Meduza 24.02.2025
We received a letter from a reader asking us to publish it. In this letter, the man tells his story and warns men against the main mistake. At the request of the man, we are publishing the letter in the form in which it came to us.
Letter from Usman Rajagopal
Hello!
My name is Usman Rajagopal. I am 63 years old, I am from Bangalore.
I WANT TO TELL YOU THE STORY OF HOW I LOST EVERYTHING I HAD. HEALTH, FAMILY, MY BELOVED WIFE. AND ALL BECAUSE OF IMPOTENCE!
I have lived a good life. My wife and I raised 3 children and now have 2 grandchildren. We were a close-knit family, and we walked hand in hand all our lives. Of course, there were different things - both sorrows and joys. How could it be otherwise, but we overcame everything. Because we had love! And then it passed. Unexpectedly for me, and for my wife, too, I think. And my age-related impotence is to blame for everything. More precisely, my attitude towards it...
I am writing this text only to warn all men that the ability to have sex is much more important than it may seem, and that as soon as you lose this ability, everything collapses at once! But I will start from the beginning
I have never had problems with potency all my life. I was a runner and was quite athletic.
My wife was also a runner, it brought us closer. We even met on the track. We were not professional athletes, but we participated in almost all the races that were held in our city and nearby cities. We even won prizes. But that's not the point, the point is that I had no health problems. And my potency has always been excellent.
Sushmita is my second wife. I lived with my first wife for 2 years in my youth, and we divorced. Fortunately, we didn't have time to have children. That is, all the children my wife and I have are joint and we love them very much.
We also loved sex. It was always sensual and bright for us. Sorry for such details, but without them, there is no way to tell a full story. Of course, when we were young, sex was frequent. With age and the appearance of children, we did it less often, but always with pleasure.
In my entire life, I have never cheated on my wife, and I think she, before I had problems with potency, did too!
I forgot to say that the age difference between us is insignificant - 4 years, but unlike men, women can always have sex. Even after menopause. And they not only do it, they want it. As you probably understand now, I am already moving on to my problems…
They started around 45. Perhaps, if we consider the physiological processes in detail, they were there earlier, but it was at 45 that I realized that it was them. That is, I felt a breath of age-related fading of sexual abilities, if I can say so.
At the same time, I had an erection. Not as often as in my youth (when I thought about sex constantly), but stable and strong. But something worse happened.
I SUDDENLY STARTED NOTICING THAT I WAS GETTING MUCH LESS PLEASURE FROM SEX THAN BEFORE! THAT IS, SEX WAS FULL-FLEDGED, I HAD ORGASMS, BUT THE ORGASMS THEMSELVES DID NOT BRING THESE MINUTES OF UNLIMITED HAPPINESS THAT WERE BEFORE. THEY BECAME UNINTERESTING!
I don’t know if this happens to other men, but that’s exactly what happened to me. It was as if I had previously secreted more pleasure hormones, but at the age of over 45, they began to be secreted much less. I’m not a doctor, but most likely this is true.
Because of this, I stopped wanting to have sex! And I even started to avoid it in different ways. I told my wife that I had no time, that I had no strength, or I came up with something else. Of course, when I hadn’t had sex for several days, I wanted it more. But in general, I stopped wanting to have it!
The intervals between sex began to become longer and longer. As a result, at 50, we had sex once every 2 weeks at best. We could go a month without it.
I admit honestly, I thought little about my wife then, about what she felt. Of course, I asked her what she thought about it. She answered that she was happy with everything. Her answer was quite satisfactory and calming for me. Only later, when my whole life fell apart, I realized that she was deceiving me.
At first, Sushmita tried to seduce me and cheer me up (only now I understand that she already guessed what was happening to me), but this did not bring any results and eventually she stopped too.
And then something terrible happened - my erection disappeared completely!
One day, my penis simply did not get hard. It was so unexpected and frightening that I immediately wanted sex by any means necessary.
Naturally, like most men in such cases, I ran to the pharmacy for Viagra. It helped. This time and several subsequent times. However, again I did not get any pleasure from sex. At the same time, the erection was such that it seemed that the penis would burst from the tension. But it was an artificial erection that did not bring pleasure. There was no desire for sex itself.
As a result, after a few months, I stopped taking Viagra. And I accepted that everything - my sex life was over and now I was impotent! And the moment I accepted this, I felt a certain freedom. Freedom from all these love experiences and relationships with women. However, this freedom turned out to be extremely destructive!
If you think about it, sex, its desire affects most of our lives. And in many ways, our actions and decisions depend on sexual desire. And when there is no desire, you get freedom. And it seems happiness ...
But this is the main deception - there is no happiness from impotence! Because a person who does not have sex is not needed by nature, and it tries to kill him. I read this on the Internet, but I think this is an accurate idea.
Why is that? Because the main goal of any living being is the continuation of the race. And when a person loses this opportunity, for nature he becomes an extra useless mouth, and it tries to get rid of him. This is embedded in our bodies by nature!
As soon as men stop having sex, they start to age and become decrepit. This has been proven by doctors, and I have experienced it myself!
The joy of not having to worry about anything sexually anymore was replaced by numerous problems with both health and family life. Sushmita, who said that she was happy with everything, eventually started cheating on me. But first, I will tell you about health - about how impotence kills people!
The very first thing to make itself known from the lack of sex was the prostate - I developed chronic prostatitis. The prostate is the organ in which the secretion is produced. The secretion is the main component of sperm. When sex is present in a man's life, the prostate is constantly emptied, and the secretion is renewed. When there is no sex, the secretion in the prostate stagnates and goes bad.
Literally, it goes bad. Pathogenic bacteria start up in the secretion. This causes the prostate to become inflamed, and prostatitis appears. Over time, prostatitis can develop into adenoma and prostate cancer.
Prostatitis itself is a very unpleasant disease. When the prostate becomes inflamed, it compresses the urinary tract, and you simply cannot go to the toilet "to pee". Urine flows drop by drop, and this process itself is very painful and tiring. Because of it, you do not sleep at night, because you constantly want to go to the toilet. As a result, you do not get enough sleep and are broken all the time.
The second thing that began to worry me is blood vessels and pressure! It turns out that this is another wonderful property of sex.
When we do it, our blood vessels are cleared and the heart muscle is trained!
When there is no sex in life, blood vessels quickly become clogged with cholesterol, and the heart becomes decrepit. My blood pressure started to spike! As a result, hypertension developed and now my day begins with taking pills. Every day! And I'm only 63 years old!
I had never thought before that sex has such a strong effect on our mood, not only during orgasm, but also in our everyday life. When sex stopped exciting me, my whole life became monotonous and not bringing any pleasure. Absolutely nothing stopped making me happy! I didn't even want to watch TV. I didn't want anything at all.
This happens because hormones are produced during sex that stimulate our nervous system. And when these hormones are absent for a long time, you fall into a hole of constant depression. And it's unbearable! It turns out that sex is necessary, you can't live without it!
That's why quitting sex was my stupidest decision! Don't repeat it! As soon as you stop having sex, you will very quickly become sick, old, helpless, lonely!
Another important property of sex is that it strengthens family relationships! When there is sex, there is love. When sex disappears, love disappears. And this happens automatically! I even think that this happens at the level of our biochemistry! Our hormones. When a person does not receive these hormones, his feelings fade away on their own. It is impossible to control!
My wife, who loved me all her life, cheated on me. I guessed about it and after that she confessed to me! What I felt then and what I feel now, remembering this, I cannot put into words.
But at the same time, I understand that sex is important for her too. And when it is absent, but the desire is still there, the head works completely differently and looks for ways. I cannot forgive her, but I understand her. As I understand that I am to blame for this myself! I could not give her what she needed, and she found it on the side.
Sexual impotence of husbands pushes wives to cheat!
Is it right? Or should she have remained faithful to me, ignoring her health? I don’t know. But I know one thing. More precisely, I understood one thing – YOU CAN’T QUIT HAVING SEX AND I WAS VERY STUPID WHEN I DID IT!
ESPECIALLY CONSIDERING THAT IT IS VERY EASY TO FIGHT ELDERLY IMPOTENCE NOW! THERE ARE SPECIAL DRUGS FOR THIS! THAT IS, IF A MAN WANTS TO HAVE SEX UNTIL HE IS 80-90 YEARS OLD, HE CAN EASILY DO IT!
I learned about this class of drugs from a doctor the last time I saw him about prostatitis. This class is called “vascular tonics”. They have nothing to do with Viagra (and similar drugs) and act completely differently. They are aimed at restoring natural potency, and not at temporarily enhancing an erection immediately after taking them.
I will briefly tell you how these drugs work. As the doctor told me or even as I understood it. Look…
Two large vessels approach the penis – the dorsal artery (through which blood is supplied) and the dorsal vein (through which blood is drained). Both vessels have valves that can block the blood flow. When a man is aroused, the dorsal vein is blocked, and the dorsal artery opens completely. When the arousal subsides, the dorsal artery is blocked, and the dorsal vein opens.
Age-related problems with impotence begin when the valve in the dorsal vein stops holding the blood flow. At first it leaks, and then a weak erection appears. And then it stops holding completely – an erection does not appear!
This is approximately how the mechanism of filling the penis with blood works. The penis itself is a sponge and consists of cells that are filled with blood (due to this, it increases in size)
Vascular tonics are aimed at strengthening the vascular valves and thus they return the ability to have potency. And at any age!
In addition, these drugs contain special substances that activate the production of testosterone and thereby increase the desire for sex, as well as the pleasure received from sex. Remember I said that after 45 years I began to get less pleasure from sex? As the doctor said - this is precisely because the body after 40 years reduces the production of testosterone - the main male hormone.
Also, these drugs are aimed at defrosting nerve endings and increasing the sensitivity of erogenous zones.
How well do they help? After all these health and personal life problems, I decided to regain my potency. But I was worried - would I be able to. After all, at that time I had not had potency for 4 years at all. Maybe everything had already atrophied?
But it turned out that everything can be restored even in my case! And I worried in vain. Now I will describe how my potency appeared and how my youth actually returned to me!
As I wrote above, I am now 63 years old and only after my potency was restored, I realized that I had written myself off as an old man too early! I can enjoy sex for another 30 years! My doctor told me this! That is, in fact, any man can have sex until death! Since vascular tonics help very well at any age!
In total, the restoration of potency took about a month. I took a drug called Libidex. In India, there is only one like this, but, as my doctor told me, this drug is not bad.
Libidex can be used to enhance an erection (as a replacement for Viagra), and for a course of restoring natural potency. I took it for the second. 2 capsules a day, one in the morning, the second in the evening.
My penis began to come to life on about the 4th day. A weak erection appeared, it was not enough to perform a full sexual act, but it was definitely an erection. When your penis is like a rag for 4 years, you notice its swelling right away.
As I took Libidex, my potency grew stronger every day. About 2 weeks after the course, the erection could already be called full. As the doctor told me, it usually takes much less time. If potency has disappeared recently, then Libidex is able to return it on the 3rd day. I have not had potency for a very long time, that's why it took so long.
Now my potency, of course, is not the same as in my youth, but it is also strong and, what is important, it appears on its own, when, for example, I think about women, and not after taking Viagra.
And most importantly! My desire for sex returned, the desire to communicate with women, I began to get pleasure, which disappeared from me much earlier than the erection itself.
As I already said, I decided to write this letter to warn men not to make my mistakes! Sex is important for our health and personal happiness. Impotent people are not needed by anyone, neither by nature nor by women. Not even by themselves! Because without sex there will be no good mood, and instead there will be many diseases.
And if pharmacology couldn't help men in the past, now, as it turns out, there are very effective drugs that help at any age and even when you no longer have impotence, as in my case. And they not only help restore potency itself, but also restore the desire for sex (which, in my opinion, is no less important). Don't give up having sex!
Thank you for reading to the end.
Best wishes,
Usman Rajagopal
Suraj Ganguly, urologist, professor, answers our questions
- Yes, it really is. Vascular tonics are a new word in the field of treating erectile dysfunction in men. They appeared relatively recently (that is, they can be called new drugs), but have already proven themselves very well.
Unlike other drugs, they are really capable of not just enhancing an erection due to abnormal vasodilation (as, for example, Viagra does), but also restoring sexual function in men.
Usman Rajagopal correctly wrote that at the moment in India vascular tonics are provided by only one drug - Libidex. This is due to the fact that due to the complex composition of these drugs, they are currently produced in limited quantities and are not supplied abroad. That is, each country produces such drugs for itself.
Libidex is produced by the New Delhi Institute of Urology, which is also engaged in its distribution.
Libidex contains about 30 different active ingredients and has several dozen useful effects, I will list some of them.
Libidex's beneficial effects for men:
Strengthens collagen ligaments of vascular valves (this is the effect aimed at curing age-related impotence, Usman Rajagopal described it well)
Restores testosterone production (after the course, a man produces as much of this extremely important male hormone as is produced at about 30 years old). Passion directly depends on the amount of testosterone in the blood.
Increases the filling of the cavernous bodies of the penis with blood (due to this, the penis in an erect state increases by 10-15%)
Increases interest in the opposite sex and sex in general
Unfreezes nerve endings in erogenous zones, and thereby increases sexual sensitivity
Increases the quality and quantity of sperm
Increases the duration of sexual intercourse (up to 3 hours with active movements)
Improves the health of the prostate gland, which doctors often call "a man's second heart".
In general, the drug is very good. If you have problems with potency due to age, then most likely it will help you. The effectiveness of Libidex in the treatment of age-related impotence is 96% (clinically proven effectiveness). These are very high figures.
Especially for our readers, below we place a direct online application form for Libidex. If you want to order this drug, fill out the form. Your data will be sent directly to the Institute. A consultant will contact you at the specified contacts within 10 minutes after sending the application. You will need to tell him the delivery address, and you can also ask him any questions about Libidex.
Libidex is delivered by courier services to any region of the countries!
If you want to restore the strength of your potency (strengthen weakened or return lost potency), then this is a good chance for you to try Libidex!
Attention! You can place an order for Libidex only from India (the drug is not sent abroad) and only while the allocated batch is still available.
There are currently packages left:
To receive, please provide your name and phone number.
A specialist will contact you and confirm the order details.
*(If you do not fill the form before the scheduled time, you can nominate someone else, as the number of medicines is very less).
Has anyone tried this drug? Please write, does it really help? Unlike the author of the letter, I want to have sex until I'm dizzy, but I can't, I just can't get it up!! And Viagra gives me a terrible headache. Is this drug better than Viagra???
22.02.2025
The drug is very good. It helped me better than everything else. My potency started to fail six months ago. I tried a lot of things to strengthen it. Only Libidex really helped. I sincerely recommend at least trying
22.02.2025
I liked it too. The effects are impressive. I can't even believe it's natural.
12.02.2025
I need to order one for my husband. Lately, sex has become a nightmare. Half an hour of foreplay and 2 minutes of the act itself with a flaccid penis. It's terrible. If Libidex doesn't help, I'll leave him. I don't want to live with an impotent man!
23.02.2025
I ordered it. It turned out to be very profitable, much more profitable than taking Viagra. Now I'm waiting for it to be delivered. I can't wait to try it.
23.02.2025
A friend of mine also told me about this drug. It helped him a lot! He is 59 years old, before that he said that he stopped getting it up at all, and after a course of Libidex he gets it up often.
23.02.2025
The same!
24.02.2025
The drug is very good! I confirm. I have personal experience of using it. Before that, there was no potency for 3 years, after the course everything became normal. Even morning erections appear, which have not been there for 10 years for sure. Now at 69 they can have sex like a 30-year-old!
25.02.2025
Thanks for the recommendations. I ordered Libidex. Potency has not disappeared completely yet, but it has become noticeably weaker. I really hope it will help
25.02.2025
It helped me a lot! All problems disappeared. I had the same thing as you. Sometimes it refused to get up at the most inopportune moments, sometimes it disappeared right during sex, now there is nothing like that. Everything is fine. I am 52 years old
25.02.2025
I was pleasantly surprised by Libidex. I have been taking it for only 3 days, and my potency has already become much harder. I am happy, and so is my wife. My wife especially) she is 8 years younger than me
26.02.2025
Tell me, will it help at 74, when I already have prostatitis?
26.02.2025
It will help! When a man starts having regular sex, prostatitis gradually goes away!
26.02.2025
I liked it too. I am 67 years old. Lately, I have had almost no potency. It appeared very rarely. I tried a lot of things to get it back. Folk recipes, pills, I went to the urologist many times. The only thing that helped was this drug. Sex is now stable once a week. Plus, my health has improved because testosterone is healthier for the male body.
27.02.2025
I also drank Libidex. The thing works. It arrived in 6 days. I ordered it at first out of curiosity, did I really think that it was possible to increase an erection like that and, most importantly, prolong sexual intercourse. I came after work, read the instructions completely, they wrote that it can be combined with alcohol. She drank some wine, I drank some cognac, the act lasted a little less than 2 hours, we watched all the movies, as for recovery, it’s different, well, a minute on average.
27.02.2025
I am very grateful to you for this information. And the drug is also at such a price. My husband has had no potency for a year now, he is very upset about this. Interest in life has completely disappeared. I really hope that they will return. I ordered it today, they said they will deliver it in 2 days.
28.02.2025
Congratulate me too, I also became a happy owner of Libidex! I took 4 packages at once))) After all, there are so many family holidays ahead, and I'm tired of arguing with my wife.
28.02.2025
You took 4, but for someone now even one is not enough...
28.02.2025
Thanks for the interesting article. I will definitely order it!
28.02.2025
Neighbor. 65 years old. Has a lot of sex. He also told me about this drug. I don't need it yet, but I took note
01.03.2025
I'm 61 years old, I haven't had potency for 4 years. I went to a urologist (for another problem), and among other things, he advised me to take a course of Libidex to improve my overall health. After the course, I felt sexual desire. Now not often, but potency appears. Sometimes we have sex. I began to feel better
01.03.2025
Ordered. The operator said that there are only a few packages left and they are selling out fast. If you want, order quickly. There are only a few left.
01.03.2025
Phew, I managed to order for my husband while there are still some. Thank you very much!
01.03.2025
I ordered it too! Thank you very much
02.03.2025
The drug is really the bomb. I didn't expect that. I bought it to increase potency, and it copes with that with a bang. I took it before sex, and after 5 minutes I had the same erection as from 2 Viagra tablets. And no jumping heart, red face, or danger of getting a heart attack or stroke. I didn't feel anything in the morning! No nausea, no headache! I died every morning from Viagra. The drug is really very good.
02.03.2025
I'll probably order it too
02.03.2025
