Sarah: Wow. You sound really busy? Do you have time to get dinner this weekend? My kids have been running me ragged lately and dinner with friends is what I need to relax.

Patty: Sorry. No time. I’m so glad I don’t have kids. Who has time for that?

Years later:

Sarah: Hey, Patty. I haven’t seen you in a while. Did you ever make partner?

Patty: Yeah, I did, in five years, just like I planned.

Sarah: That’s great. You must be so happy.

Patty: Actually, I’ve never been so unhappy. My life seems so meaningless. I think I’m going through a midlife crisis.

Sarah: That’s terrible. Why don’t we go out for dinner this week to talk?

Patty: That would be great. You are always so caring and happy. How do you do it?

Sarah: (shrugs)

Skit 8A: Integrity vs. Despair (father and grown child)

Adult child: Dad, do you ever regret turning down that job transfer when you were 40? It would have come with a big raise and lots of opportunities. The guy who took the job after you turned it down now has a house in the Hamptons and a 40-ft yacht.

Father: No. I don’t regret it. By turning down that job, you children got to grow up with your cousins and grandparents right down the street. Think of all the great times we had together. Would we have been that happy if I had been working my tail off in NY trying to get promotion after promotion?

Adult child: Thanks, Dad. I love you.

Skit 8B: Integrity vs. Despair

Adult child: Dad, do you ever regret turning down that job transfer when you were 40?

Father: Boy, do I ever. Did you know the guy who took that position ended up on Fortune 500’s list of the highest paid CEO in 2006? And he was a bumbling idiot.

Adult child: Well, I’m glad you didn’t take the job. I loved growing up in NC and I’m glad I got to know grandma so well before she died. I couldn’t have done that if we’d moved.

Father: Whatever. If I’d taken that job, we’d have been so rich we could’ve bought a private jet to fly grandma up whenever we wanted. Just think of the life we would’ve had.