Bar Girls
Nice Thai Girls Versus Thai Bar Girls
If you search the internet for stories of foreign men falling in love with Thai girls you’re bound to find hundreds of posts articles and stories that have been written over the years. The funny thing is many of the stories you’ll find end badly. The reason for this is pretty apparent.
Typically you’ll see in the story that the writer has been warned about Thai bar girls and yet they continue on thinking “it will never happen to me”. Every month there are stories to be found about Americans, Australians and Europeans either being bankrupted or even committing suicide in Pattaya and Patong over Thai bar girls. We may never know the entire truth about these tragedies, but they carry a similar theme. What is it that makes men ignore the fact that many relationships with Thai bar girls end so badly? Why do they think that they are different and that their Thai girlfriend will work out as a romance or marriage, even though she’s come from the type of life lived in the bars?
Would these men behave the same way, with the same expectations in their home countries? Would they shack up with a prostitute and expect her to be loving and faithful? I don’t really think so, and it makes me scratch my head to think they have these expectations simply because they are in Thailand. Maybe they only do this in Thailand because they can’t afford it in their home countries. Or maybe they somehow lose their minds in the craziness that is Thailand. Perhaps it’s their own way of coping with culture shock. Whatever the case, if you’re in a relationship with a Thai girl take a look at this list of questions you should be asking yourself:
1. Does your wife or girlfriend hide her phone calls? Does she get calls at all hours of the night? Doesn’t that make you suspicious? It should.
2. Is your girlfriend or wife always asking for money to send home? Is it the same amount each month? Not definitive, but could indicate a boyfriend or husband back in the home village that she is supporting.
3. If your Thai girl has piercings besides her ears or tattoos it a big warning sign of a bar girl or former bar girl. Good Thai girls don’t do this. This is changing somewhat for the younger generation however so may not be conclusive if your wife or girlfriend is under 25.
4. The biggest indicator of all. Are her friends involved in prostitution? As with any other profession or lifestyle, like types tend to be drawn together because of similar experiences.
The best thing to do is just practice common sense. I know it’s easy to lose your bearings when seeing all the beautiful available girls in Thailand, but try to maintain a sense of normalcy. You may not be used to so much attention from beautiful girls, but get used to it, it’s just like that in Thailand for a foreigner.
Think Seriously Before Sending Money to Thai Girls
Thai Girls Dream...
Back in the days when I taught English in Bangkok, beautiful 19 to 21 year old Thai girls dominated all of my classes. One of the topics my students enjoyed was “describe your perfect partner”. On the top of the list of attributes that their partner must have is “a load of money”. Lots of foreigners (falangs) fall in love in Thailand. Newcomers to Thailand should never attempt to find the girl of their dreams until they have become familiar with Thai culture and the ways of the girls. A high percentage of foreigners choose bar girls for their partners. In this article I will discuss sending money to bar girls.
Financial Support....
If you really have met the love of your life in Pattaya or another part of Thailand then you will probably ask her to stop working in the bar and will feel obliged to give her some financial support while you are slogging away earning more money in your own country. If you don’t feel obliged then she hasn’t done her job.
Think Seriously Before Sending Money To Thai Girls....
Before you enter into any such agreement with your Thai lady consider this. She has stopped working in the bar but she misses her Thai mates in the bar. If she remains in Pattaya when you return to your country then it will be very difficult for her to stop working or even visiting her friends at the bar.You need a proven plan and you can get one at http://www.after-the-rush.com
Thai Girl Sex and Money.....
She might say she loves you and maybe she does but these girls have a different slant on sex and love. Sex is just a way to make money and if she can make more money on top of the cash that you send her then she is a real winner.
She also gains face with her bar girl sisters and employer. She becomes the one who can sustain a relationship while still working in the bar. This gains her “face”. There are too many foreigners in Pattaya ready to open their big fat wallets for the services of a pretty lady. I highly advise you to read “After the Rush” before sending money to your Thai girl in Pattaya Thailand.You will find it here http://www.thaigirls.pattaya-bar-girls.com
The report exposes eight money sending issues you should carefully consider. It will guide you through the important steps you should take before you send money to a girl in Thailand..
The Loot .....
If you have decided to send your sweet honey some money here is something to consider before handing over the dosh (money). You might count up the number of months you’re going to be with out the apple of your eye, say 4 months, and decide to give her a lump sum for the whole 4 month period to save messing around with bank transfers. That might be a total of 40,000 baht if you are feeling generous and a lot of falangs give more than that. Or it could be less say 30,000 baht.
Why You Should Not Send One Large Sum ...
Whatever the amount I highly advise you to think again. Unless you have tons of spare cash and you don’t give a hoot, don’t give your honey the lump sum unless you are planning not to see her ever again. ..... why? Because it will cause her pain and it will probably frustrate you. Here is the Scenario
Her Pain....
Darling has 40,000 baht cash in hand. She of course must tell her family of her good fortune. It is then guaranteed that someone in the family chain will concoct a better reason for he or she to have that 40,000 baht rather than your deserving sweetheart.
Emotional Blackmail....
Your sweetheart will be placed in a compromising situation. I’ve observed the stress of a Thai honey that has been emotionally blackmailed to hand over the loot. She cried and fell into a sad state for two or three days before parting with her pot of money. That’s her pain.
Your Turn Another Hand Out ....
Now you will have to cough up those lousy bank transfer fees you thought you were avoiding and send her some more loot. Now will you use your logic mind and send another 40,000 baht or will you put the brakes on and organize your brain. Think how you will feel if the loot slips through your honey’s fingers a second time.
Realise this, most Thai bar girls have completed just 6 years of education and do not have money management skills.You must step in and do it for her. They are bogged down in the monthly. “I’ve got 40Gs I’m OK for this month”. To save frustration and pain send honey the money monthly or even fortnightly. Send her enough money to cover her living expenses, plus 3000 baht per month for her baby if she has one. A girl living in the province should be able to live comfortably on 7,000 baht per month (plus baby).
That’s 10,000 baht per month. No more than that or you will cause more confusion. You have to preempt and take control if you don’t have unlimited funds.
Even if you do have unlimited funds it would be advantageous for you to give her some money management advice. Help her to understand why foreigners have budgets to manage their spending. If your Thai lady has just enough to live on for two weeks she might think twice about giving her money away.There is a cheap way for you to transfer funds to Thailand. You can investigate that at your bank or take a look at http://sendmoney.yourthaigirls.com. Source: www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/think-seriously-before-sending-money-to-thai-girls-565930.html
About the Author:
Bill Williams has lived in Thailand for more than 16 years and has written three books that delve into the secrets behind Thai girls.
Pattaya Bar Girls Report has helped men to learn the ways of the Pattaya girls. After-The-Rush embraces more than 130 issues a man will encounter when he falls in love with a Thai lady.
Finding A Thai Girl Online.
Bill Williams writes .... Leave behind all the stereotypes. Read the story of Tim with his own words. I was inspired to share my perspective on relationships with an Asian girls after reading about intense desire of Western men to marry Asian girls, or more specifically a Japanese girl. When a person searches for true love, they must not have any assumptions.
If you desire the pure love of an Asian girl, then you must also throw away all stereotypes that you may have about Asian girls - that they are submissive, docile, naive, too eager to please, and whatever else. Since love is never expressed in a cookie-cut design, remember that your true love, the Asian girl of your dreams, who will rescue you from this abominable and inescapable trap of single white females, will perhaps be un-accepting of your previous judgments and stereotypes you have come to know and believe.
Just so I am perfectly clear, I have dated American women, and they are wonderful human beings for whom I have no ill feelings whatsoever.
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