I’m Amy, a certified divorce coach and mediator based in Oregon, dedicated to helping families navigate the challenges of separation with care and understanding. With a background in divorce coaching and mediation (and almost a decade as a divorce attorney in California), I focus on fostering open communication and finding solutions that work for everyone involved.
I also hold a Master’s in Education, which has given me a deep understanding of the unique needs of children and families. This background informs my approach to mediation, especially when helping parents develop healthy co-parenting arrangements. I’m passionate about ensuring that the well-being of children is at the center of the process and that parents are equipped to support their kids through the transition. I also bring a special focus on working with LGBTQIA+ couples and families, recognizing the diverse dynamics that can shape these experiences.
My goal is to guide families through the emotional and practical aspects of divorce, creating a supportive environment where everyone’s needs are heard. Outside of work, I enjoy exploring the outdoors with my two kids, often hiking the beautiful trails of Central Oregon.
Simply put, I don't know what I would have done without Amy's steady, informed and grounding guidance while navigating my divorce. She is a unique combination of intelligence, compassion and wit which culminates in her ability to provide deeply impactful support throughout such a difficult life chapter. She has been my reality-check, my champion and an endless source of comfort throughout. I never anticipated needing someone like Amy but I’m so grateful she was there when the need came to be.
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I started working with Amy as I was deciding when to tell my husband I wanted a divorce. She has been, and still is, been invaluable on many levels. She has helped me work through not just the complex logistical issues that arise during a divorce, but also the complex emotional issues as well. Her steady, calm and kind voice and listening ear, as well as her expertise and professionalism, have helped and continue to help me in this incredibly tumultuous time. With her help, I feel confident that not only am I going to come out of this divorce in a great way, but perhaps more importantly, I will know myself better. With our conversations, I feel stronger every day and better able to listen to and act upon my own voice and needs. I couldn’t have made it through this difficult time without her.
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Divorce is not something anyone ever expects, but having Amy in my corner helped make it a little easier to navigate. In addition to her excellent counsel, she was a constant resource for tools that helped make the process more understandable. I hope to never be in this situation again, but if I am, I would not hesitate to use her services again.
Why co-mediation?
Co-mediation is a process where two mediators work together to guide couples through the divorce mediation process. Instead of relying on a single mediator to facilitate discussions and resolve conflicts, co-mediators collaborate, bringing complementary skills and perspectives to ensure a well-rounded, supportive experience. This approach enhances the mediation process, providing couples with a more balanced and effective path toward resolution.
One of the key benefits of co-mediation is the ability to offer a more comprehensive approach to problem-solving. For example, one mediator may focus on the legal and financial aspects of your divorce, while the other specializes in the emotional dynamics or communication between you and your spouse. This division of attention allows for more in-depth focus on each area, ensuring that nothing is overlooked and that your needs are met holistically.
Co-mediation also helps to create a sense of balance and fairness in the process. Having two mediators reduces the likelihood of bias, as each mediator can provide checks and balances on the other’s approach. This is particularly helpful when emotions run high or when complex issues arise, as co-mediators can support each other in maintaining neutrality and ensuring both parties feel equally heard. By offering diverse perspectives, co-mediators can facilitate smoother, more effective negotiations, helping you reach agreements that are fair and sustainable in the long term.
Why divorce coaching?
Divorce is one of the most challenging life transitions, often leaving individuals overwhelmed by emotions, decisions, and the complexities of rebuilding life afterward. Divorce coaching offers compassionate, practical support to help you navigate this process with clarity and confidence. By working with a divorce coach, you gain a partner who provides personalized guidance tailored to your unique circumstances, ensuring that your emotional well-being, practical needs, and long-term goals are prioritized throughout your journey.
Unlike therapy or legal advice, divorce coaching focuses on helping you develop strategies for decision-making, effective communication, and co-parenting, all while maintaining your sense of self and empowerment. Whether you're at the beginning of a separation or already in the midst of the process, divorce coaching helps you set realistic goals and move forward with a plan that reflects your values, reduces stress, and supports your growth in this new chapter of life.
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Phone: 310-617-4573
Email: divorcecoachamy@gmail.com
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