Love Does Not Dishonor Others

I can remember, around age 19, coming to a life-changing realization. I was not living right. I felt ashamed. I was afraid that my sin was written all over me. I thought of how hurt my parents would be if they knew. I felt dirty with sin. From that moment on, I decided that I wanted to be someone that I could be proud of, that my family could be proud of. I had no idea that what I was doing was honoring my father and mother by following this conviction.

What Does It Mean to Honor Others?

Honor is about more than words—it’s about how we treat people, whether in conversation, action, or attitude. The Bible tells us:

“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” (Ephesians 6:2, NIV)

We often think of honor as respect, but it also includes fairness, gratitude, and kindness. James 2 warns against favoritism, reminding us that every person deserves honor, no matter their status. When we lift others up instead of tearing them down, we reflect God’s love.

A Personal Reflection on Honor

I’ve been on both ends of this lesson. I once worked in a cafeteria and often felt overlooked. But I’ve also held positions of leadership where I had the power to influence how others were treated. The way we interact with people—whether they are CEOs or janitors—has a lasting impact.

Growing up, my Granny had a gift for making everyone feel special. She made each person feel like they were her favorite, and I want to follow her example by making people feel seen and valued.

Honoring Even When It’s Hard

It’s easy to honor those we love and admire. But what about the difficult people in our lives? I once had a boss whose temper made work stressful. One day, I decided to quietly pray for her when she was upset. To my surprise, every time I did this, her mood softened. This experience taught me a powerful lesson: when we struggle to honor someone, prayer can change everything.

“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matthew 5:44, NIV)

The Bible doesn’t say, “Honor your boss if they’re fair” or “Honor your spouse when they deserve it.” 1 Peter 2:18 tells us to show respect even to harsh leaders. Why? Because when we honor others, we ultimately honor God.

“All slaves should show full respect for their masters so they will not bring shame on the name of God and his teaching.” (1 Timothy 6:1, NLT)

If you struggle to honor someone, do it for God. Our actions should bring glory to Him.

Honoring Others Through a Simple Craft

To put this lesson into action, let’s make award ribbons to show appreciation for the people in our lives! This craft is simple yet meaningful, reminding others that they are seen, valued, and honored.

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Take the Next Step on Your Journey of Love

Did this devotional and craft inspire you? Dive deeper into the beautiful truths of love with my book, What is Love? by Abigail Atkins, available on Amazon. Each chapter offers heartfelt insights, reflections, and actionable steps to embrace love in all its forms.

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