LEARNING TO LIVE

Never accepted advice from someone else

Thought I knew it all - it’s what I told myself

People I loved gave two cents all the time

But I was in my own world and walked my own line


Married him ‘n his kids my personal cause

Was committed to tryin’ ignoring all odds

Didn’t know that the ex founded bitter dot com

So I was now branded as a wicked step mom


If I had listened to the still voice within

Not been so stubborn and desperate to win

I would have known there is just no applause

Raisin’ other people's kids is a thankless job


When it all fell apart no comforting touch

No shoulder to cry on the pressure too much

Knowing my heart was not made of glass 

Regrouped and moved on this too would pass


But were those years the best I had to give

Not on your life girl ‘n I’m just learning to live


If I had listened to the still voice within

Not been so stubborn and desperate to win

I would have known there is just no applause

Raisin’ other people's kids is a thankless job


If I had listened to the still voice within

Not been so stubborn and desperate to win

I would have known there is just no applause

Raisin’ other people's kids is a thankless job


But were those years the best I had to give 

Not on your life girl ‘n I’m just learning to live




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