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THE HIDDEN TRAPS THAT CAN ALTER YOUR FUTURE

Hey there, fellow emotional decision-makers!

We've all been there - feeling all sorts of emotions, whether it's anger, sadness, excitement, or even a combination of all three, and you make a decision in the heat of the moment that you later come to regret. But what if that one seemingly insignificant decision made in a moment of intense emotion could have a huge impact on your future?

Let me tell you a little story to illustrate this point: It's a hot summer day, and you're feeling pretty miserable because you accidentally spilled your iced coffee all over yourself. You're in a foul mood as you walk into a job interview for your dream position. The interviewer asks you to tell them about a time when you had to deal with a difficult situation, and in a fit of frustration, you recount the story of your coffee mishap.

In a perfect world, the interviewer would have chuckled at your misfortune and admired your ability to find humour in a sticky situation. But in this less-than-perfect scenario, the interviewer was not impressed by your lack of professionalism and ability to handle stress. And just like that, the decision to share that story out of frustration cost you the job of your dreams.

Imagine you've been dating someone for a few months, and things are going well. However, you start to notice some concerning behaviours—they're aggressive, controlling, or distant. You feel torn because you care for them and want the relationship to work, but you also feel uncomfortable and uneasy. In the heat of the moment, you might make an emotional decision to ignore the red flags and continue the relationship, hoping that things will improve.

But what if they don't? What if the relationship becomes abusive or toxic, causing you emotional pain and trauma? Making decisions based on emotions can lead us down a dangerous path, one that can have long-lasting impacts on our mental and emotional well-being.

So how can we avoid the trap of emotional decision-making in relationships? Here are some strategies to consider:

Take a step back: When faced with a difficult decision in a relationship, take a step back and give yourself some time to think. This can help you to calm down and think more clearly.

Consider the consequences: Before making a decision, consider the potential consequences of each option. Think about how each decision could impact your life in the short and long term.

Get advice: Seek advice from trusted friends, family members, or counsellors. They can provide valuable insight and help you make informed decisions.

Listen to your gut: While it's important to consider the logical aspects of a situation, it's also important to trust your instincts.

You may think that one small, emotional decision wouldn't have a lasting impact on your future, but the butterfly effect is real, my friends. That one decision could set off a chain of events that alters the course of your life forever.

So, the next time you find yourself filled with emotion and on the verge of making a decision, take a deep breath, count to ten, and think about the long-term consequences. Trust me, your future version will thank you for it.

Remember, emotions are like wild horses; you can either let them run wild and wreak havoc, or you can learn to tame them and ride them to victory. The choice is yours.

Until next time, stay emotional but make wise choices, my friends!

~Written by Astha Patwarika

~Edited by Ashlesha

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