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Essence of Life
For me, there are three essential questions that spiral deeper into my life and will continue to do so for a lifetime.
1) Who am I? ... my Identity. (What are my gifts and abilities, passions and aspirations?)
2) Why am I here? ... my Purpose. (How can I use my gifts to make a difference?)
3) What am I going to do about it? ... my Mission. (When, where, and what will I do to make a difference?) YOU decide. No one but YOU.
For every PERSON, there are gifts within. For every gift, there is a PLACE that needs that gift.
A career is all of the productive, creative, and meaningful activity a person does throughout life (whether paid or unpaid).
In this sense, life, work, and the person become a seamless, integrated whole.
Too often career is thought of only as one’s ”job”, a money-making activity done in isolation from the rest of one’s life. When this happens, people tend to leave part of themselves at home while they are at work. They become a cog in the machine. Only that piece of self is allowed to be present that is necessary for the task.
I have a difficult time splitting myself like this.
I prefer to be fully present in every aspect of my life; whether family, spiritual, work, or leisure; a fully engaged citizen of my community.
I call it living an authentic, undivided life… a life of integrity.
"Am I living the life that wants to live in me?"
“Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.”
“Our deepest calling is to grow into our own authentic self-hood, whether or not it conforms to some image of who we ought to be. As we do so, we will not only find the joy that every human being seeks–we will also find our path of authentic service in the world.”
(Parker J. Palmer, Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation)
“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” (Howard Thurman)
“Your vocation in life is where your greatest joy meets the world’s greatest need.” (Frederick Buechner)
We must always honor the deepest aspirations, hopes, and dreams of others (and ourselves), for within them are seeds of hope, of purpose, and of meaning. Their raison d’être. Don’t mess with this, for this is sacred and unique among each and every person on earth.
“It remains an experience of incomparable value that we have for once learned to see the great events of world history from below, from the perspective of the outcasts, the suspects, the maltreated, the powerless, the oppressed and reviled, in short, from the perspective of the suffering.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer)
“Whether we try to enter into a dislocated world, relate to a convulsive generation, or speak to a dying man, our service will not be perceived as authentic unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering about which we speak.” (Henri Nouwen in “The Wounded Healer”) .
“The holiest thing we have to offer the world is a broken-open heart, emptied of fear and vengeance, filled with forgiveness and a willingness to take the risks of love.” (Parker Palmer, The Politics of the Brokenhearted)
Writing has become a way for me to find my voice and to give voice to my questions;
from dogmatism and certainty to inquiry and dialogue,
from a quest for knowledge to embracing mystery and wonder,
from living with clenched fists to living with open hands.
Key to Connection and Community
"Power and strength can separate people; whereas weakness and recognition of weakness and the cry for help brings people together. When you are weak, you need people. It's very easy. When you are strong you don't need people, you can do everything on your own. So, somewhere the weak person calls people together. And when the weak call forth the strong, what happens is they awaken what is most beautiful in a human person--compassion, goodness, openness to another and so on. Our weakness brings people together."
Belonging: The Search for Acceptance
Windborne Production Video
“Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength” (St. Francis de Sales)
“Our greatest strength lies in gentleness and tenderness of heart.” (Rumi)