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This page is a tribute to the innocent kids lost every year in child abuse . YUP

 Child Abuse- A Horrifying Sin!

Its a shame I wasn't there at the right time to help these kids from their parents  guardians,  caretakers or stranger, who murdered them. Its just not possible for me to intervene inside a home to protect children from their  own parent.

"So how do I help them?" I ask myself." How do i prevent other such incidences from happening?"

Looking into all these cases closely, I was able to understand what to this heinous crime in each of the case, which I believe is the biggest crime against humanity.

Here are some of the major causes, that all led  to a violent story of child abuse to surface around the globe.

Cause of Child Abuse
  • Immature Parents

  • underage sex / unwanted pregnancies

  • Poverty / lack of resources and Proper Education

  • Alcohol / Drug Addiction

  • Anger/ Frustration

  • Psychological problems

  • Lack of good Faith/ upbringing and Values

  • Lack of good governance / Rules

  • Wars 

  • Lack of accountability 

Actions for the State

Governments of all countries are responsible and in best  position in putting a stop to crimes against children. How?
Here are some basic suggestions/ requests:.

  1. Put ban on alcohol and drugs for parents, caretakers and teachers if not all.
  2. Premarital sex if allowed, in consequence of pregnancy, abortion should be charged a fine.Therapy should be given to young teens to help them and should be informed of all the right options to help them make the right decisions.
  3. In case of premature couples, in case of pregnancy a workshop on all expects of pregnancy and parenting must be mandatory for both the parent to attend. Failing of which should be fined. The workshop  should be free of cost offered by the State.
  4. State is to ensure the children are growing up on safe and healthy environment free of violence or abuse or neglect.
  5. Any cases of child abuse reported, the culprit should be jailed for  life if not executed in case of victim being killed; 20 yrs if the victim survived; and other verdicts based on the severity of the abuse inflicted.
  6. The abused child should be offered government support for his upbringing and the abuser must be responsible to pay for the child expenses till the kid is 18.

Actions for Citizens

Its not easy to anticipate. Usually we know of an abuse when it has already occurred  and in many cases there is nothing possible to do. Child Abuse is a sin. Most of the cases reported is it being committed by guardians parents, relatives rather then stranger, and are mostly done by those with whom the kid is left with for unsupervised hours. 

We cant keep an eye on every parent or caretaker with 24/7.

We cant always get hands on the right culprits.

we cant make a year old kid to reach out for us or let his situation known to the world. But we can somehow make a 5 yr old to reach out and seek help

In case of the abuse happening on the hands of the kids own parent/ family, what is a child to do?

Its hard for the abused kid to trust and seek help 

so here is a call to all of you out there, If you are against child abuse make an effort to help and be there.

  • Are you an artist, an educator, a mother, a father an enterpreneur an average countrymen? Share with us how you can help.
  • Are you a concerned neighbor?  Do you  know a child needing help? What do you suspect? What help do you think he needs. inform us!
  • Are you a parent, finding it hard to raise your child? Let us help you! Its ok to accept your weaknesses and to gain strength and support in your trying times. We are there to help you in every way
  • Do you need to place your child in a child care, but dont know which one are the right ones? Let us help you find the best child care for you! Also read us the guide to spot the best child care for ur kid.
  • Are you about to hire a tutor, care taker, nanny, babysitter for your child? We can verify the candidate for you and ensure your children are safe with them. You can also verify them by following these easy to follow steps.
  • Its important to be  attentive to the whereabouts of your kids. Ensure you offer your child best support and  an ear  to hear them out and that they share their selves with you openly.

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