guidelines

  001.    Mutuals preferred, but I’m willing to interact with anyone!  

I’m rarely selective these days. If I follow, I’d like to interact. I’m dealing with debilitating anxiety and rejection sensitivity these days, but I’ll do my best to reach out. I don’t mind receiving asks or random starters whenever.

(I'm very anxious about sending meme asks as a first interaction, if that's your thing.) 

  002.    This blog will contain triggering themes like self-harm, unhealthy relationships, mentions of abuse and war crimes, horror imagery, body horror, etc. Everything will be tagged ‘trigger tw’. If I don't tag something that you'd like tagged, please let me know! 

  004.    This blog is the opposite of fast. My replies tend to be quite delayed from chronic pain and overwhelming anxiety. This isn't the blog if you're looking for consistent activity. 🦥

(However when I struggle to write, I plan on posting some art inbetween.)

  005.    Sometimes I struggle to find an appropriate response in a current thread and prefer to start something new with the previous interactions in mind (although it's usually only when I get comfortable). There are instances where I forget threads, it's 500% okay to remind me!  

  006.     If I follow and unfollow repeatedly within a short amount of time, it’s on accident or I am incredibly anxious. Tumblr UI is confusing and faulty at the best of times. If I feel like you aren’t interested in rping with me, I’ll unfollow once. 

There might be times when I forget who I followed/unfollowed in the first place. So to keep things short, if I'm making you uncomfortable, please block me and I'll get the message. 

  007.    Ableism, racism, sexism, transphobia, or any bigotry out-of-character will not be tolerated. There is a thin line I can tolerate in rp. (If it's an Obsidian game then I get it to some extent u kno. 🤷) No actual racial slurs thanks. 

  008.    Currently just past Heavensward in FFXIV, and I'm trying not to engage in spoilers at this time. I'm really sorry, 'm aware that limits rp interactions by a lot. I am a sprout who struggles in multiplayer dungeons, so if you have any tips on rotations and remembering things I am open! orz 

  009.    I love ships, platonic or otherwise and plotting relationships in general. If it seems like our characters have chemistry, I might reach out, but I completely understand if you don't feel the same way!! 

Concerning games with dating sim aspects, I might ship an oc with a canon character, however I won't force someone rping that character into said ship. 

  008.    All icons are my own for the time being. Please don't use any without permission.  

  009.    I'm coming back after a very long hiatus, there are lots of things I need to learn (like this website!) and relearn.  I don't know every bit of lore there is, or the latest drama. Please don't expect too much of me regarding that.

I don't want to clog up the page but I know there are things I definitely missed, I'm more than happy to clarify anything! 

Almost forgot I'm Sui/Mint, 29 yrs old (she/they). East asian adoptee. Thank you so much for reading, I hope to get to know you and your character(s) soon. 💕