When you first saw the title, you probably thought, "Not going to happen, he's hopeless," or "He's a good dad already and doesn't need any help." No matter how you answer, you are wrong. He does need help, so please give it to him. This is because you know both him and your child better than anyone else. This shows that you pay attention to what your child needs. Your husband might not. Also, since you are his daughter, you know  best parenting blog  what your child wants from his father, and you remember what you wanted from your father when you were a kid. 

There is a problem, though. Most men, including my husband, hate advice, especially when it comes from their wives. Because of this, we are stuck. We don't do that because we know they'll listen to our advice if we say it softly. I've talked to a lot of dads all over the country, and I've learned some interesting facts about them that I'd like to share. If you know this, you'll be able to teach your husband without him knowing.

Fathers are not as safe as they seem to be. Most guys start out as parents who have no idea what to do. They can't believe how beautiful this child is. Next, what should I do?

Moms often get advice about car seats, eating, sleeping, and other things, but dads rarely do. After they bring the baby home, fathers feel unfit as the baby grows and his needs become more complicated. They won't tell anyone because they don't want to say they don't know what they are doing. On the other hand, mothers ask their friends for help right away.

Men and women both feel like they aren't good enough, but dads feel this way a lot more. They want to help take care of the baby because they are the defenders and nurturers. However, they often stay away because they don't know how to do it right. Mothers get angry when they think their husbands don't care. That's not right. They are just scared and don't want to do anything wrong. We moms don't help, to be honest. I can still remember when my husband was helping one of our kids and I walked in and yelled, "Give her to me!" in a way that said, "I can't believe you're so stupid!" We get angry because we are sure they don't know what they are doing. It turned out to be true.

Fathers are full of fear. Dads worry about their own safety and the safety of their kids. They worry about Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), life-threatening illnesses, and missing their child's signs. They know what it's like to be a mom. They are also worried about how they would feed their child and, like moms, how they would react if something bad happened to them. Again, they often don't have the support from their friends that moms do.