Blog on Twin Love
Twin Flame Balance
Many Twins are feeling a bit down, thinking like this: ”Well, if he/she really loved me, he/she would have chosen me long time ago”, or ”If he/she really loved me, he/she would be by my side in these difficult times for me” or.. ”If he/she really loved me, he/she would not look for others, but look only for me”
It is important to know, that in Twin Flame relationships, it is not for one Twin to decide the outcome, meaning one Twin cannot arrange for the happiness of two,
It is not up to one Twin to make two happy, it is all about balance,
Twins cannot meet and stay together in a balanced relationship as long as there are imbalances, and these imbalances are always in both, so it is not in the power of one Twin to make everything happen,
The journey is all about personal balance, personal completeness, which has actually nothing to do with the other Twin, for each Twin walks the path for personal wholeness all by themselves,
We meet in Twin Flame dances for wholeness, for the meeting brings forth imbalances, we are not able to see by ourselves; so by the blessing of the other Twin, we are given the sacred gift of being whole; the meeting opens for a journey back home to embrace and be our own spirit in physical incarnation, in oneness with God, the Creator; only when we have fulfilled this journey, can we actually live with our Twin,
So we move now from the idea, that another human being can make us whole, to the insight, that we are the only one, that can heal ourselves; we can be inspired by others, but the walk, the work is our personal assignment,
What can we then do to meet with our Twin; focus on our own spiritual journey,
If we were not that occupied with controlling the other one, pointing out faults, imbalances, the process would be much easier and move along more quickly,
If we were not so
occupied with what the other Twin is doing or not doing, we would see ourselves
and work conscioussly with our own process, instead of trying to help the other
one, telling them, what they do wrong; for we cannot help the other Twin doing
what this Twin came here to do, the insight of right or wrong must come from
If we were not so
occupied with giving advice to the other Twin, we would not be blinded by the
illusion, that we are perfect and the other one is imperfect,
So this is not, ”if only he/she would be nice to me, if only he/she would be more …. ”everything would be perfect”, this is a projection of our imperfection, blaming the other one, for what we are not willing to look at inside ourselves.
When we realize,
that we are just as imperfect, as we believe the other one to be, we have
opened ourselves for the greatest gift of all, seeing ourselves as we are,
So when we judge the other one for doing something wrong, something foolish, should we then leave them, find someone better; no we should ask ourselves, could I have done the same, for the interesting thing about Twins is, they do the same, just in different ways; what you feel, your Twin feels too, the mirror is so strong, because the love between Twins vibrate on a higher frequency,
So when your Twin do
something you do not like, embrace your Twin with Love and the issues will
disappear in your Twin and in you,
…and when you say; ”I have been waiting now for 2,3, 5 years for my Twin, it is not your Twin, you have been waiting for, it is yourself….
Twin Flame Lovers
Look up in the Sky and see your own reflection of divinity, recognize yourself and embrace your cosmic power of yourself. Be in oneness with all you are, for here in this oneness you will meet with your Twin Flame. You meet as one, without dependency or attachment to each other, two hearts smelt as one in co-creation of unconditional love and in this sacred field of love feelings of control and power cannot exist.
Twin Flame Love is pure, the flames are united on a physical ground in divine love, physical attraction is as important as the attraction of hearts. It is not just a romantic story build upon an illusion of love, it is very real, for it is expressed in a mere physical way, sacral chakra and heart chakra smelt in oneness, whenever the love is expressed physical.
There is quite a difference between the Twin Flame Love and the Soul Mate love. Soul Mates meet to clear solar plexus emotions through their mutual sharing. That is why there may be power struggles, control issues and manipulation between the two. Soul Mates are karmic partners, who signed a contract to support each other in the clearing process, to heal old wounds between them from previous life times. Therefore when the karmic clearing has ended between the two, there is no need to stay together any more. This is often the hard part for the involved to accept, therefore many choose to stay, thus building new karma. At some point divine guides intervene and create circumstances to separate the two, so that they will both be able to move on with their spiritual journey for completeness. It is important to understand and let go, which can be difficult, for love is there, fear of being left alone in despair and loneliness, after all we are humans.
When Twin Flames reunite physically they have cleared away the old solar plexus emotions, so their mutual love is shared on the love of the two hearts. At the same time Twin Flame partners exchange physical love through their sakral chakra, just below the naval is an opening of intense sexual energy, and when being in physical love, the flames move this sakral energy to their hearts.
The sexual energy is very strong, like a fire that smelts into one mutual flame of love, to be expressed most physical. Therefore it is so much more than just a romantic rendezvous, it is oneness on every possible level of being, it is a knowing the other one is there and will stay there without a constant need for confirmation, reassurance of the shared love, or without missing the other one, because each twin is complete and do not need to seek this completeness outside themselves.
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