Tantric massage has ancient roots but is enjoyed with a more contemporary twist. Like a mashup between an erotic massage and a session of mindfulness. Instead of merely giving your partner an erotic massage, there are a few key elements that are involved.
Mastering The Art Of Vaginal Massage
A tantric massage requires both parties to be in the right mindset. Mentally, physically, spiritually. This is not only for the full enjoyment and benefits, but also to make sure that the transfer of energy between two people is light, positive, and calm. Take note of your breath during the massage, and try to clear your mind of any intrusive thoughts or worries.
This sensitive area is a wonderful pleasure spot that you can massage by putting a bit of pressure about an inch away from the anus until the receiver feels a little jolt of excitement. Then, stroke and stimulate simultaneously for added bliss.
And just like the lingam massage, if climax is achieved early on, you can continue to massage various parts of the body, depending on the sensitivity and wishes of the receiver. Perhaps their erogenous zones are too sensitive after climax, so listen to their requests and body language to continue the massage or not.
Yoni massage allows you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can help people who usually feel finished after one orgasm to achieve multiple orgasms, and it's especially beneficial for people with vaginas who have never had an orgasm.
Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips, your knees up, and your feet on the ground. Have your favorite massage oil handy. I prefer coconut oil for its silky feel and sensual aroma.
While clitoral stimulation is great foreplay for sexual intercourse, a body massage or tantric breast massage is a great warm-up for the yoni massage. The goal here is to get relaxed and slowly build arousal.
Start with some coconut oil on the belly and gently massage there. The belly is an often overlooked area of the body but has many nerve endings. Massage the rib cage, between the breasts, and the lower abdomen.
To find the G-spot, curve your first two fingers like the letter C and slide them into the vagina. Feel for a slightly ridged area at the top of the vaginal canal, located about an inch or two in, behind the external clitoris. You can massage it by making a come hither movement with your curved fingers. Vary between fast and slow strokes. You can also tickle the external clit simultaneously at the tip, or place pressure on or above the pubic bone.
Yoni massage isn't about having one orgasm. It's about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. It can be done alone or done by a partner, either as an activity by itself or as a part of a sexual encounter involving other sexual acts like oral sex and intercourse.
Now, to be a true Master of Manual Stimulation, you need to add the other hand and stimulate her clitoris on the outside. With one hand on the inside working all those lovely vaginal spots, your other hand will be stimulating her clitoris.
Pompoir is a sexual technique in which the woman uses her vaginal muscles to stimulate the man's penis.[1][2][3][4][5] Both partners remain still, while the woman strokes the man's erection using rhythmic, rippling pulses of the pubococcygeus muscles, so this practice is best performed in a woman on top position.
The V-spot is a gathering of nerve endings past the labia minora at the entrance of the vaginal canal. Stimulate this spot by licking the vagina from top to bottom and penetrating slightly with your tongue.
Work the clit and G-spot in a consistent rhythm, and she will soon leave planet Earth. If your finger gets tired, switch to a vibrating finger massager vibrator like the Be One Vibrator from Fun Factory:
Toys will allow you to stimulate multiple erogenous zones during cunnilingus. This is the most important factor in delivering explosive orgasms and mastering your downtown game.
Erin has been a practicing massage therapist since 2001, she is a graduate of The Muscular Therapy Institute, and has taken several continuing education courses to better her education and learn new modalities in her field. Erin has built up a steady clientele through her 20 years of practicing and gives 110% to each client every single visit.
Erin specializes in the combination of both relaxing and deep tissue massages. Erin also enjoys providing prenatal massages as well as cranial sacral work. Erin is a fitness instructor and has been an athlete for most of her life so she also enjoys helping athletes get back into the game. Erin works best when clients can find peace and quiet so she can make that magic happen.
So here is the ultimate guide to achieving female stimulation through clit massage, as this is information you should surely take the time to learn, so that you know exactly how to make her beg for your attention. If you are wanting to learn how to rub clit, this guide is the one for you.
This will protect her skin from friction burns and make rough-play much more prolonged and pleasurable. Run your fingers up and down, starting from perineum to clit, and you can run one or two fingers into the vaginal canal now and then for a teasing touch.
There are several ways you can massage her clit. These range from gentle tapping motions on her clit and hood, slowly building her orgasm (Speed it up if you like), making a peace sign using your first two fingers and gently pinching the clitoral hood while softly tugging up and down, or sliding your fingers back-and-forth. Draw circles around her clit and hood, including labia in the circumference.
The best way for clitoral stimulation is a clitoral massage. Rubbing your clit against any person or object can result in waves of pleasure traveling through your body. It is also possible in a fully clothed body and without needing hands too!
Make her straddle on your one leg instead of both. Bend your knee so she can ride high on your leg, rubbing herself up and down. Again, vaginal penetration with a toy, hand, or penis can maximize pleasure for her.
Engage your sense of touch, smell and taste during foreplay with this 3-in-1 candle. Set the mood with a romantic glow, use the edible massage oil to touch and caress your partner, and get your mouth involved when ready.
A byproduct of sensual massage also tends to be sexual arousal and, ultimately, release. And, while this byproduct is certainly desired by both you and your partner, it should never be the main focus of your sensual massage sessions.
The only problem will be the soaking of the bedsheets every night. In fact, there is even a special massage you can use to become more orgasmic. There are also the squirter dimples that are an indicator that she can/ you can squirt.
Squirting is a sure sign that your lover is fully aroused. This means that intercourse after squirting can be the perfect time to bring your partner to vaginal orgasm, and it may also help her to squirt during intercourse as opposed to just squirting from g-spot stimulation.
Karsai1 is an ancient form of genital massage practised in Thailand for ages undocumented. It was mostly passed on orally from teacher to student by teaching and practicing without books, in a similar way as other forms of ancient Thai massage were passed on such as Tok Sen or Gua Sha. Much of what perhaps was documented in a distant past was probably lost during a great fire in the famous Wat Pho temple in Bangkok a few centuries ago, and sadly nowadays the Thai authorities are not fond of this type of massage because it explicitly involves the sexual organs and they are frantically trying to cleanse the image and reputation of Thailand as something which is completely asexual, which, of course, doesn't reflect the truth. So instead of supporting and promoting a genuine local and authentic type of healing that can bring great benefit to many people, they try to suppress it and don't recognize2 schools and teachers teaching it. This is why, if you find a good therapist who has been schooled in a tradition with a certain lineage, you're lucky.
Above all, Karsai is a therapeutic massage which main aim is to improve genital health. Karsai aims to provide a healing massage of the entire genital system, by clearing blockages in the lymphal system, testicles, scrotum, penis and so on.
Karsai can be applied to both men and women (obviously with different techniques) but is more popular with men than with women. This is of course because men tend to be more concerned with sexual performance than women and women are more shy to take this kind of service.
Karsai massage in its original meaning is not a sexual massage, not a sensual massage and not a happy ending massage.
[If you are looking for a happy ending massage or body-to body-massage, simply check out these other pages.]
Karsai massage aims to improve genital health by clearing ducts, removing blockages and freeing up the flow of energy both in the genital area and in the belly (internal organs) area, which is tightly connected to the genitals.
Effects that people have reported after taking Karsai massage are: better erection, feeling energized not just in the testicles and scrotum but also in general all over the body, better sexual performance, less pain, etc.
TIP: If you're interested in a massage that gives a lot of attention to your genitals but you don't really need the Thai style therapy part, you may consider taking a Lingam massage instead.
During and right after Karsai massage, it is not recommended to ejaculate. Karsai massage is a therapeutical treatment, and ejaculation might lessen some of the beneficial energetic effects of the massage.
Compare it to a solid therapeutical Thai massage: right after clearing blockages in your muscles, you're not supposed to go to the gym and have a heavy work out, rather you should drink a lot of water and take it easy for a moment or perhaps let your muscles relax with a mild swim.
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