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At first glance you might mistake me for the girl next door.  If you were to bump into me at the grocery store you would have no idea I am a dominatrix, but don't let that fool you.  Behind that girl next door exterior is a dominant female who isn't afraid to spank you to tears, or whip you until you bleed.  I am not afraid to push your limits.  I love what I do and I have a great time doing it.  Contrary to stereotypes, I take a more subtle approach to my craft.  I am much more likely to tease you relentlessly while you are bound in whatever precarious position I have chosen for you, rather than barking orders and insults.  I feel no need to shout or become angry to establish control.  You will already know I am in control as I guide you through the power exchange, that is the dance of dominance and submission.  For those looking for domestic style discipline, you are in luck!  That just happens to be one of my specialties, and I have a separate website dedicated just to spanking at www.PortiaSpanksKC.com.  However, if you have other fetishes aside from spanking, the more expansive application on this site is the one you will need.  

People are often curious how I became a dominatrix.  Well, I have always been aware of a certain sadistic streak within me, but having been raised in a religious home, I simply dismissed it as something to be ignored or overcome.  For that reason, I sought no outlet, nor did I realize I needed one.  It was only through an unexpected cascade of events that I founded the concept of DOMassage©, which, in turn, led me to discover my many other BDSM interests.  Unbeknownst to me, I'd been practicing elements of BDSM for years.  I just didn't label it as such.  

I enjoy spanking, trampling, cbt, nipple torture, needle play, urethral sounding, whips, crops, floggers, paddles, prison straps, canes, ice, wax, electro play, ball busting games, bondage, predicament bondage, blindfolds, gags, sensory play (pain or pleasure alike), sensory deprivation, sensory overload, tease and denial, edging, role play, cross dress & sissification, make overs for cross dress, and much more.  

If you are interested in a session with me you will need to begin by following the directions and answering the questions on my application.  

I do NOT conduct a pre-session meeting in public, or by phone.  This is not negotiable.  My screening system works for me, so do not beg me for special treatment.  I gather the information I need via my application, and if I need more, I attain it through email.  Meeting in public poses a risk to your confidentiality, as well as my own.  Privacy is absolutely paramount, and so is proving that you can follow basic rules.  You will not be considered for a session with me if you can not follow the rules. 


Over the past year, I’ve had the pleasure of having had three sessions with Ms. Portia, two spanking sessions and one DOMassage. It took me a few weeks to gain the confidence to send my application but I’m glad I did.

Ms. Portia took the time with my application to gain an understanding of what I was hoping for in our session, and Ms. Portia has given me a wonderful session every time. If you’re reading Ms. Portia’s website and on the fence about whether to complete an application, I recommend doing so.

Ms. Portia sure spanks hard, and that is no lie. Ms. Portia is very good at incorporating role play into sessions. One aspect I enjoy of our sessions I enjoy is Ms. Portia’s dry sense of humor, which is a lot of fun. In our recent DOMassage appointment, Ms. Portia had me experiencing multiple, conflicting sensations at once. Despite anticipating something, I never knew what exact feeling would be coming next. I definitely hope to have more DOMassage sessions with Ms. Portia in the future.

KC Frank