This site provides commonly used Scripture for Memorial services that can be copied and used to individualize services.
The common order is:
Invocation Scripture
Invocational Prayer
Opening Words
Eulogy (account of the life, relationships & activities/honors of the individual)
Opportunity for sharing from family & friends
Scripture Reading (1 or more of the following)
Old Testament Scripture
New Testament Scripture
Gospel Reading
Homily (a short message offering hope and/or heavenly perspective on this life and eternity)
Closing prayer

At the graveside...
Committal Service