Who is this, Bys character that you're referring to? You know fully well that your name is BLACK QUEEN, and that you've always been called that. It is improper for her royal subjects to refer to her by any other name. It is also improper for her subjects to refer to her in the second person, always refer to her in the third person in relation to her royal highness, and never refer to her subjects in first person.
Her court is quite confusing in that regard. People going like, "her royal subject, the father of three, would like to request a zoning bill for her royal subject's oil farm. If her royal highness would be so kind as to do so, that would be great for her subject." and you love catching people on their mistakes. If they improperly refer to you in the second person or the first person, or even in third person without relation to you, you send them straight to jail.
If they try to escape, of course, they are instantly killed by one of your agents. And if they somehow get away from their fate by agent-aided-suicide, you just kill them yourself. You've only had to do that once, a few years ago. No way am I going to tell you who was the person you killed, that'd ruin the fun...