Somatic Role Play
Debug your Interactions with Women
Debug your Interactions with Women
Do you speak fast? Ask a lot of questions? Do you lean forward slightly or raise your shoulders? Do you make yourself smaller or are you puffing your chest up? Do you speak with expression and emotions or in a logical way?
Is she stepping back? Does she feel relaxed or does she become slightly defensive? Does she feel attracted or repelled? What is it that you do that lights her up? What turns her off?
Whatever your patterns are, it is likely that you play them over and over unconsciously and that they greatly affect your success with women.
On top of that those patterns are often the surface of deeper nervous system and attachment patterns: Leaning forward might be the manifestation of an anxious attachment strategy where there is urgency to secure connection.
By working with a role play model somatically we can study how you interact with women in real time and access the underlying attachment patterns
For example, if someone is talking too fast, getting the woman to close off, we might say with compassion and curiosity “I notice that you have a lot to say, I wonder what kind of energy is behind that? And how does it feel in the body?”
We can then study the energy, access the deeper patterns and start shifting them using Somatic Therapy.
By trying a new way, we get new results
After having identified a pattern and processed the underlying material we can try something new. It might be speaking a little slower. We might notice how different it feels for you and for her, and how this in turns affects the feelings of connection and attraction between the two of you.
Take home a new way of being and new experiences of connection and attraction!
This work is informed by Hakomi Somatic Therapy, building on Mindfulness, Non-violence, Organicity and Body-Mind Connection
Oliver has worked as a programmer before switching to coaching and therapy.
He trained with dating coaches such as Andrew Travelbum and The Natural Lifestyles, on top of that he trained in Somatic Psychotherapy with some of the leading teachers in the world.
He has a passion for studying experience, transformation and for creating moments of connection and magic.
Oliver has been practicing Somatic Therapy for two years and is also interested in Relational and Somatic Practices, such as Circling, Contact Improvisation, etc..