when you understand the Laws of Love(Attraction)?
you would see how "like attract Like". a narcist  would only attract to it self a negative Character.  even if the one is not narcist they can still be toxic and negative. 

why? anything that is not unconditional Love is "Lack of Love"

and that's why negative is represented by a ( - ) sign = minus; subtract. take away. but what does it need so badly? Love. 

but then what's stopping it from feeling Love Fear. 

so you see lack of Love is Fear. 

and as we all know only love is the bond of union.(attraction)

love would always bring about togetherness.

and fear? would only promote separation..."lack of love"

now see Love would always feel Good, because Love is the highest Level of feeling Good.

unconditional Love is Just and fair. as you see it Strongly respect Free Will. 

in fact there is no "unconditional LOVE" without the Presence of Free Will? it is not Unconditional LOVE.

understanding the Laws of (attraction)LOVE  makes you trully see that we all want to feel Good because Our Souls is the Energy of LOVE.  all we do is in order to feel Good.

i personally I love good thing.  

and its mainly because i love without any conditions: in this i mean my love is never earned,

 that i would honestly prefer to be with someone Who is Excited to be in my presence....

can you see that kind of Genuine love can't be found in a narcist (because its simple lack of love, 

i mean its the obvious lack of love, cant give love.. but take-