No wallowing will be done because there has never been any wallowing done, nor shall there ever be any more wallowing in the future. You don't wallow, you're more of a sulker, if that. You are, most of the time, a pretty optimistic person. You're not quite peaking at the levels of Syb who can see a pile of shit as money to some farmers, that he can sell at a marked-up price because he's the only one to sell shit, or something. Maybe that's more opportunistic than optimistic, but you get my point. You two are the optimistic ones of the group.
I think I've said this before, so it shouldn't be surprising at all. Wallowing is more of a pessimistic thing to do. You never hear about charity workers wallowing in pain. Much like you wouldn't hear about an army general sulking. If you did, you'd probably be confused on why the person who told you this used that word to describe his suffering.
You're perfectly comfortable with talking about suffering as it is a part of life. You can't have the highs without the lows. You also can't have anything stay the same for any amount of time. Something must change. Maybe people will like a new song, or maybe they might like a new actor whom they didn't like before. Whatever it is, nothing really stays the same, which makes the is just as important as the was and the will be.