Es Buah and kolak
Soto kudus
meat balls
krupuk
Today, we had the special opportunity to take part in Halal bi Halal, a beautiful Indonesian tradition that reflects the nation’s strong values of community, humility, and forgiveness. The celebration was held at Universitas Muria Kudus (UMK) and attended by university faculty, staff, students, and guests—including us SEA-Teacher participants.
Halal bi Halal is held after Eid al-Fitr, the holiday that marks the end of Ramadan. It is more than just a gathering; it is a formal and heartfelt opportunity for people to seek forgiveness and reconcile with one another. The phrase commonly exchanged during the event is “Mohon maaf lahir dan batin,” which means “Please forgive me for my physical and emotional wrongdoings.”
The event began with a short prayer and welcome speeches from the university leadership. Everyone was dressed in modest traditional attire, and there was a warm, peaceful atmosphere throughout the hall. We were touched by how open and respectful everyone was, especially when they invited us to join in the ritual of exchanging greetings and forgiveness. Even though we came from different backgrounds and beliefs, we felt fully included in the moment.
What made the experience even more special was the strong sense of school culture that emerged during the celebration. Faculty members greeted students with kindness, and students showed deep respect toward their mentors and peers. It was clear that the university values not only academic excellence but also character building, mutual respect, and community harmony.
After the formal program, we enjoyed a shared meal featuring delicious traditional dishes such as Soto kudus, meat balls, and krupuk. Sweet drinks and desserts like Es Buah and kolak were also served. Sharing this meal together made the entire event even more joyful and meaningful.
We spent time mingling with faculty members and students, exchanging stories and laughter. Some even sang traditional songs, adding a light and festive spirit to the celebration. The unity, hospitality, and warmth of everyone around us made this cultural immersion feel genuine and memorable.
Reflection:
Participating in Halal bi Halal was one of the most heartwarming cultural experiences I’ve had so far. It taught me that true education is not only found in books and lectures but also in the values and traditions that shape a community. Today reminded me of the importance of forgiveness, respect, and togetherness—virtues that I will carry with me as a future educator. This day was a celebration of culture, connection, and the beauty of starting anew with a sincere heart.