Does this sound like you?
"I have two friends that I like a lot, and they don't really like each other."
"I feel anxious all the time because I never know who to play with or who to sit with. If I choose one, then I hurt the others feelings."
"I just wish we could all play together."
Still need help?
Talk to an adult that you trust. They will likely be able to relate with their own experiences. And they may be willing to help you have this difficult conversation with your friends.
You're not alone.
It's important to let your friends know how you're feeling.
Talk it out with them.
I feel ____________________. (I feel anxious)
When you ____________. (When you guys make me choose between you)
I need ______. (I need us all to play together. I think you'll like each other.)
Some kids try setting up a friendship schedule. Sitting with or playing with each friend every other day, for example, but this only lasts for a little while.