Yesman, yes yes yes, that’s the spirit. You’re a real go-getter, rise up the ladder, and kick the other fools off. Say what the other person wants to hear at the water cooler. Come home to a well-trimmed lawn of a paid-off house. You've not only built a career, but you've also built a life for yourself. Unfortunately you have no one to share it with. Your best friend doesn't even know your name.