Scorpios are some of the most secretive people in the zodiac. They surround themselves with several layers of mysteries, even if you think you know them well. But when you start to peel back each of those skins, you may end up discovering an emotional depth in Scorpio that you couldn't get used to. You can learn more about what to do to better talk, understand and date a Scorpio, if you want to know how to get closer to this elusive man.

1. Learn to recognize the personality traits of the Scorpio. Scorpio guys tend to be very powerful people who exhibit the drive and energy of Mars as well as the dark energy of Pluto. Scorpio men tend to have a calm and brooding intensity. You won't usually find them playing the part of the class clown. In general, Scorpio guys will exhibit the following qualities:

• The loyalty

• inventiveness

• The intensity

• The passion

• jealousy

• Seriousness

2. Decide what you want from the relationship. Do you want a casual relationship with some attachment, or do you prefer a more intimate, long-term relationship that's a little more serious? Scorpio guys can be very intense and sexual in the short term and can develop that passion into a deep and lasting bond, but learning to negotiate these differences is essential to relationship success.

Scorpio guys can be good for an adventure, which makes them ideal short-term partners. However, they sometimes struggle with long-term commitments. No matter what you want, try to find a connection without preconceived ideas of what a relationship should be.

• Sometimes people who want to find a Scorpio partner are looking for a sense of danger or drama, they are looking for a "bad boy." Instead, focus on getting to know this guy and see where this all leads.

3. Evaluate your own birth chart. Dating a scorpio guy is a good option if you have a predominance of a water sign like Cancer or Pisces in your chart. This allows you to empathize with their moods, their emotional currents, and their unspoken thoughts.

• If you're a fire sign (Leo, Aries, or Sagittarius), you can constantly clash with him and end up resentful of all the darkness and melancholy that Scorpios habitually exhibit.

• In general, someone who has a lot of air signs like Libra, Aquarius, or Gemini would not be able to have a relationship with someone who has a Scorpio sun, as their spontaneity can make that person miserable.

• If you are an earth sign person, you may enjoy having a scorpio partner. However, your love for material things and pragmatism may clash with your idealistic, dreamy, and philosophical side. Sometimes the combination works and sometimes it doesn't.

1. Act naturally and show your trustworthiness. Scorpio guys can tell if you're fake. They are the best lie detectors, and they value sincerity and trustworthiness in potential partners. You can rest assured that they will never share a secret you confided in them, and for your own good, it's best not to spread any of them.

• Never lie to a scorpio guy. Breaking trust can be one of the fastest ways to disappoint and lose a Scorpio guy. Even if you think the truth will hurt, it's best to be completely honest.

2. Show that you have some essence. Talk to him about topics that stimulate your passion. Many Scorpio guys secretly feel that the rest of the world lives on the surface of life while they try to go deeper. Show him that you, too, have done a little digging into the deep caverns of meaning. Try to go to the essence of the topic and talk about important topics. Scorpio guys can spot insincerity quickly and will keep their distance if they see it coming.

• It helps if you are intrigued by some of the Scorpio boy's favorite topics like science, political power, and the occult.

• Stay up to date with current events and world issues. Express your opinion regarding what is happening and also ask him what he thinks. Don't refuse to have a good debate. Challenge him on the things you disagree on and stand up for yourself.

3. Share some emotionally intense secrets with a Scorpio guy. Scorpio guys are driven by the desire to totally lose themselves in "the other" to achieve an almost mystical state of Kundalini with another person that makes them feel regenerated, renewed, and reborn. Scorpio guys want to get to know you on an intimate level, but they may shy away from taking the initiative.

• Be honest and answer the questions he asks as honestly as possible. If a Scorpio guy asks you a question, he's not asking you to be nice. The Scorpio guy really wants to get to know you, understand you, and find out why you are the way you are. Give him a clue about what really interests you.

• Scorpio guys will appreciate learning more from you, as they crave emotionally intense honesty. They usually feel that no one will really understand them, but they struggle to express themselves without any encouragement.

4. Spend time contemplating the same things next to him. Scorpio guys are serious and will appreciate your desire to have serious conversations or spend time reflecting together. Scorpio guys don't require constant entertainment or talk in their lives, but they do require spending a lot of time reflecting. You can comfortably share the silence when you are with him. Do not look for simple solutions or vulgar entertainment.

• Talk about books you've both read recently or complicated movies you've seen. Don't brush things off by saying "I didn't like it." Instead, think about them. Discuss them. Discuss together.

• Don't ramble all the time. When you do speak, it should be in essential terms, sharing your hopes, your fears, and your dreams. Not doing Twitter updates.

5. Give him your full attention. When you're with a Scorpio guy, focus your attention on being together and doing what you do. Turn your cell phone off and away when you go out and talk so the guy won't feel like you're ignoring him.

• Make eye contact while you talk. Practice active listening skills, summarizing things he says and responding to them in a timely manner.

6. Do not interfere in his life, but listen to what he tells you. Because a Scorpio man takes delight in being secretive and multi-layered, getting to know him can take some time. However, if you play your cards right, he will appreciate the opportunity to share them with you. Listen when he talks and look for opportunities to get him to open up a bit more.

• If a Scorpio guy says something, don't forget it. It will mean a lot to him if you remember the little details, like the name of his best friend from school or the name of his favorite childhood pet. These little details show that you care.

• Don't make fun of a scorpio guy. If you want to spice up your conversation with humor, try to be a bit dark and sarcastic. A Scorpio guy isn't attracted to silly jokes as they tend to detract from the intensity of a conversation.

1. See every date as an opportunity for adventure. If you're dating a Scorpio guy, try to keep things exciting. Try to have new adventures by his side to give him the motivation he needs to be endlessly fascinated by you.

• Change the language you use to describe your dates. Don't make vague plans like seeing "a movie" or "going out," instead say you want to "make it to a new documentary screening" or want to "explore new places around the pier." Make date ideas specific and engaging.

• If something doesn't work out or he isn't interested in a certain idea, be willing to change plans at the last minute. Learn to be spontaneous when dating a Scorpio guy.

• Try to plan things that excite you. A Scorpio guy is interested in passion, and even if he's not as passionate about a particular activity as you are, he'll be buoyed by your enthusiasm.

2. Go on dates that allow you to be physically intimate. Do you want to get closer to a scorpio guy? Get the blood flowing and their bodies moving. Going out and doing something physical can be a fast track to another kind of physical and emotional intimacy.

• couples massage

• The Yoga

• Outdoor sports, such as basketball, tennis, or golf

• The swimming

• the dance

3. Try to make dating connect you on a level of emotional intimacy. Scorpio guys crave that connection (to get to know someone on a deeper level). Plan dates that allow you to connect in a real way and build something together.

• Spend time with him away from everyone. Take long walks that give you plenty of time to talk, but also to just be in the moment. Spend time together sharing the silence and enjoying each other's presence.

• Plan dates that allow you to talk at length. Dinner will always be better than a movie, in which you must remain silent.

• Attend intellectual events, such as readings, lectures, or debates. Discuss them later.

4. Be careful of the scorpion sting. Scorpio guys are known for their sardonic and sometimes hurtful sense of humor. Sometimes when dating a Scorpio guy, you shouldn't be too touchy. Also, you will have to develop that skill. Try to remind yourself that when a Scorpio guy attacks verbally, it's a defense mechanism that has more to do with him than with you.

• Don't tolerate jealousy or possessiveness, which are common stereotypes of the Scorpio guy. If your guy is dominant and wants to control your life, ending the relationship may be the most appropriate thing to do.

5. Allow yourself to be passionate at the right time. You usually won't have to initiate intimacy with a Scorpio guy, who is passionate and fiery. If you feel passionate feelings starting to surface, don't stop.

Allow yourself to share this moment. In this way, you will be able to ignite the innate loyalty that Scorpio guys show towards the people closest and dearest to them. For some, this may be the deepest kind of love.

• Pay attention to the details. How they drink their coffee, what part of the neighborhood they frequent, what albums they listen to the most on iTunes, what animals they are most excited to see on the street. A Scorpio guy loves to feel appreciated and understood.

• Scorpio is the zodiac's most jealous sign. Those born under this sign can also be violent and spiteful. Also, they may leave you permanently if they think you don't really love them. Once you break a Scorpio guy's trust, you can consider yourself forgiven, but forgotten. They will never let you back.

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