Mentoring Styles Questionnaire:
How I Want to be Coached/Mentored
This worksheet will help you clarify your needs and expectations from a coaching / mentoring relationship. The more clarity and alignment you have within your working relationships, the better your chances for a productive, enjoyable, and growing experience.
Once complete, make a copy for any person you feel would benefit from the information, and keep the original for your own reference. Your needs and expectations will probably change over time.
It’s a good idea to revisit these questions periodically.
1. In a word, one(two) thing(s) I most need from a mentor is:
Explain:
2. Many things motivate me, but my personal top three are:
3. I try to be easy to get along with, but like most people, I have a few "triggers" - if they get pushed, I tend to push back. Very briefly, my personal top three "triggers" are:
4. If you have the pleasure of mentoring me, you can realistically expect me to:
5. The following personal/professional goals are important to me:
This semester:
This year:
3-year:
Career:
6. I have the following personal/professional strengths to help me achieve my goals:
7. I could use improvement in the following personal/professional areas to further help me achieve my goals:
8. Mentors can support my work performance as well as my progress toward personal/professional goals in the following ways:
9. Here are particular things my mentors can do to help facilitate my growth and development:
10. Lastly, I think you ought to know that:
Mentoring and Social Support Network Worksheet:
Mentoring Resources at Virginia Tech:
Graduate School Resources:
https://graduateschool.vt.edu/academics/expectations/expectations-for-graduate-education-overview/mentoring/mentoring-resources.html
Additional Resources: