Why Didn’t He Reply to You? 

You had great conversations, you went on a date — and then he disappeared? And now you spend days trying to understand why?

Let me sum up my analytical observations and tell you why in this post.

I’m not writing this story for no reason… Ace Magic Academy by the Punny Panda brand. Magic is just a curtain behind which we examine real-life situations and romantic relationships. A detective story is about solving the mystery of why people act unfairly, lie, and disappear.

I spent 10 years studying this topic. I’ve gone through my friends’ relationship crises, long-distance relationships, and I’m ready to give clear answers — the kind that a girl in love often refuses to notice.

Recently, while walking down the main street of my neighborhood, a young couple was walking toward me. They were on a date. The girl was dressed beautifully: a mini skirt, carefully matched tights and jacket colors, makeup. The guy also looked good and stylish.

I thought, “How interesting.”

After finishing my errands at the end of the street, I turned back and saw them walking toward me again — but this time the picture was different. The guy had moved about a meter away from the girl and clearly sped up, so she couldn’t keep up and walk next to him comfortably.

“And there’s your first red flag,” I thought.

Girls are actually bad at reading body language. They tend to imagine that the guy is crazy about them, that he’s shy, hiding his feelings, playing hot and cold.

In reality, a man’s brain is usually more pragmatic and straightforward when it comes to women.

Men usually try to outsmart each other in business, in their careers. They need to show leadership and earn more in the market, gain more influence.

Guys spend a lot of time building strategies to outperform a strong opponent — another man. And in relationships with women, they simply don’t want to overcomplicate things and are usually quite direct.

If a guy likes you — he will move closer.
If he respects you — he will keep a careful distance.
If he sees you like a steak — he will boldly try to drag you into bed without even remembering your face.

So, if something about you didn’t appeal to him on the date — he’ll take a step away and speed up.

Yes… it’s a clear, rational truth that girls, wrapped in drama and emotions, often don’t want to accept. Triggering?

A guy will want to smell you, and if he likes you — he will try to touch you. Like a regular animal. That’s normal.

If he didn’t like your behavior, his brain activates negativity toward you, and he simply withdraws, distances himself, gives you another chance in two weeks, then disappears for a month.

Don’t believe me? Test it yourself now that you know this information. Ask a smart, attractive guy out on a date — one who usually doesn’t look your way — and observe his body movements. It’s just an experiment. Do it. It’s fun!

I’ll talk about what specific behavior scares men away in the next article.

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