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Eco Child Free


The obvious right choice for anyone who is compassionate is for us not to reproduce, to stay child-free, 
and, in cases where people feel the need to be parents, to adopt o ne of the 
millions and millions of starving and desperate children all over the world.
 
See Child Fix. See Vasectomy Doctor Locater


Think of the world as o ne household. The house is small, the income fixed, and they cannot move. The family already has a child, and cannot feed another, and yet they think of having another child. Either the quality of life will suffer and each will have less food, they will put o ne out to starve, close the windows, and not heed his cries, or they will stop having children.

Read this from noted scientist and humanist, Edward O. Wilson.

http://www.vasectomy.com/doctorsearch.asp?

http://www.optimumpopulation.org/index.html

http://www.childfree.net

http://www.vote-smart.org/issue_rating_detail.php?sig_id=001966m


http://www.accessidaho.org/phd5/men/vasectomies.html

The girls at EcoMermaid would never consider dating a man who had not 
cared enough for this world to get his vasectomy!

Our EcoMermen are getting fixed - it's the hip thing to do! See Vasectomy Doctor Locater

Today, men are getting smart- the palimony suits and the enforced wages-gathering has caused many young men to step up to the plate and to make sure they will not be bringing any unexpected pregnancies into being ! Much easier for men than for women, getting fixed today is non-surgical and easier than ever! It avoids the possibility of abortion, which no o ne wants, and it's the cool 
thing to do! See 
Abortion Fix.

Remember - if he wants you, let him accept you, if he wants a child, (which 
is rare for a man - usually they only pay lip service to the idea that he 
thinks most women want to hear while the reality is quite different and proven 
by the statistics OR, and look out for these crazies - SOME men want an ego thrill, to see the world populated with their leavings, but NEVER plan to stay with the breeder of his doings, and ESPECIALLY, never intends to SUPPORT THEM OR YOU) - but if he does, then let him adopt one ! Or find a female 
who is already rearing children !

Remember - people who want a marriage or partnership have chosen a mate, 
not a brooder or breeder ,(with rare exceptions - read more of our articles 
at Eco Child Free and especially, read Child Fix ) - two is company, three or more,a crowd, crowding not only our fragile planet, but crowding  the original mate right out of the nest, usually. Nothing kills romance and fun, finances quality of life and freedom, like breeding!
So, if your dream is to be a single-parent -which is as rare as is a man who wants to be a parent - fine. Then adopt.

The movies, old mores, and the sentamentalism surrounding the idea of having children have brought misery and death to countless children around the world, and continues to do so. 
The hounding of relatives who thrive on the old 'misery loves company' routine of forcing everyone to do what they've done- to make the same mistakes -are to be ignored and avoided. 
Many parents of child-bearing-aged children begin to needle them about making grandchildren in order that they can continueto thwart and control the lives of their kids as they're just breaking free from the confines of being parented. These women don't want to face the emptiness, otherwise, of their wasted lives they've squandered on mothering. And, the oldsters fear being left out of the lives of their kids if they don't have grandchildren. THIS ISN'T LOVE!
Don't listen to these embittered and controlling women. Don't fall into that trap.
Often, the grandparents will reach across their own children and meddle into theirlives, preferring the grandchildren openly and continuing the dysfunctional
dynamic over generations - and this is  the real reason they're hounding you
to breed !
The dictates of long generations concerning the chains of families and breeding
have gotten this world into the mess we're just now working to sort out.
Human overpopulation and rampant individual greed to the point of madness
and suicidalism is the condition of the world now.
The ancient imperatives to breed are still echoing in the minds of the unwary.
This outdated concept was born in the minds of small bands 
of humans long ago who desperately needed more members of their troups in 
order to survive.

It's long past time to shed these antique notions and to face the reality 
of wall-to-wall faces of our own kinds who despite all, continue to think 
insane thoughts and to do insane actions which continue to bring far too many 
children into the world than the world can support - thus, thousands of babies 
starving every day !

If you want a child, adopt one who will die otherwise !

Eco Child Free

Save the World, Save Your Youth, Save a Child at the same time-

The time when breeding was heroic is long, long since gone by the wayside. And yet, to see the pregnant people parading around o n the TV ads as if they had done something important and grand to create yet another life to burden the planet with - let's just face the facts - 
(See Why Get Pregnant Anyway? for a thought-provoking foray into the
individual reasons for this Breeding Frenzy.)

Today the world needs less, not more, children. That's obvious. And, it's painfully obvious that those self-indulgent women who've borne children are very selfish, and don't care about the starving children already in the world.

Today, every day, thousands of children starve to death on our small, crowded  planet.

Children who'll never know the feeling of security, of a bull belly, 
or warmpth or adequate clothing. Will never drink clean water or have their 
needs tended to.

Stay Child-Free, and you will be doing the very best thing you could do for 
our planet - and - have you thought about the quality of life the future will 
bring for the children being born now? They will face the most horrendous 
times our specie has ever known.

We at EcoMermaid would never want to do that to an innocent child.

And by being Eco Child Free, you are making space for unfortunate children who are already impoverished, malnourished, and would certainly die if even more 
resources are deprived them.

By choosing not to have a child you are donating to dying, starving orphans 

the space and resources they need to survive.

Be Eco Child Free, and if you feel you need to mother or father, then -
Adopt one, or several of them, or just support them from afar with the huge 
amounts of money having your own child would cost.

And then find ways to contribute to our world.

And - if you want to keep your bellies flat, stay slender and girlish for LIFE, and save the world at the same time, stay off the ranks of the selfish o nes who breed while countless orphans are starving - you will not only save your looks, you might possibly save your life ! And your marriage or partnership ! Also, if you want to stay a youthful hot chick or dude, with freedom and disposable income, stay child-free.

Those pregnant and mothery celebs in the media, promoting rampant breeding 
all have maids and trainers, anyway, and they work very,very hard to get back 
in shape and will have to work that hard their whole lives just to stay in 
shape. Pregnancy and nursing do things to your body which can never, ever 
be undone. It causes a lifetime of hard, hard exercising, just to get in sort of decent shape! And if you can't afford the 'tucking' they do on the genitals of breeders to make them semi-OK, forget having good sex any more!

Don't be fooled by those Dr. 90210 shows that make it seem easy and 
convenient to nip and tuck your body back in shape after childbirth. They lie to get audiences, to please sponsors and to dupe the public!

First of all - it's price-prohibitive for most women. 

Second - it risks your life and is not worth the risk - especially 
since you are now, if you've had a baby, needed very much for mothering 
a helpless being and are now a mother, not a sex mate - that was 
your choice so own up to it and stop trying to be everything at once. It just 
won't work. You go from GIRL to MOTHER in one false move, so use birth control religiously!

AND, if you've bred already, you have to think of the child's life first - you cannot just go onto an operating table on a cosmetic whim. What would happen if you died, as so many do? Your offspring would end up in foster care, most likely!

There are great risks even in in-office procedures. o ne is risk of infection.

MRSA � antibiotic-resistant bacteria, are rampant in health care facilities, 
and would be very dangerous to bring home to a baby or child.

What price vanity ? Make your choices. Make them humane and compassionate.

No one - not all those celebrities pathetically trying to prove, pathetically, something that is impossible - that they can be as hot as they were before childbirth - leaving their babies with nannies, no doubt, can be everything. Respect your choices and accept that there are responsibilities and gifts along with every choice in life. Read Choices.
Also - there are many mishaps in surgery, even if you get out germ-free 
and alive.

Do you really think everything would work as well as before ? Be smart. They actually remove your bladder in surgery for childbirth!!! Do you see the risks now?

Realize that there are so many doctors and lawyers being churned out of schools every year that most are grubbing for jobs. They're getting very creative with finding new earning niches, but really - don't you think 
being vegan and working out, taking care of yourself and your looks and health 
in general, and really thinking hard about whether to have kids or not is 
a better way to go ? And - if you do want kids, look first to adopt 
a kid from a place where no one should want to place an innocent child - 
there are millions who already need you.

Be an EcoHeroine or EcoHero.

Take the Eco ChildFree Pledge! 

EcoChildFree Pledge


Take the Pledge !


I love the world, all its' people and all other animals.

I love the seas, the mountains, the air, and the resources.

I pledge to remain Eco Child Free - to make absolutely sure by utilizing 
vasectomy or by making sure any partners of mine have had vasectomies, and 
until then, to utilize more than two types of birth control at a time, regardless 
the convenience.

To take sex seriously and to only engage in it while completely sober, unless with a loving partner who I know to have had a vasectomy.

Life and death are involved with sex.

Mine, yours, and the potential for creating an innocent life.

I Promise to either remain Eco Child Free or to adopt one of the starving millions of children who need me.

I Swear.




There are, thankfully, in our time, way better alternatives !

And - did you know that pregnancy and child-bearing pose great risks not only 
to your health and beauty and finances and spirit, but it is downright dangerous? 
Dangerous to your survival, dangerous to your relationship and dangerous for 
the planet in general ? Thinking of having a baby ? Read Child Fix first and 
take the questionnaire.


Mermaid Eco

Save the World, Save Your Youth, Save a Child at the same time-

We've been freed, Liberated, Sisters, and most of us haven't even stopped long enough to think about it.

For countless millinea, our kind - girls and women - have been on the biologic 
treadmill that only led down o ne path - all females were breeders, period 
- because of the period - no way around it - until the twentieth century.

Now, finally, we have the dream of all our feminine ancestors ( and the males, 
too - who have had to watch as, too often, offspring died in hard times, and 
have had to break hearts in order to pursue their own aims, and who finally 
have the very best way to avoid fathering - vasectomies ! See GetFixed.org, 
and yet, to hear the media, to see ads, to talk to most women, and to view 
statistics, the majority so far hasn't been bright enough to understand that 
we can now stay child-free !

And - just in time to save the world, if more of us get and heed the message !

There's a better way to live !

Why do most people just assume that we girls want children or will, someday?

Why haven't most wised up to the fact that being child-free is not o nly a 
valid choice, but the o nly civilized choice to make today ?

Stay Child-Free, and you will be doing the very best thing you could do for 
our planet - and - have you thought about the quality of life the future will 
bring for the children being born now? They will face the most horrendous 
times our specie has ever known.

We at EcoMermaid would never want to do that to an innocent child.

And by being EcoChildFree, you are making space for unfortunate children who 
are already impoverished, malnourished, and would certainly die if even more 
resources are deprived them.

By choosing not to have a child you are donating to dying, starving orphans 
the space and resources they need to survive.

Be EcoChildFree, and if you need to mother or father, then -
Adopt o ne, or several of them, or just support them from afar with the huge 
amounts of money having your own child would cost.

And then find ways to contribute to our world.

AND - to your sex life. They don't make a point of informing girls 
what the vagina and labia will become flaccid and have less feeling after childbirth,or that the breasts will empty and droop. 
Let's face it, just from the beauty angle, if you don't have a ton of money 
and constant life income, your future won't be shaped that way if you choose 
to have kids.

Still thinking of having a baby ? Read Child Fix first and take the questionnaire.

Are you pre-qualified ?

Even driving a car requires a license and training and income and a car.

Don't you think we should require licensing not only for the privilege 
of bearing children, but also of breeding helpless animals ?

There are far too many unwanted human babies and children, just as there are 
other animals.

The o nly difference is - we put the other animals to death by the millions 
while the human children are allowed to die slowly - starving to death 
while the uncaring of the Western nations revel in baby showers and continue 
to plague the world with human overpopulation.

Think about what you do, what your life means, the consequences of your selfish motives to have children. And understand that it is only the extremely selfish in our world today who would bear children in an already crowded world filled with starving children.

Consider what you do in life. Everything you do has consequences for others.

This is our motto - to think clearly and to make compassionate choices.

Even if some do actually really want to bear kids, - well - some also want to steal diamonds or to use heroin, or to eat pounds of chocolate - to have an urge is possibly hormonal and transient, but to act on a want which leads to a selfish end and one which harms others is simply cruel.

To have desires is ordinary but to use your mind ahead of time to stop instinct 
and appetite from taking over decision-making is essential in order to lead 
a fun and productive life.

The clearer your conscience, the better your life.

The more compassionate you are, the happier you are.

See Clarifize.

Also, See Child Fix

Also, See Why Get Pregnant Anyway?

And,  See Breeding Frenzy

And Remember - If You Want to Have a Happy Mate - Don't Procreate!
Many Studies have Proven What We all Know - Child-Free Couples Are Happier!

Stop Breeders 

An Interesting Article

Paul Erlich

Overpopulation

And - Here - Findings on how much happier Child-Free Couples are!

Safe Sex

Being Eco is Being Child-Free
"The Greatest Gift anyone can Give the World is to Be Child-Free"

Human Overpopulation

Books on Overpopulation


This link explains why many are deciding to be child-free to stop human overpopulation and to save our planet and our environment!


Zero Population Growth

License to Breed





Also, See Why Get Pregnant Anyway?

See Breeding Frenzy




Pregnant Pause

Overpopulation Fact
Overpopulation

Overpopulation Info

On Malthus and Overpopulaton

License to Breed

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