As a teacher, I can help you identify with clarity around who you are and what you want in life.

Thank yourself so much right now for inquiring about Relationship Management and Sex Coaching! I can’t wait to hear more so I can plan how best to support you in creating a life you love.   The first step is to  Discover where you stand then decide where your “north star” is and commit to building your life according to that vision. My Consultation is the first step in honoring that commitment to yourself.

Tough love alert! It’s up to you to be proactive in making changes and implementing the habits and disciplines we develop in our sessions. I can only take you as far as you’re willing to take yourself. But I promise I will be there every step you take, cheering you on as you transform your life!

This service guide will provide you with everything you need to know about working together, answer some of the questions you may have, and outline the different ways I can help you.  At the end, I’ll share how to take the next steps and set up a complimentary discovery call to learn more. 

The 21st century human is living an existence that is rooted in traditional therapy and religious morality exacerbated by the freedom and variety of the internet. One part of life is rational and concealed in our reputations. The other part is sexual, raw, and open looking for the intimacy of being seen in our vulnerability and accepted. In the first part, we judge and talk and think about ourselves and this world in a sexless, socially-acceptable fashion. In the second part, when we let down our guard we look at porn, have sex, or go wild with other hedonistic pleasures. Traditional therapy uses the first part (the concealed rational thinker) to release and conquer the second part (the sexually vulnerable feeler). Erotic management bridges these two parts.

Combine Naked Therapies like Massage, Somatic Bodywork, trauma informed touch and Erotic Management can lead the curious to discover authenticity in their transformational journey. Acknowledging our needs and wants with authentic acceptance focuses on sexuality in a positive way, without devaluation or shame.  Divergent Relationship and Erotic Management explore your desires in an attempt to discover something that's exciting and engages the rational parts of your life. 

As my clients will tell you, Erotic Management is the best modality I've found to teach the implementation of sacred sexuality. Nudity is implemented when it advances the progress of the client. Sometimes nakedness is used in the same way a traditional therapist might use techniques like dream analysis, free association, neuro-linguistic programming or play therapy. Other times being naked is part of an attempt to access the client's vulnerability when talking about sexual fantasies or relationship issues, or confidence and performance concerns. We will consider what most makes you feel supported in the moment and why Erotic Management occurs in a way that is very different and far more engaging and arousing than anything a traditional therapist or sex worker can do. I am here to help my clients gain insights that can be hard to realize, are challenging, or are often uncomfortable. That’s why it’s an educational practice and why it’s ultimately a more transformational experience. 

Q: I still don’t get it – why nude?

Nakedness makes your therapeutic interaction with me completely different from a traditional therapeutic experience. You may feel aroused, inhibited, afraid, curious, intimate – any number of things. And these feelings/experiences change the therapeutic picture through massage and somatic bodywork. They change how you feel, what we talk about, how we relate. They change your entire therapeutic experience, so they change the therapeutic outcome.

Q: Nothing’s wrong with me, so why should I seek therapy? 

What’s special about Relationship and Erotic Management?

There doesn’t have to be anything “wrong” with you. In fact, we’d go one step further and say that the fact that you’re even considering Erotic Management proves that you are open-minded, adventurous, and thoughtful! Why seek my help, then? Because learning Erotic Management will help you gain power through arousal as you investigate who you are and figure out how you can bring more beauty, pleasure and power to your life.  

Q: What are your credentials? Why should I try this?

•   First off, I am not a licensed therapist because I enjoy using techniques which are on the bleeding edge and these are not found in a typical therapist office.

• Because I have studied counseling psychology and human sexuality in my graduate studies,  I have helped hundreds of people, many of whom say that their Relationship and Erotic Management has  made a huge difference in their lives. 

•   Further, I consider myself highly skilled at talking, listening, and counseling while also being  shamelessly blunt in my approach.  

Q: How does a session work? What happens during the sessions?

We share our time addressing your needs and desires, wants and fantasies, love styles and personality.  Each session is different and unique like you, but generally you decide when you’d like to claim some time with me and book a session.

Q: Do I need special software or a camera?

No. When I contact you I’ll give you the particulars as to how you will be sent a facetime link, but no special software or camera is needed. All you need is a high speed Internet connection.

Q: Am I allowed to make special requests?

Yes. In fact, I insist.  You must make your bold requests.  I do have set boundary limits and will only do what I consider to be relevant to your progress.  I am always open minded.  Nudity is optional, but explicitness is never considered to be therapeutically relevant.

Q: There’s no way I can afford to do a session with you.

I know these fees make my services too expensive for some people. I have done my best to keep them as equitable as possible. If you are interested in this experiential Therapy session or Erotic Management session but feel you can’t afford it, please join BITE chats. Not only do I occasionally announce specials, I also share "HERO S3X" tips from our workshops.  This is an effective way to get in touch with some of the benefits of having a personal session with me.

Q: How can you help someone with a porn addiction or obsessive fetish preoccupation?

Nude Therapy and Erotic Management indulges your curiosity to explore your desires in an attempt to discover something that excites and engages the rational parts of your mind. 

Some claim porn addiction emerges because men come to view women as sex objects, and not as real people. A sex object is simply there to gratify them, while a real person is a more complex experience. Ultimately, having sexual relations with a real person can and should be more gratifying than a sex object' fantasy. That’s where erotic management comes in. In your session with me, I can be both sex object and real person because you might be aroused by me as a physical being, but you are discussing deep, personal, sometimes difficult issues with me as a real person. Through this process your fixation to the one-way “sex object arousal experience” begins to dissolve and you open your mind to the two-way sexual experiences you can have in your real life. To put it simply, I work with you to transfer your desire for mindless porn into a desire for mindful arousal, giving you the control and inspiration you need to seek more balance and contentment.

Q: What if I need help now?

Please call 911 or a licensed health professional for immediate or emergency needs promptly.Please call 911 if you need immediate help or are contemplating suicide. You could contact your personal health care professional contact Suicide Prevention Lifeline at http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/  I am not practicing under any license and am not the appropriate support for this particular need. 

Q: What is your cancellation policy?

If you decide to cancel your session and do not want to reschedule.  You can cancel, and 50% refund will be issued.  If you cannot make your scheduled appointment and want to change your appointment time and date, you may do so free of charge as long as it is not within one week of your session date. If it is within one week of your session, you will need to pay a $100 rescheduling fee.

Q: What is the fine print that I agree to when I schedule a session?

For privacy reasons, NO recording of the sessions may be made (video, photo, or text) by you or anyone else. I keep a full recording of our sessions and if it appears in any form of media, I will know who has propagated it, and I will prosecute to the fullest extent of the law.
Further, by entering a therapeutic session with me you agree that only you are responsible for the actions you take as a result of what happens in your session(s). You agree that I am not responsible for the decisions you make and/or the actions you take and you thereby release me from any and all liability of any kind, directly or indirectly related to anything that happens in your therapeutic session(s).
Your confidentiality is of the utmost importance to me. Therefore, I will never reveal your identity or contact information to anyone. I may use quotes from our emails or sessions in studies or documents or web pages having to do with experiential therapy,  but your anonymity will always be completely preserved and no information will ever be released that could in any way be used to identify you.
I like to have fun. But these are professional services. If I feel you are out of line, acting disrespectfully or rudely towards me, I will warn you that if you continue that behavior I will terminate the session. And if you don’t stop that behavior, I will terminate the session and your payment will not be refunded.
By entering a session you swear that you are at least 18 years old.Current terms of agreement will be sent at time of appointment scheduling.

I help my clients see where their life is not matching their mental blueprint and determine the steps needed to make that happen. Together, we identify the areas where limiting beliefs or self-sabotage steal their joy and hinder their ability to make changes. Then we create a plan to implement better habits and mindsets to assist them in creating the life they’ve always wanted. 

Coaching is a collaborative process driven by our needs and priorities. As I teach, I can help guide you through the process of change using proven tools and techniques, but your SMART goals determine the focus of our sessions. 

Our time together is centered around helping you understand the skills, habits, and behaviors necessary to create lasting change in any area of your life. 

Coaching is about helping you better know and understand yourself so you can create the life you truly want.

FOCUS AREAS

I can help you…

• Find clarity around your purpose and mission in life 

• Develop a disciplined and resilient mindset in relationship power dynamics

• Establish goals and determine the important priorities in your relationships 

• Create new habits to set yourself up for success 

• Decide how you want your romantic life to look and feel every day

LEARN MORE ABOUT MY APPROACH

1:1 CONSULTING

1:1 consulting is for clients who want individual attention and advice. This type of coaching provides personalized accountability to help you reach your goals. If you’re ready to do the work, get unstuck, and quickly shift into the next-level version of yourself, 1:1 coaching is right for you.

1:1 includes:

• 50-min individual encrypted Telehealth calls 

• Call recordings + notes stored in the portal

• Unlimited messenger support during office hours

Options include individual sessions, text subscription, or prepay packages of 3, 6, or 12 HOURS and save. 

3 DAY INTENSIVE My signature 3-day intensive program or 3- month self study program both offer the most support with private consulting. The goal of the intensive is to address key areas of your life that are holding you back and create action steps to help you address them. Throughout the three days, you have accountability and support whenever you need it so that you can create massive results in your life. 

The Intensive includes:

• (12) 50-min sessions 

• Call recordings + notes (if requested)

•  Messenger support 

• Access to private Facebook group

GROUP Mastermind

Group mastermind leverages the power of community to create sustainable change in any area of your life. This is for those who value connecting and engaging with others who have similar goals and are on the same path to achieving them. 

Group coaching includes:

• 50-min group Zoom calls 

• Call recordings + notes (if requested)

• Access to private Facebook group "Pleasure Bridgeway"

Group coaching packages can be 3 or 6 month long lesson plans

TELEVisits via FaceTime link

in-person sessions are expensive and intense. 

That's why I offer teleVisit services that allow you to connect with me from the comfort of your own home quickly. 

As always, our sessions are secure, private, and convenient

Leveling up from Good Girl to Goddess - Social Circle

Community can be a powerful way to connect with others who are going through similar challenges of growth. Our group sessions provide a safe and supportive environment where you can share your experiences and learn from others. We offer a variety of times to meet your needs.