Charlotte Mattison Smith, aka Beauty, aka Gamma Char, 94, passed away on Monday evening, May 1, 2023. She is now reunited with her beloved husband, Duane.
She was born May 30, 1928, in Richmondville, NY, and mostly grew up on Wallace Road in Nimmonsburg. She graduated from Binghamton North High School and married her best friend, Duane, and joined him for 70 years of love, family, and adventures. She was a homemaker in the fullest sense of the word, creating and maintaining a loving home for her husband and children. She worked hard and played hard. She loved to cook and bake; she painted, mowed, gardened, built stone walls, and cut down trees; she hiked and skied and traveled across the country with her husband in search of new places and new stories to tell; she was the master of many crafts and usually had at least 50 projects going at the same time; she made hundreds of rag rugs to share with family and friends; she built and decorated doll houses and collected anything and everything. She was a long-time member of First Presbyterian Church, now known as United Presbyterian Church, on Chenango Street in Binghamton, where she served for many years as usher, Deacon, and head cook for church events.
She will be remembered for her sugar cookies, and her Grand Junction Spanish Rice.
She will be remembered for her ability to transform roadside finds into useful and (sometimes) beautiful objects.
She will be remembered for her oft-spoken aphorisms: “Things will work out the way they were meant to,” “Every part strengthens a part,” and, “If you act as good as you look, you’ll be okay.”
She will be remembered.
She is survived by her daughter Amy Smith of Binghamton; daughter and son-in-law, Jenny and Joe Fanelli of Syracuse, NY; grandson, David Fanelli, his wife Grace Hammond and their daughters Rosemary Ann and Mae Jeannette Fanelli of Columbus, OH; grandson Peter Fanelli, and his wife Danielle Myers of Somerville, MA; grandson Joey Fanelli and Heather Rinder of Revere, MA; daughter-in-law Patricia Smith of St. Marys, PA; granddaughter Margaret Watson and her husband John of Kempner, TX; grandson James “Mac” Smith and his wife Ann of St. Marys; sister-in-law Alice Mattison; nephew Carl Mattison, and niece and nephews Beth, Matthew, and Mark Greenley. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 70 years Duane, her son Daniel Smith, and her grandson Andrew Smith.
The family would especially like to thank all the staff at Elizabeth Church Manor for their love and support throughout the years and during this time.
At Charlotte’s request, there was no memorial service. Good memories will be her memorial. Cremation services were provided by Hopler & Eschbach Funeral Home.
We worship together on Sundays at 10:00am, both in person in the sanctuary and online. The service is livestreamed on our public YouTube Channel, our Zoom room, and our website, and is also accessible on YouTube any time. Those who can’t access the worship videos online can call in on the phone to listen live on Sunday mornings, using the Zoom information listed below. So if you are not ready or able to come “in person”, you are welcome to participate as you are able.
Everyone is invited to join us as we pray, hear God’s word read and proclaimed, share our joys and concerns, and experience worshipful music. All of our musicians are fully vaccinated, and the singers/instrumentalists at the front of the sanctuary are at least 15 feet away from the first row of pews.
If you’re joining us in person, here’s what you need to know:
Masks are optional while our community’s reported Covid rates remain low. Air filtration units are deployed throughout the sanctuary to enhance your safety.
We will continue to have masks available, and if you have any symptoms of a potentially contagious illness, we ask that you put on a mask to protect those in our congregation who have compromised immune systems.
Printed worship guides are placed by each door for you to pick up on the way in, and the hymns are printed in the worship guide.
Offering plates are placed by the doors of the sanctuary, but we do not pass them during the offertory. You are still invited and welcome to use our online giving portal or to mail a check to the church.
If you’re worshiping with us online, all of the hymn music and prayer words are shown on the screen, and live captioning is used for other parts of the service such as the sermon and the Prayers of the People. If you watch on a small screen and need the printed version of the worship guide, it is available for download from our website each week, or it can be mailed to you upon request if downloading & printing is not an option.
If you have been missing the time of shared prayer, join us before worship at 9:30 — either at church in the Study (Room 102, next door to the Nursery), or on Zoom — for a time of sharing and praying for the needs of our community. After the prayer time, you can stay on Zoom for the worship service or switch over to the YouTube channel.
To join the Zoom room online, go to upcbgm.org/zoom
To call in: Dial 1-646-558-8656, then enter Meeting ID: 865 274 8433 #
It would be good to have you with us.
Members and friends of our congregation are encouraged to provide the church office with birth dates (if not already on file) so that we can be sure folks receive celebration greetings from our church family. No need to provide us with the year if you’d rather keep that to yourself!
Please let us know of any other special occasions, and also about difficult times and prayer needs where a card or supportive message may be appreciated.
You may contact the church office or a member of the Card Committee (Margaret Davis, Suzie Northrop Raboy, Jenni McKeage, Lana Ogden, and Cindy Chadwick).
Did you know that you can “subscribe” to the UPC YouTube channel? Did you know that it won’t cost anything, and that having 100 or more subscribers gives us access to some special “perks” as a content creator?
Here’s how it’s done:
Open YouTube to one of the United Presbyterian Church recordings, by following this link (https://youtu.be/nn8ZBeTU0kw) or searching on YouTube.
Scroll down under the video until you see:
There’s a button over here that says “SUBSCRIBE”. Click on the button.
That’s it!
As part of Pentecost Sunday (celebrating the “birthday” of the church) and our 10 years of being together with Pastor Kimberly, a food and hygiene products drive is being held. Please help fill the baskets we’ll have on hand by providing some “birthday gifts” to stock our food pantry and hygiene closet. Sherry Conklin, our Community Meal and Pantry Coordinator, suggests that the following items would be extremely helpful contributions:
Can openers (crank-style; these can be inexpensive ones)
Laundry pods (these are easier to carry than large, heavy bottles of liquid)
Bars of soap
Other toiletries (smaller sizes for ease in carrying)
Non-perishable food items (pop-top cans that don’t need openers are especially helpful)
Any and all donations would be much appreciated to assist our guests from the community. So, as you’re shopping in the next few weeks, please consider adding a contribution to your cart that you can share on June 4. If you’re unable to join us in person on Pentecost Sunday, please feel free to drop off your donation at the church office in advance of or after June 4. Contributions are always welcome. If you prefer to make a monetary donation, please note that your donation is for the Food Pantry.
Thank you!
No matter how much time we spend making plans, doing our very best for our children every day, we can never truly know what God’s plan is for them. At Pentecost, we celebrate that God offers more than we can plan by joining in ministries that connect young people with one another and with caring communities, helping them shape a life and a future beyond even the one we could plan alone. Through our gifts, we help inspire young people to share their faith, ideas, and unique gifts with the church and the world, and in so doing, bring hope to others.
40% of the Pentecost Offering stays with our congregation to develop and support programs for young people in our own church and community.
25% supports Young Adult Volunteers (YAVs) serving in communities around the world and growing as leaders through transformative service.
25% supports Ministries with Youth, including events like the Presbyterian Youth Triennium.
10% is devoted to children at risk and supports to improve education and provide safe havens through the Educate a Child, Transform the World initiative.
You can contribute to the PC(USA)’s Pentecost special offering online at pcusa.org/pentecost or text PENTECOST to 91999, or send a check to the church office marked with “special offering” in the memo line.
We are able to receive tax-deductible contributions online through our website (upcbgm.org/giving/donate). Contributions can be made by E-check or credit card, and can also be set up as a recurring gift.
We encourage you to lift up in prayer how God will use you to bless UPC in fulfilling our mission to do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with God.
Our church teams are always welcoming new team members. If you’d like to help with or learn more about the workings of the church, talk to one of the pastors or the elders on Session: Card Committee, Suzie Raboy; Finance, Lou McKeage or Andy Chadwick; Personnel, Marilynn Guinane; Property, Pastor Becky; Worship & Music, Suzie Raboy or Andy Chadwick.