How great would it be if you can make someone else falls in love with you, no more wondering how serious they are about you just straight fall in love.
Think about how great that could be, think about how much you could manipulate them… I'm just kidding I would never do that no! ─but seriously it'd be nice right?
Well, I can't give you some spell to just cast on someone. There's a whole free will debate that could be had over something like that but there is something that you can do, certain things that you can say to a guy that convinces himself to like you more and maybe even love you and it's because he enjoys hearing these things so much that sounds impossible right? Trust me not only is it possible, but it's pretty easy to say.
Know The Guy As A Whole
Before giving you these 4 phrases that you can say to a guy that will make him fall in love with you. First off, you need to know that guy is a whole. Regardless of what you might think have to deal with, a ton of insecurities we might not talk about it a lot but believe me, we are constantly judging ourselves on whether or not we're masculine enough or smart enough or good-looking, etc.. and the list honestly goes on forever, I mean we tell ourselves one thing but hearing it from someone else without feeling like they were in any way incentivized to do it or anything like that it just makes us feel way better about ourselves but it also matters who it's coming from you can't just hear from a stranger and be like you know what that stranger, they're right I should believe in myself more.
There are people whose opinions we deeply care about sometimes even when we shouldn't put that on them and our people whose opinions we just don't care about, so try and get some guy to fall in love with you who you've never talked to or maybe a guy who do you know right now isn't interested.
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The bad news is ─there's no magical way to make someone who's not into you but if he's into you or you think he might be into you or it's your first date and you're just trying to hit the ground running any the relationship that you could have where he would value your opinion let's go work so to start.
Phrase#1 “You're Such A Gentleman”
When you're with me if he's holding doors open for you making sure you get home safe walking to your car nice stuff like that we're just any number of things that show as he cares this is just such a great thing for him to hear, in fact just in general words like gentlemen and chivalrous don't get used anymore and I think it isn't damn shame because they say way more than the average compliment as opposed to like, “wow you are so dope my dude you are a sick f*ck!”.
Phrase#2 “You're So Interesting”
Or just anything that's kind of along the vein of you know so much because well honestly, as I said before, guys are insecure when they share cool things they know or give you fun facts on something or just talk about anything that they're interested in what they're really trying to do is impress you and I think a lot of the time people tend to soften their compliments they don't come on too strong and I think that's really dumb when a girl is forward with me on a date or something and says you're so interesting that makes me feel amazing.
I feel good about myself and just in general why would you want to go out with somebody who doesn't make you feel good about yourself unless you're like me and have severe daddy issues but I think that's mostly just me.
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Phrase#3 “I've Never Met A Guy As Motivated As You”
This is my favorite. You can swap out a motivator with determined or hard-working or ambitious any of those would really work the point is generally the same. If a guy's working hard and it could be on school on work on just a hobby or just something new odds are no one's gonna appreciate what he's doing, I mean in general I think most people only get an appreciation for stuff once it's done like once you have a finished product to show people and the act of just trying usually goes unappreciated hearing that you're doing, a good job or at least that your motivation is admirable it makes us want to keep going and any doubts.
We have about what we're doing just completely go away when someone we care about reassures us what we're doing is good and as I said before any girl who makes a guy who feels better with himself is a girl that they're gonna keep around and finally, probably the one that makes us feel the most appreciated.
Phrase#4 “I Can't Wait To See You Again”
I missed you this just says so much while saying so little you know, it says you're someone who I always want to be around. I like myself more when I'm with you, make me happy it's just great to know when you have a significant positive effect on someone that you care about so much so that you're already looking forward to seeing them again and without getting into every single insecurity a guy has this says.
I like you for you and I just think though that's something that every guy appreciates hearing every once in a while.
References
Harry's Masculinity Report 2018 https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf - Men are happiest when a part of something where they feel needed and valued.
Anderson, Cameron & Hildreth, John & Howland, Laura. (2015). Is the Desire for Status a Fundamental Human Motive? A Review of the Empirical Literature. Psychological bulletin. 141. 10.1037/a0038781. - Male need for respect.
Murray, S. H., Milhausen, R. R., Graham, C. & Kuczynski, L. (2016). A Qualitative Exploration of Factors That Affect Sexual Desire Among Men Aged 30 to 65 in Long-Term Relationships. Journal of Sex Research, DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2016.1168352 - Men want to feel wanted and needed.
Terri D. Fisher, Zachary T. Moore, Mary-Jo Pittenger. Sex on the Brain?: An Examination of Frequency of Sexual Cognitions as a Function of Gender, Erotophilia, and Social Desirability. Journal of Sex Research, 2012; 49 (1): 69 DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2011.565429 - Men think about biological needs (e.g. Hero Instinct) more than women.