Carly's Online Dating Profile
The Partner Quest
Hello, welcome, I'm Carly👋 Think of this page as an open house to my life, where you can see more of what matters in a match, on our own terms. Because why restrict the search to swiping by other people's rules?
If you're not in the market, consider this an invitation to play matchmaker and share this page with any remarkable single man who could be a match.
If you're a single adventurer braving your own quest for a partner, let's explore 🧭
Basic Bio
I'm a 36 year old professional in Belmont, MA. I'm 5'9", happy, active, and loving 🤗 Friends call me driven, adventurous, stable, and a good listener.
Religion isn't important to me, and I consider myself secularly Jewish ✡️ and liberal-leaning.
Never married, no kids. I'm on a quest to find (and be!) an amazing life partner, and excited to start a family someday 👨👩👦
More about my life
Work
I lead an awesome team commercializing new ways of delivering healthcare through tech-backed services.
After earning my MBA while working full-time, I launched healthcare products at Fortune 500 companies, then took my learnings to the startup world to build a better healthcare system.
My professional mission is to grow products that help people improve their own health.
Speaking to 200+ people at a recent conference
Halfway up my first multi-pitch trad lead
Fitness
I'm very active and love the outdoors. Once I spent 50 days in the wilderness without a tent 😱 Those days are done but here's some ways I love to explore:
- Climbing - Running
- Hiking - Biking
- Paddling - SCUBA
- Foraging - Birdwatching
Inside I lift weights and climb. Doing this stuff with a partner is great! But it's ok if it's not your jam. Regardless of how we get there, prioritizing health is important.
Music + The Arts
Music colors my inner life. I love to write songs (samples below) and jam on piano, guitar, and harmonica 🎹 I'll take any excuse to sing or dance. Classical, Jazz, and Indie Folk Rock are my fav genres.
The arts inspire me. Dabbling in nature photography helped me amass a strong collection of macro mushroom photos 🍄
I listen to 60+ audiobooks a year, mostly classic literature, sci-fi, fantasy, self-improvement, business, and futurism. I also ♥️ poetry.
Excerpt: Rock song from high school 🎙️
Excerpt: Opera overture from college 🎹
Excerpt: Orchestra piece post-college 🎻
Community
My small family lives in Ithaca, NY. We're close and see each other regularly. I moved to Boston from CA in 2020 to be closer to them and still in a fun city.
From my veterinarian mom I got my love of animals and science, and my goofiness 😜 From my professor dad I got my love of learning and humanities, and my rational edge 🤓
I have great friends from every stage of life. For volunteering, I lead outdoor trips and community gatherings for the Appalachian Mountain Club and foster rescue dogs with Great Dog Rescue New England.
Friend Week nightly feast in Outer Banks
Leading a hike with AMC (I'm far right)
What's in a Partnership?
Are you living in the Boston area and ready to settle down?
Does building shared lives sound exciting and like what you want from "home"?
Great! Let's talk the important stuff.
What I offer
Why date me? Some things I offer as your potential partner:
Love with a capital "L"! 💚 -- I'm loving, affectionate, and dedicated as a partner
Experienced 🤓 -- I know quality when I see it. I know what building a partnership takes and I'm ready to rock
Proactive growth mindset 💪 -- I get things done and will put in the work. I take feedback well and am always ready to improve
Established in life yet flexible enough to weave ours together 🧶 -- We'll find ways for both of us to thrive
Even-keeled, Strong, Reliable ⚖️ -- I don't scare easy, I'm there through thick and thin, and I know how to fight fair
What matters to me
What does it take? The things I've found to be most important:
Excited and ready to fall in love, get married, and start a family soon 💚
Loving + affectionate 🤗 -- You naturally express love with actions, words, and warmth
Responsible, Stable, and Securely attached 🤝-- You do what you say. You can be a rock in the storm and stay the course
Curious and Constructive -- You're in tune with how you feel and interested in how others feel👂 We talk things out and care about each other's perspective
Prioritize the partnership -- We're all juggling many priorities, and still we know when and how to put first things first 🥇
My friend's kiddo
My last foster dog, Rosie
Carrying friend's kid over a creek
Get in Touch
Drop me a line and let me know a bit about your life and why you think we could be a fit!
carlypartnerquest@gmail.com
Instagram: @carlyflew
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