Romance Tips
The Cosmic Inequality in Romance
The fundamental answer to a long standing puzzle, introduced to the public in a comprehensive package for the fist time!
Power of the 4-pillars
What governs our luck in Romance (or marriage)?
The cosmic flow does! Luck in relationship largely comes by birth! However, there is a clear line between romance and marriage; they could be mutually exclusive. One or two good romance (popularity) stars set us to exciting romance opportunities; a good spouse star guarantees us with a supportive spouse.
The duration and momentum of the blessing on each case, depends on: 1) the strength of the star, and 2) the overall structure of our birth energy and our luck cycle (which are determined by our birthday).
This good marriage star needs to be activated with some special signs to bring in a successful marriage. There are formulas to forecast such a development, so that we can take advantage of the timing. The system is called the four-pillars.
What bonds a couple?
There are a few ways to find out. The simplest indicator goes by the birth year and the spouse palace. One thing every one can do is to find out the cosmic animal of your birth year. The bonding animals are:
1) By the pair: rat-ox; pig-tiger; rabbit-dog; dragon-roster; snake-monkey; horse-goat.
2) By the team: monkey- rat-dragon; ox-snake-rooster; pig-rabbit-goat; tiger-horse- dog.
When the couple’s birth year or spouse sign falls into one of the pairs or teams, there is bond; when both belong to one of the pair or team, the bond is even stronger.
Finding out your spouse palace requires a birth composite. The procedure is explained in another link: the Meng (the four-pillars)of this site.
What brings good fortune to a couple?
Bonding couples are not necessarily happy with each other but they work toward the same goal and move smoothly forward to create good fortune.
What makes a happy couple?
What triggers the passion to love each other between the couple? It is the complementary elements between them. Each of our energy system is a composite of 5-components of the cosmic flows: fire, water, wood, earth and metal. A perfect balance (equilibrium) of all the elements gives the best life. Unfortunately, equilibrium on the 5-elements is a brief unstable state; it practically never happens. The best we can do is to make it close to a comfortable balance. There are a few ways to achieve the goal. We can harness the missing key flows from our surroundings, the things we regularly do or the people we associate with. People normally fall into love with some one carrying their missing flow; they naturally develop a passion to be close to the person. A couple having complementary flows between them, enjoy great relationship and are always happy with each other.
Why does passion between lovers evaporate?
Our energy system changes periodically, typically every five years. When the bonding complementary key element subsides/disappears, the bond naturally loosens up. If the input of new energy flow topples the balance of our system, we would avoid the flow and eventually feel pain to be with our partner. On the other hand, if the new flow favorably complements the bond of our partnership, it would ignite the old passion. We can spot the periodic change of our energy from reading our luck cycle.