If you often feel "let down" by your child's behavior, perhaps you have unrealistic expectations. Parents who think in "shoulds" (for example, "My kid should be potty-trained by now") might find it helpful to read up on the matter or to talk to other parents or child development specialists.
Kids' environments have an effect on their behavior, so you might be able to change that behavior by changing the environment. If you find yourself constantly saying "no" to your 2-year-old, look for ways to alter your surroundings so that fewer things are off-limits. This will cause less frustration for both of you.
As a parent, you're responsible for correcting and guiding your kids. But how you express your corrective guidance makes all the difference in how a child receives it.
When you have to confront your child, avoid blaming, criticizing, or fault-finding, which hurt self-esteem and can lead to resentment. Instead, try to nurture and encourage, even when disciplining your kids. Make sure they know that although you want and expect better next time, your love is there no matter what
Face it — you are an imperfect parent. You have strengths and weaknesses as a family leader. Recognize your abilities — "I am loving and dedicated." Vow to work on your weaknesses — "I need to be more consistent with discipline." Try to have realistic expectations for yourself, your partner, and your kids. You don't have to have all the answers — be forgiving of yourself.
Engage in competitive games with your child but don’t let them win all the time.
Take walks and engage in meaningful dialogue.
Go on trips, picnics and holidays together.
Show your appreciation for their successes, no matter how small.
Offer advice when they are facing challenges.
Allow them to make mistakes and facilitate their learning from them.
Carve out time for meaningful conversations when your child is ready.
Watch their favourite movies and TV shows with them.
Spend quality time as a family, both laughing and crying.
Share stories from your own life with your child.
Establish a bedtime ritual of reading stories together.
Cook meals together and encourage creativity.
BENEFITS OF SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN
After using all the tips for good parenting you will start seeing these changes in your children.
Positive Behaviour
When parents take the time to be with their children, they often exhibit a positive outlook on life. This optimistic attitude makes it easier for children to tackle difficult challenges. This upbeat demeanour is also reflected in their interactions with others, leading to more positive experiences for everyone.
Mentally Healthy
Spending time with your kids is essential for their mental well-being and mood. When they are mentally healthy, children are better able to learn and acquire new skills at school. Keeping their mental health in check can also help to cultivate new interests and activities. Furthermore, children with supportive parents are less likely to suffer from depression or stress.
Academic Results
Parents who invest time and energy into the academic pursuits of their kids are likely to see them excel in school, due to their understanding of the importance of education for the achievement of future aspirations.
Reduces Stress
At present, children are dealing with a lot of stress, so spending time with them can help reduce their stress levels both physically and mentally.