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Credo

The Compassionate Friends Credo

We need not walk alone. We are The Compassionate Friends. We reach out to each other with love, with understanding, and
with hope. The children we mourn have died at all ages and from many different causes, but our love for them unites us.
Your pain becomes my pain, just as your hope becomes my hope. We come together from all walks of life, from many different circumstances. We are a unique family because we represent many races, creeds, and relationships. We are young, and we are old.
Some of us are far along in our grief, but others still feel a grief so fresh and so intensely painful that they feel helpless and see
no hope. Some of us have found our faith to be a source of strength, while some of us are struggling to find answers. Some
of us are angry, filled with guilt or in deep depression, while others radiate an inner peace. But whatever pain we bring to this
gathering of The Compassionate Friends, it is pain we will share, just as we share with each other our love for the children
who have died. We are all seeking and struggling to build a future for ourselves, but we are committed to building a future
together. We reach out to each other in love to share the pain as well as the joy, share the anger as well as the peace, share
the faith as well as the doubts, and help each other to grieve as well as to grow.
We Need Not Walk Alone. We Are The Compassionate Friends.
©2016 The Compassionate Friends


                Siblings Walking Together
We are the surviving siblings of The Compassionate Friends. We are brought together by the deaths of our
brothers and sisters. Open your hearts to us, but have patience with us. Sometimes we will need the support
of our friends. At other times we need our families to be there. Sometimes we must walk alone, taking our
memories with us, continuing to become the individuals we want to be. We cannot be our dead brother or
sister; however, a special part of them lives on with us. When our brothers and sisters died, our lives changed.
We are living a life very different from what we envisioned, and we feel the responsibility to be strong even
when we feel weak. Yet we can go on because we understand better than many others the value of family and
the precious gift of life. Our goal is not to be the forgotten mourners that we sometimes are, but to walk together
to face our tomorrows as surviving siblings of The Compassionate Friends. 


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