Love, not anger

Beyond Involuntary Celibacy

Love Not Anger is a project to research how lonely people might find respectful love, instead of being stuck in anger. We envision a society where everyone can find the love they want, while respecting other people.

According to our recent survey results, many people of all genders find themselves lonely, unable to find dating or sexual partners, for many reasons. Nobody is entitled to sex, but everybody deserves love and respect. Can we help each other find happiness, instead of descending into anger, hatred and violence? If you're an adult with little or no dating experience, visit our companion site Connect2Hope for support information.

Love Not Anger was founded on April 28, 2018 by Alana, who originated Involuntary Celibacy in 1997. Subscribe to the newsletter to get updates from Love Not Anger about once a month. We would appreciate a donation to cover the time it takes to research and raise awareness about these issues.

Academics and mental health professionals are now invited to collaborate in researching how to support people who are lonely for love. This will lead to developing helpful information and support services. We are seeking partnerships with non-profit organizations to do this work.