Secrets to Strength
by Brandon Rowell (Author)
Secrets to Strength is an emotionally gripping journey of love, courage, and resilience. Daniel, a young man from a conservative upbringing, joins the military in an attempt to "fix" what he feels makes him different—his identity as a gay man. In the harsh and demanding world of the military, Daniel faces the darkness of assault and the internal conflict of keeping his truth hidden. Amid the chaos, he finds an unlikely confidant in Jackson, a fellow soldier who offers him something Daniel has never known—acceptance and unconditional love.
Together, they forge a bond that grows beyond mere friendship, becoming a safe haven amidst the storms of their past traumas and fears. As they navigate the battlefield and the challenges of returning to civilian life, Daniel and Jackson discover that true strength lies not in hiding who they are, but in embracing their identities and standing together against all odds.
This heartfelt story delves into the journey of healing, the power of love, and the resilience needed to overcome the shadows of the past. Secrets to Strength is a poignant celebration of the triumph of the human spirit, reminding readers that love can be found even in the darkest of places, and that true courage is being unapologetically yourself.
Details:
Ages: 13 and Up
Pages: 327
Language: English
Publication Date: October 15, 2024
Available Formats: E-Book, Paperback, Audiobook
Growing up, there were always moments that made Daniel feel different, moments he couldn’t name, didn’t understand, and could never quite articulate. He would stand in the middle of the kitchen, staring at his mother as she bustled around, the scent of rosemary and garlic filling the room, or sit on the porch with his father, watching the sun bleed into the horizon. Those were times when Daniel felt the quiet pressure of expectation. Something heavy, something intangible, settled in the spaces between words, in the unspoken assumptions about who he was supposed to become. In those moments, he always felt slightly off-kilter, as if something was fundamentally different about him—something that separated him from the world his family occupied.
His family lived in a small, conservative town in the heart of Texas. The town was a patchwork of rolling fields, dusty roads, and quiet churches that stood like sentinels over the community. Sundays were for worship, community gatherings, and family dinners, and everything seemed to revolve around the same values—God, family, and tradition. Daniel's parents were deeply woven into the fabric of this community. His father, Robert, was a deacon at the church, respected and well-liked, a man whose opinions carried weight at town meetings. His mother, Patricia, taught Sunday school, her warm smile and gentle manner making her beloved among the children of the congregation.
From an early age, Daniel understood that there were certain expectations placed on him. He was the oldest of three siblings, and with that came an invisible set of rules, a set of standards that defined what it meant to be a man in his family. His father believed in hard work and discipline, values he passed down to Daniel through their early-morning chores and long talks on the porch. They would rise before dawn to tend to the small garden behind their house, the air cool and dewy, the sky just beginning to lighten. Robert would hand Daniel a shovel or a rake, and they would work side by side, the silence between them filled with the sounds of birds waking and the rhythmic scrape of metal against earth.
“A man’s got to work hard for what he wants,” his father would say, his voice low and steady, the kind of voice that didn’t invite questions. “God put us here to work, to provide, to be strong for our families.”
Daniel would nod, his hands blistering against the wooden handle of the rake, his muscles aching from the effort. He wanted to make his father proud, wanted to live up to the expectations that seemed to hover over him like a shadow. But there was always a part of him that felt disconnected from these moments, a part of him that couldn’t quite fit into the mold his father had cast for him. He would watch his father’s strong, weathered hands, the way they moved with purpose and certainty, and he would wonder why he couldn’t feel that same sense of direction, that same conviction in who he was supposed to be.
The feeling of being different was subtle at first, a quiet whisper at the edges of his consciousness. It was there when he watched his younger brother, Luke, wrestle with the neighborhood boys in the yard, their laughter loud and carefree. Daniel would stand on the sidelines, his hands in his pockets, a smile plastered on his face, but inside he felt a strange sense of detachment. He didn’t understand why he couldn’t join in, why the rough-and-tumble play made him uneasy, why he preferred to sit under the old oak tree with a book rather than throw himself into the fray.
It was there when he sat in church on Sunday mornings, the preacher’s voice booming through the sanctuary, speaking of sin and salvation, of the path to righteousness. Daniel would listen, his eyes on the stained-glass windows that cast colorful patterns on the pews, and he would feel a knot of anxiety tighten in his chest. The words about temptation and purity, about the dangers of straying from God’s plan, seemed to be directed at him, though he couldn’t understand why. He would glance at his parents, their faces serene and composed, and wonder if they could sense the turmoil inside him, the questions that bubbled up, unasked and unanswered.
The first time Daniel realized that his feelings might be different from those of the other boys in his class was in seventh grade. He remembered it vividly—the way his heart had skipped a beat when he saw Michael Turner walking down the hallway. Michael was one of the popular boys, always surrounded by friends, his laughter echoing off the lockers. He had a bright smile, the kind that seemed to light up his whole face, and there was something about him that caught Daniel’s attention in a way that made him uncomfortable. He watched Michael from a distance, his eyes lingering on the way Michael’s hair fell across his forehead, the way his eyes crinkled when he laughed. It wasn’t admiration, not exactly. It was something deeper, something that made Daniel’s face flush and his stomach twist with a confusing mix of excitement and fear.
Daniel tried to ignore it, tried to push the feeling away, but it lingered, a quiet presence that refused to be silenced. He would catch himself staring at Michael during gym class, his eyes drawn to the curve of his shoulders, the easy way he moved. He felt a pang of jealousy, wishing he could be like Michael—confident, carefree, comfortable in his own skin. But there was also something else, something that made Daniel’s heart pound and his palms sweat, something that felt forbidden and wrong.
He prayed about it, late at night when the house was quiet and his siblings were asleep. He would kneel by his bed, his hands clasped tightly, his eyes squeezed shut as he whispered the words he had been taught. He prayed for strength, for guidance, for the feelings to go away. He prayed for God to make him normal, to help him be the son his parents wanted him to be, the son they could be proud of. But the feelings didn’t go away. They lingered, growing stronger with each passing year, until they became an undeniable part of who he was.
High school brought new challenges, new pressures, and a heightened awareness of just how different he felt. His friends talked about girls—about who they liked, who they wanted to ask out, who they thought was the prettiest. They would gather in the cafeteria, their voices low and conspiratorial, their laughter punctuated by the clatter of trays and the hum of conversation. Daniel would sit with them, nodding along, forcing a smile, but he felt like an outsider, an impostor. He didn’t feel the same way they did. He didn’t look at the girls in his class and feel the rush of excitement his friends described. He didn’t want to hold their hands or kiss them or take them to the movies. He wanted to feel that way—he wanted it more than anything—but the feelings wouldn’t come.
There was one girl, Emily, who seemed to like him. She was sweet and kind, with a shy smile and a soft voice, and Daniel thought that maybe, if he tried hard enough, he could make himself like her. He asked her to the homecoming dance, his heart pounding in his chest as he waited for her answer. She said yes, her eyes lighting up with a mix of surprise and excitement, and for a moment, Daniel felt a flicker of hope. Maybe this was what he needed. Maybe if he went through the motions, if he did what was expected of him, the rest would fall into place.
The night of the dance, Daniel dressed in a suit and tie, his mother fussing over him, adjusting his collar and smoothing his hair. “You look so handsome,” she said, her eyes misting with pride. “You’re going to make Emily feel like the luckiest girl in the world.”
Daniel smiled, but the knot in his stomach only tightened. He wanted to make his mother proud, wanted to be the son she believed him to be, but as he looked at himself in the mirror, he felt a sense of disconnection, as if he were playing a role in a play he didn’t quite understand. When he picked Emily up, her father shook his hand, clapping him on the shoulder, and her mother took pictures of them standing on the porch, their smiles stiff and awkward. Emily looked beautiful in her dress, her hair curled and pinned back, and Daniel tried to focus on that, tried to feel something more than the dull ache of uncertainty.
At the dance, they swayed together to the slow songs, Emily’s head resting on his shoulder, her perfume sweet and floral. Daniel closed his eyes, trying to lose himself in the moment, trying to feel the way he knew he was supposed to feel. But all he could think about was how wrong it felt, how forced, how empty. He felt like he was lying—to Emily, to himself, to everyone around him. He wanted to be the kind of boy who could fall in love with a girl like Emily, the kind of boy his parents could be proud of, but the more he tried, the more he felt the weight of the lie pressing down on him.
After the dance, they went to a friend’s house for a small party. The music was loud, the lights dim, and Daniel felt a sense of relief at being surrounded by people, the pressure to be alone with Emily lifted for a while. He watched as his friends laughed and joked, their arms around their dates, the easy affection between them making his chest ache. Emily stayed close to him, her hand slipping into his, and Daniel forced himself to smile, to act like everything was fine. But when she leaned in to kiss him, her eyes closing, her lips soft against his, Daniel felt a surge of panic. He kissed her back, his movements awkward and hesitant, his heart pounding in his ears. He knew he was supposed to feel something—desire, excitement, affection—but all he felt was fear, a hollow emptiness that made him want to pull away.
That night, after he dropped Emily off at her house, Daniel drove aimlessly through the darkened streets of town, the weight of his confusion pressing down on him. He pulled over to the side of the road, his hands gripping the steering wheel, his chest tight with emotion. He felt like he was drowning, caught between who he was and who he was supposed to be, the two versions of himself pulling in opposite directions. He wanted to be normal, wanted to fit in, wanted to be the son his parents could be proud of, but no matter how hard he tried, he couldn’t escape the truth of who he was.
In the weeks that followed, Daniel avoided Emily, his guilt gnawing at him. He couldn’t bring himself to face her, to pretend that everything was okay, that he could be the boyfriend she deserved. He threw himself into his schoolwork, into his chores, into anything that would keep him busy and distracted. But the feelings wouldn’t go away. They were there, always lurking beneath the surface, a constant reminder that he was different, that he didn’t belong.
One afternoon, while helping his father repair the fence along the edge of their property, Daniel found himself staring at his father, watching the way he moved, the easy confidence in his actions. Robert was a man who knew who he was, who never questioned his place in the world. He was strong, steady, dependable—everything Daniel felt he wasn’t. His father looked up, catching Daniel’s gaze, and smiled.
“You’re doing good work, son,” he said, his voice filled with pride. “You’re going to make a fine man one day.”
Daniel forced a smile, nodding, but inside, his heart ached. He wanted to believe his father’s words, wanted to be the man his father saw, but the truth of who he was felt like a weight he couldn’t shake. He didn’t know how to be that person, didn’t know how to reconcile the expectations placed on him with the reality of his own feelings.
As the months passed, Daniel continued to struggle, the sense of difference growing stronger, more insistent. He watched his friends pair off, their relationships blossoming, and felt a deep sense of longing—not for the girls they were with, but for the kind of connection they shared, the kind of love that seemed so natural and easy for them. He wanted that, wanted to feel that kind of closeness, that kind of belonging, but he knew it wasn’t something he could find with a girl like Emily. It was something he could only find by accepting the truth of who he was, a truth that terrified him.
One night, after another sleepless hour spent staring at the ceiling, Daniel made a decision. He slipped out of bed, the house silent around him, and went to the small desk in the corner of his room. He pulled out a notebook, the pages blank and inviting, and began to write. He wrote about the confusion, the fear, the longing. He wrote about Michael Turner, about the way his heart had skipped a beat when he saw him, about the way he had felt drawn to him in a way he couldn’t explain. He wrote about Emily, about the emptiness he had felt when he kissed her, about the guilt that had eaten at him ever since.
The words poured out of him, a release he hadn’t known he needed. He wrote until his hand ached, until the knot in his chest loosened, until the truth of who he was lay bare on the page. And when he was finished, he closed the notebook, his heart pounding, a strange sense of calm washing over him. For the first time, he had allowed himself to acknowledge the truth, to put into words the feelings he had kept buried for so long.