This infographic demonstrates that no matter what you feel at any moment while parenting, it is valid and okay. Specifically, it says "when your child struggles". As a parent, it can be hard to see your child struggle or be in a rough spot in their life. This doesn't mean that you're not allowed to still feel joy or that you HAVE to carry all of the joy for the both of you. One of the things in the infographic that I think is a great takeaway is to put yourself first so that you can keep on giving. It feels like your child should always be put before you, but you can't be there for them if you aren't prioritizing yourself and your own health and needs.