Be The Fan You’d Want To Stand Next To

Salt Lake City is the beating heart of Utah’s music scene. Whether you’re catching a local band at Kilby Court or seeing a big name at The Depot, the experience is all about music, energy and community. Unfortunately, bad concert etiquette can spoil that experience far too often. Here at K-UTE Radio we like to stay very mindful, very cutesy, very demure– especially when it comes to attending concerts. Here are some tips to help you stay mindful and respectful at your next concert! 

Be a Rockstar, Not a Jerk  

It’s no secret that concerts can get crowded, but that doesn’t mean we can forget about boundaries. More often than not, we get packed in with other raging fans. However, this doesn’t mean that personal space can’t exist. Avoid standing too close to someone if it’s not necessary—nobody likes to feel crammed in. Be mindful of the people around you—don’t shove, don’t elbow your way through, and definitely don’t push others to get a better spot. A quick apology can go a long way if you accidentally bump into someone.  

At past shows, bad behavior leads to unfortunate situations. For example, at an EDM concert I attended, a group of fans tried to push their way to the front, causing a chain reaction where several people lost their spots and even fell to the floor. Incidents like these can easily be avoided with a little awareness and consideration for those around us.    

Concert Etiquette 101  

When the band is playing, it’s all about music. The band on stage is pouring their energy into delivering a great performance, and they deserve your full attention. One of the best ways to show respect is by staying engaged with the music. Talking loudly during a performance ruins the experience for everyone who’s trying to listen. Save the long conversations for between sets or after the show. If you really need to say something, keep it short and sweet so everyone can stay focused on the music.   

Also, it’s important to be mindful of our reactions. Not every song needs to be met with screaming. Sometimes, a quieter moment or a slow ballad calls for a different kind of appreciation. Simply listening intently or offering a respectful round of applause when the song is over allows the band to control the atmosphere they’re trying to create.   

This issue has become a trend, particularly during performances by artists with slower, more mellow music. During Clairo’s Sling Tour, talking was so disruptive and widespread that it became a common complaint on Twitter.  

Respect The Venue, Respect The Space 

While we’re all eager to enjoy the music, it’s crucial to remember that local venues are the soul of SLC’s music scene. These spaces are not just stages– they’re homes for artists and fans alike. After the 2023 Life Is Beautiful Festival in Las Vegas, excessive littering left staff and volunteers scrambling to restore the downtown arts district to ensure a speedy reopening. This is not fair to the employees who work hard to give us the best concert experience.  

First and foremost, we must clean up after ourselves. Leaving trash behind is not only disrespectful to the venue but also to the staff who work hard to maintain these spaces. Many of our local venues are people’s homes and private properties. It’s important to respect those who generously open their doors to the community.  

If you see a mess, even if it’s not yours, take a moment to dispose of it properly. It’s also important to respect the venue's rules and the staff who enforce them. Whether it’s following security protocols or respecting seating arrangements, these rules are in place to ensure everyone’s safety and enjoyment. It’s never okay to take out your frustrations on the staff who are just trying to do their job.  

In the past, local venues have had to deal with damage caused by rowdy crowds, leading to increased costs and even potential closure. By respecting the space, you’re helping to preserve these venues for future shows.  

Crowd Karma  

Concerts are about shared experiences, and the energy we bring can either elevate the vibe or bring it down. If you’re really feeling the music, by all means, dance, jump, and sing along—but remember, you’re part of a bigger crowd.   

Crowds at concerts can be unpredictable. Sometimes, the energy of the music and the fans can create chaos—especially in general admission areas where people are free to move around. If you notice someone who looks uncomfortable, overwhelmed, or is struggling to find space, take a moment to help out. This could be as simple as offering them a spot with a better view, making room for them to get some air, or just checking in to see if they’re okay. Who knows? You might make a new friend!   

Kindness goes a long way in these situations. If you see someone drop something, help them pick it up rather than stepping over it. If someone is trying to navigate through the crowd, make space rather than blocking their path. At the end of the day, concerts are meant to be enjoyed by everyone. Dance, sing, and have fun—but do it in a way that lets others enjoy the show too.  

Make Every Concert a Win-Win  

Concerts are special because they bring people together to share a love of music and live performances. When we show respect to the bands, we’re honoring their hard work and dedication, allowing them to deliver their best performance. Being mindful of those around you ensures that everyone can see, hear, and feel the music without unnecessary discomfort. Remember that everyone’s tolerance for crowds is different. What might seem fun to someone could be overwhelming to someone else.   

The next time you find yourself at a concert in Salt Lake City, remember that you’re not just a spectator—you’re part of a shared experience. Respect the music. Respect the space. Respect each other.   

l.hall@ustudentmedia.com