My Happiness is in MY Will

The day you resolve this You will start feeling happy

 

Most of us expect someone deliver us 'happiness'.  A few of us believe that happiness,the quantum and quality of it,  is something what we are destined to.  We cannot be blamed if we are not happy. That we are happy or otherwise is related to something outside our realm.  It is apparent that these men and women have, in their own world of helplessness and despair, set their doom for themselves.   In short, these people have lost their vision. 

But let us be different.

And that we have decided to be DIFFERENT will make us different.  We shall decide to look inward and unleash the hidden potential from within

HAPPINESS is a frame of mind and a perception based on how we look at ourselves as well as the things around us.   Suggest to yourself a meaning for your existence, a result for your good thoughts and a reward for your good words and actions. Suggest to yourself that the more positive you become things around you move to gravitate towards you.

Let us firm up our thoughts with a belief that WE ARE HAPPY AND WE SHALL BE HAPPY.   AND WHAT IS MORE, THAT WE SHALL DECIDE WHAT WE SHOULD BE  DOING TO SUSTAIN THAT MOOD.

 The moment I feel that MY HAPPINESS IS IN MY HANDS, things will look thoroughly DIFFERENT. Yes. Different Indeed.

Let us chart out a route or a journey for ourselves. We plan for our journey, make the necessary resources, start. And, as far as your actions affect others, you should, in all fairness, consult others and take their considered opinions into account.  But that's all.  You are to take decisions on the logistics, the strategies, the resources, the time frame etc. Finally you take responsilbility for your actions. In your efforts, you may fail, but once you feel, that every failing step is a step towards enriching your expertise in charting a better course of action, it does not matter whether you fail or not.  No single invention or discovery was ever made in one single step.  So march on.  Take bold decisions to overcome all obstacles midway.

Achievers were not born so.  They grew over sweat and toil. On your way, when you listen to doubting Thomases or people with "I-am-content-with-what-I have" people who ridicule with your mission, you are jettisoned. You need not retort to people who fail to fall within your wave-lengths, but be on our mission. 

All the more, when people who are angry with you for non fault of yours, do not get provoked, for it may slow down your steps.  Ask yourself (your inner consciousness) whether you are indeed at fault.  If your inner consciousness says that you are OK, you ignore what the other man tells you, for, when you get angry or provoked at others' actions/attitudes, you fall unawares into others' traps.  Possibly this was their intention that you should not be proceeding the way you charted out.   

So, beware of traps online. For to have hold on your happiness, you must be on your own, not on others' ideas, attitudes or actions.

Resolve today, this moment, that I shall be happy despite whatever others may say.  I shall not leave this decision to be diluted by others.

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