sex education
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read the same story over & over, or write a new chapter ... is up to us
before discussing about abortions ...
it's
been spent on great amount of debate on abortions. from the ethical and
moral view, it simply can state abortion is wrong. but the living the
way we do, it can not be that simple. so many people aggress on
abortion to be banned. many people stress that abortion is wrong. but
we do not hear as much, as about abortions, about the education we all
must confront first. instead, we have been led to the belief that
understanding about our sexual organs are shameful, embarrassing, or
just to leave as a blank with little clue. and most of us still
experience a lot of courage to ask others about "IT". something most of
us do not share with others if there is a problem or even if that is a
problem. fortunately, we now have this internet library that we can
learn secretively or talk openly ... or amuse our sexual fantasy
through, yet not much in progress with quality of education but
quantity of sites. somehow, somewhere within us that very important to
be acknowledged has been immatured and twisted, and that must have been
the cause of abortions, rape, and other sexual crimes. I just wish to
suggest giving our attention in depth to the sex education. what is
really sex education for us ? something that we can be very serious
about. something that we can pay great respect to. how much do we
really know about ourselves ? how much do we really know about our
sensual anatomy ? how much do we really study about the sexual organs
that actually exist ? ... no parents really teaches us about them
enough and the fact is that much of the subjects have been abused and
teased in media, at home, on a street ......
do
we give respect our sexual organ ? do we really know what they really
are and what they really do to us ? why GOD has given us such organs ?
if it was for reproductions ... the pleasure the sensations we can
experience through our sexual organs ... just through our bodies, what
was God's intention to create such tools for us to feel the orgasmic
sensations ? or if it is not by God, why have we developed such
functions in our biological development ? and why do we tend to avoid
to dig this subjects in healthy way but tend to pursue the unhealthy
ways and even the extreme that some even claim that it is the bad thing
to feel the pleasure, especially women, and even believe to have the
right to take away the female genitals from women ? if we really knew
about the sexual organs ... we could have given them so much respect
that there wouldn't have been so many crimes. the rate of the rape has
been increasing although people are much more open to sex than ever
before. the age of the victims are not just young women anymore,
children, elders and boys and men. ... and many men and women see each
other as sex tools now a day before their personalities, talents and
intelligence, something that most of us call " chemistry " ... that is
what we tend to seek in this modern society. and that has drawn us to
addictions, the abuse, that fill us the chemistry, through not only
sexual intercourse but drugs, alcohol, incest, stealing, etc ... many
people, especially, younger generations, seek to have sex for chemistry
instead of love before understanding much of their bodies ... most of
us blindly fill in the chemistry ... just because no one really teaches
us the great depth of the anatomy ... we just have to jump on to the
experience in order to understand better.
read this article if you have time ...
click here >>> One Woman's Journey Through Sexual Oppression
when
I first time read her article ( which was written sometime in late 90's
) I was just stunned by the passion that she only had a vibrator for
many years to examine her sexual organ so long without a sexual
partner. as I am writing this, I just have to confess that I did not
know much about my sexual organ ( even now ). " if even just a vibrator
can keep someone in the examinations for such a long time without even
a physical partner ... what is really there ( in the sexual organ ) ?"
... only I had known was being rubbed and feels good. ( I mean, of
course, I knew better than that but not much in depth. ) but there must
be much more we must learn about our sexual organs and sensual anatomy.
so
that, ... I would like to plant this seed of my vision in this subject
with my prayer for no more sexual crimes ( any crimes ! ) on Earth. (
Earth is the sacred land, no more abuse or adulteration on the sacred
land. we had enough. )
everyone
knows there have been prostitutions all over the world even though most
of countries ban. although it is illegal yet we all know that it still
exists and many benefit from it. so ... why don't we legalize it as a
school.
the
school where we can learn about our anatomy and the depth of sex (
sexes ), where any of adults can attend ( not only for men ). those who
would like to be in service in order to earn money will go through the
classes which will be also provided to clients. in the beginning those
in service would have to go through the classes in order to become
experts for earning money. as they go through the levels of the
classes, they slowly begin to earn instead of to pay for the classes. a
long time ago in Japan, there were the women who were called "Oiran"
they were the courtesans. many tend to believe a Geisha is a courtesan
but they are not, they are the entertainers in art and conversations.
Oirans were the courtesans, exclusive courtesans. to have met an Oiran
was not easy, not only money could have taken care of the time with an
Oiran but also the intelligence and wit that the client must have met
the Oiran's standard in order to become her regular client. the system
no longer exists in Japan although there are still the special bath
houses where take care of the less matters. however, those bath houses
do not receive as the same respect as where Oiran houses once did. in
Japan, we did not have the high rate of the crime of rape before, I
believe, it is because we have the places where the urge of men's sex
drives were taken care of. but now younger generations do not give as
much respect to those places as older generations did although we have
much more places in disgraceful manner or just for fun. just to get
laid doesn't sound interesting enough anymore for younger generations,
they want something more. maybe, because of the frustration the rate of
the sex crimes are also increasing. ... our older generations knew
moral better but we do not have the time to speak with our children
anymore or even avoid, we are too busy, so children have no places to
learn things better. as the result, as children get older, they do not
care much about anything in depth but seek only for sensations
irresponsibly or immaturely. if we are too busy to teach and especially
know little to teach, then we should create the place where we can
provide the information and knowledge we all need by experts.
the
school where for those who want to earn money and for those who want to
learn about our sexuality and sensuality in depth and truth will come
together. and also where for a couple can go together to learn about
each other, to enhance their exploration in sexuality and sensuality.
of course for homosexual and bisexual people, too ... in fact, I
believe learning from the same sex sometimes give us the better
knowledge about the anatomy. this school also is to learn about our
anatomy and biological issues that the school is not only for sexual
matters but also simply to learn about the body and the complications
in sexes of aging process, menstrual cycles, pregnancy and after giving
birth. and also to learn how to give massage, what signs to check for
illness, such as breast cancer, learning about our own bodies will be a
lot of work. and coming to this place, men and women both learn about
oneself also besides the other side even without the love partner,
therefore, when they meet the right one after the school, they will
know how to respect and sex is not about the physical activity but the
inner exploration together in depth, not about how to perform but
learning each other in love. I strongly believe if we do know better
about our truth, we will respect us and others deeper, and that will
lead for less crimes and eventually no crimes. just because we will
become very serious about ourselves and we will find more to learn
about ourselves that will keep us too busy with our potentials to be
explored rather than to waste by abuse and absurd. and that will be
passed onto the younger generations that marriage and relationships
will become much much more meaningful. ( and we will live happily ever
after ....... )
we
say women's sexuality has been oppressed by our society ... yet men are
also discouraged in performances by women's oppression or also the
agressiveness ( great expectation toward the partner ). we are out of
tune. we need the place for each others to come along simply and
sincerely to learn what we do not know ... maybe, once we had such a
place then we might be just opening up ourselves to each other to learn
in a profound level with respect even without going to such a school.
...
and one more thing, ( thank you, Tomoko, for the reminder. ) many of us
tend to just dismiss those prostitutes and homosexuals ... but the
reality is many of them have been through very traumatic sexual events
in their childhoods that have led them to the paths. the girl I had met
a long time ago who was a lesbian, she told me that she was raped a
couple of times when she was much younger. she said she had let go and
no anger toward men, she had so many guy friends but she just can not
see a man as her sexual partner. she has forgiven the past yet the
wounds were still there. those people are so strong, they live with
such traumatic tragedies and even forgiving, ... or I wonder how many
of them are able to forgive such tragedies in their lives ... how many
of them are able to forgive themselves from the past that trapped them
in the wounds ... but our society just dismiss or even oppose to those
people ... we judge the consequence but do not give questions or
compassion to the cause. it is our reality, there are indeed so many
who were/are molested and raped by strangers or even their own
relatives ... we must not let the tragedies be repeated.
I hope we can be open to the change and new ( different ) perspectives in order to help out, heal and honor ourselves
... and for our younger generations' sake.
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