David Wichman

Sex and recovery coaching

Certified Conscious Recovery Coach™


Are you looking for new tools to integrate sexual wellness into your current sobriety path?

Is there a part of your program that feels undiscovered around your unique sexual needs and desires? 

What if there were another perspective? 

Finding a way to move through the world of connecting with other like-minded men can be challenging whether you are in recovery or not. 

Sometimes working with someone who will meet you where you are can be incredibly helpful. 

David Wichman CCR Coach

Welcome! I'm glad you're here. My name is David Wichman, and I am an author, speaker, and certified Conscious Recovery™ coach with a focus on sexual wellness. I have been creating workshops and writing about sex and sobriety for many years. 

It is my deepest passion to witness men at the intersection of sexual freedom in recovery and I am dedicated to helping Queer, Gay, Bi, and Trans-identified men navigate the sacred and beautiful nature of sex love and intimacy

If you are in recovery or seeking guidance around sex in recovery, I hope you will explore working with me free of dogma,shame and judgement. 

 (NOTE: You do not have to be in recovery to work with me.) 

Have you felt confused, judged or does your sexual ideal feel out of place in your recovery community?

This is the work I love to do and have been doing for over 16 years. Much of what I share in my practice comes from my personal experiences and many years of working with men in and out of recovery. I also draw inspiration from the groundbreaking book, "Conscious Recovery"™ by TJ Woodword. If you're ready to explore your inner sexy and make empowering changes in your sex life and journey towards essential wholeness, I invite you to join me. 

Let's navigate the root causes of shame-based imprints and apply practical guidance towards shifting the narrative from brokenness to remembering your wholeness

Together we explore and learn to:

Book an exploratory call today 

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”Rumi

"After struggling for a long time to achieve sobriety, I still felt broken, even years into recovery. I believed there was an emptiness within me that needed constant fixing. But when I discovered the Conscious Recovery Method™, I realized that this emptiness was an invitation, not a flaw. I stopped trying to fix something that wasn't broken and focused on unlearning old ideas that held me back. This shift allowed me to witness new layers in my sober sexual experiences, not just for myself, but also for the men I worked with."

About David Wichman: 

David Wichman is an author, speaker, and Certified Conscious Recovery Coach with a passion for sexual health and advocacy. Over the past 16 years, he has worked with sexually marginalized, disabled, elderly, and trauma-informed men, toward sexual freedom. He has written and  facilitated empowering workshops with astounding results.

David is active in the LGBTQIA+ recovery community with more than 17 years of sobriety. Inspired by the book "Conscious Recovery"™ by TJ Woodward, David discovered a new perspective on recovery and integrates many of the ideas into his practice. He completed the Conscious Recovery coaching certification in 2022. 

In his award winning book, "Every Grain of Sand," David shares his journey of finding his whole and essential self, in part through the Conscious Recovery Method™. He feels a deep calling to work with Queer, Gay, Bi, and Trans-identified men struggling with sober sex and brings a unique perspective and understanding to the importance of sexual wellness in recovery. 

David's wealth of sex-positive wisdom fits well within these mens spaces, and he is dedicated to helping those he works with reclaim their power and authenticity.

You can create lasting and profound shifts in your sex and recovery journey. 

Book an exploratory session with me today.