5. Decide if you want to use a web cam or not. If you decide you do not want to use a web cam but have one hooked up, unhook it, dating.com review many sites show that you have a web cam available and a lot of people don't understand why you wouldn't want to use it. So why wouldn't you? Many reasons, first they can see your surroundings, which you may or may not care about, it's an invasion of privacy (and trust me they look at the stuff around you). Second they can see your every facial expression and you can give away more then you think. And the rest is really a matter of personal comfort level. It's certainly easier to get to know someone through email or msn to start with. dating.com scam Why would you want to use a web cam? Well for all the above reasons about why you wouldn't but it reveals the other person to you.

Chatting - What you shouldn't reveal

I've said it before, I'll say it again, don't use your real name! Use a nickname or a phony name altogether, until you feel you can trust the person enough to say your name. If your dating in your home town or city, sure there might be people on there who know you from your picture, but that doesn't mean everyone should know you. Safety first ladies

It is OK to tell your age, but it is not OK to tell them your birth date. That is information no one needs, that information is often used in government documents or other things that can give you away.

Do not tell them where you work, heck don't even tell them exactly what industry you work in right away. You can say things like lawyer, or doctor (don't say of what though, unless you can trust the person), artist, fashion industry, etc...I tell you this because you don't want that person to just show up at your work.

Don't give any personal family information out, for your safety and your families.

Don't tell them where you live...I think that's obvious, but you never know.

Do not give out your phone number. dating.com review You don't need some creep calling you all the time. Plus if your listed they can find you.

The First Date

The first date can be very nerve wrecking, but follow a few simple steps to make sure it goes safely.

Don't jump into meeting him, chat or email with this person for a couple of weeks or until your ready to meet this person, what I'm saying is don't chat with him today and decide to meet him tomorrow

Do not meet at your house, by now you've probably given him your phone number, but you don't have to, but you still shouldn't tell him where you live, and I hope your number isn't listed with your address. So he shouldn't be picking you up, he should be meeting you.

Tell a friend where your going, give him or her all the details you have, including where your going, who your going with, when they should expect you home. Also give them his number and email or anything where he can be traced.

Meet in a public place, this is more vital then you think. One of the best first internet dates you can have is at a coffee shop, it can be considered dating.com scam romantic or casual. Try to pick a place you've been before so you know the layout and won't get lost. The great thing about this is it's public and you can have your friends sit somewhere in the coffee shop or wherever and they can help you scope him out. They can also help you if you need help.

Plan an escape route, make sure you have a way out if the date is going just awful, or if you're scared of him. You can do this a number of ways. You can have a friend call you to check up on you. You can go to the bathroom and text a friend to get them to call you. Spill something on yourself so badly you have to go home and change. Let me know if you have any clever ways of doing this. Fortunately I haven't had to do any of that before, and you shouldn't have to if you're screening the guys properly.

Don't go home/leave with him. Do I really need to explain that? You just met the guy, don't push it if you want him to respect you.

Leave after he leaves...why? Because if the guy is a creep he might just follow you home. But just because you leave last doesn't mean he won't find a way to follow you. If you suspect your being followed, do not head home, go a dating.com review different direction and go straight to the police station. You don't have to go into the station necessarily....but if you pull up there it will probably scare him away.

What to Avoid When Dating Online

Online dating can seem innocent enough, and your probably there for all the right reasons, to meet new people and hopefully find a love connection. However, there are people who are not there for the same reason as you. There are many reasons why people go on there, here's a few that you need to avoid.

Cheaters - He already has someone, might be married, but wants someone on the side or someone to replace the one he's got...it's hard to avoid this because you won't know until you get to know the person and even then, no guarantee.

Creeps - A creep could be a lot of things, if you get a weird vibe from someone, just trust your instincts and run the other way. These are usually the stalker, insecure type.

Serial Dater - Date after date after date, the guy is just not satisfied and isn't really interested in you, just dating as many women as he can. You'll know this one by how fast he's trying to set a date up.

Sexaholic - This is the same lines as the serial dater, but he's just out there for sex. Don't go with someone like this, you really risk getting an STI. You'll know this guy by how he talks to you, if he only wants to see pictures or web cam or doesn't show an interest in you, just when your available.

Family Man - This guy is looking to settle down, have the home, the kids, which sounds great right? Except he's not looking for Miss Right, he just wants someone who's going to live the dream out with him. He would be getting married for all the wrong reasons. You can tell this guy by how heavily he pushes the kids and dating.com scam marriage issue in the first few conversations, or by what it says in the profile.

Make a Better Online Dating Profile

Lets start with the photo, as that will be the first thing that attracts any prospective daters.

1. Pick a good, flattering picture of yourself. A portrait pic usually works the best, shoulders and up. this shows more of what you look like and can help draw interest. Pictures that have full body shots or action shots are overlooked as the thumbnail image is so small.

2. When you chose a picture make sure you are staring right at the camera and smiling with those pearly whites. They say subconsciously that people who look right at the camera are perceived as more attractive by the viewer.

3. Take several digital photos of yourself, heck take 20, then pick the best.

4. Always crop out unnecessary background. The dating sites will usually just post whatever it is you give them. Also consider resizing the image if it is too large, not all dating sites will re size the image, and no one needs to be able to see your pores.