Answer “Yes” / “No” / “Sometimes” and tally your points.
Scoring: Yes = 3 points, Sometimes = 1 point, No = 0 points
Have they texted you in the last 3 days?
Do they start conversations, not just reply?
Have they ever told you they miss you?
Do they wish you happy holidays or important dates?
Do they show interest in your life (work, projects, mood)?
Have they ever sent you cute messages for no reason?
Do you share inside jokes, memes, or common topics?
Have you recently had smooth, easy conversations without tension or arguments?
Do they react to your stories/posts?
Do you feel they enjoy receiving messages from you?
Do they avoid disappearing for long periods without explanation?
Was there any hint that you both don’t mind being closer?
Are they the type of person who usually greets friends or family for holidays?
They’re definitely thinking about you. People usually text those who matter to them during holidays. Very high chance they’ll reach out.
They like you, but can be inconsistent. Good chance — about 50–70%.
Not because they’re a bad person — they just don’t take initiative, keep in touch, or see the relationship in that way. A miracle is possible, but probability is low.