Topic: Bully Buster and Improving System Health  (System can be business, corporation, organization or judiciary and law enforcement systems.)

Bullies are usually charming, articulate and convincing in any organization or interpersonal contexts. 

They know how to impress others positively, defeat opponents with false but convincing claims in order to obtain privilege, power, or rewards.  However, repetitive false claims, false accusations, false allegations are not facts, reality, or truth.

Bullies know how to twist facts, reality or truth into a dramatic, sympathetic and sobbing story to solicit trust and favoritism for his/her gain in privilege, power and rewards. 

Albeit outstanding deceitful and manipulative art, evidences, numbers, and documentation will scream the truth out but you need to have the wisdom and insight to tune into those silent truth and detect the concealed inconsistency.

Bullies are covert terrorists in workplace, corporate system, or any context (i.e. rental terrorist, workplace terrorist, rally terrorist, etc.).  They are good at using language, finance, number, legal law suit as emotional/financial/intrinsic threatening weapons to intimidate and distress others, esp. older business owners/home owners/landlords in order to secure power, money, and dominance.

Many senior home owners/landlords rely on rental income for their daily survival, assistant living, or nursing home expenses.  Rental or family bullies/terrorists are stealing/robbing senior home owners'/landlords' survival skillfully which might cause unexpected personal/emotional/financial crisis and trauma.  It is a disguised but uprising crime and terror in USA and globally.

Blind compassion is the beginning of the trail leading to crime and terror.


How to Identify A Bully At Work--

Invisible Abusive Power Behind Mental Illness: How to Identify A Bully Around You--  written by Dr. Trudy Hu, August 2015

Revolutionary Discovery of Invisible Abusive Power Behind Mental Illness:

After 30 years clinical practice, clinicians nowadays still uphold the belief that mental illnesses are caused by an individual's brain chemical imbalance, individual's irrational cognitive thoughts, volatile mood swings, and destructive behaviors, or an individual's twisted perspectives.  As a result, clinicians' clinical assessment, exploration of the presenting issue, and intervention are also mainly focused on the afflicted individual who chooses to seek help.

This article creates a prototype and provides a new theoretical framework to revolutionize the traditionally clinical assessment, focus, and intervention approaches which pigeonhole the mental illnesses and patients who fall prey to the abusers and become the scapegoats of the skillful perpetrators.  It is fair to say that an individual who suffers from depression and anxiety in marriage and family might be a victim of his/her skillfully abusive spouse/partner, family member, or relatives.  An individual who suffers from tremendous of stress and anxiety at the workplace might have been exploited by a skillfully abusive supervisor or co-worker at the workplace.   A large cohort of individuals who suffer from depression due to declined wage, lack of career opportunity, governmental debt, and anxiety over social unrest in a society indicate the failure of political, economic, and social policies and the collective group of people have become unaware victims through long-term cover-up (i.e., brainwashing, programming, political correctness) manipulated by skillful and abusive politicians, power brokers, and media moguls. 

Prototype and Definition of an Abuser--Skillful Bully

Bullies come in different forms, shapes and ages.  Nevertheless, people tend to have the typical images of bullies, usually little boys in elementary schools and playgrounds.  Those typical bully images were highly promoted in the editing room of anchors and journalists through the lens of most of the popular media. 

This article is to describe another unaware but extremely dangerous but silent bully prototype.  This type of skillful bullies do not throw punches in schools or playgrounds but holding leadership positions in political power center, holding the key to the financial power, having executive power of the business world, controlling the channels of powerful news/images in media, and high-ranked clergies in spiritual world, etc.  As people's eyes and mouthpiece, media do not focus on the center of the political/financial/spiritual power and scrutinize those well-established powerful "leaders" (bullies), instead of focusing on some young boys/girls in schools and playgrounds so that all the viewers can be manipulated by anchors' perspectives and see the world through their powerfully manipulated lenses that they want audience to see and to believe. 

Façade of Success

What are the criteria of a candidate on the becoming path of a skillful bully in a successful mask?

An intelligent individual has high caliber in cognitive capacity, such as analysis, reasoning, and calculation.  As a charismatic and confident individual, he/she is also articulate, ambitious and on the fast track in climbing corporate/organization ladder.  Under a rigid hierarchical organization, these behavioral traits can be outwardly reinforced and manufactured to perfection and difficult to detect the concealed shrewd and self-serving nature.  After the long term well-established images, credentials, and networks, skillful bullies in a successful mask, they are considered as role models and celebrities in political system, companies, and churches.

It is just like a genuine diamond and a fraud diamond and no one can tell which one is real and which one is faked.  Sometimes, fraud diamonds outshine the genuine ones.  Only a well-trained professional can see through the faked shine of those faked diamonds.  Along the same line, only a highly skillful professional with conscience can see through the true nature and the integrity of a genuine executive as well as a skillful bully without engaging power play or political gain.

Concealed Real Intention

The difference between a genuine successful executive and a skillful bully lies in his/her internal motives.  A skillful bully is sensitive to assess other people’s power and how to exercise his/her personal charm to ally in the competitive business world.  He/She knows how to pro-actively affiliate with those powerful people for his/her own self-interest and power-grabbing.  He/She shows loyalty, respect, and obedience to win the trust from the higher-ups.

In private life, a skillful bully continues the high-power superior persona and is addicted to his/her inflated self-importance over personal relationships, such as in-laws/family.  He/She treats in-laws and family members as subordinates and is good at translating their transient value into tangible benefits or service for his/her own advantage.

Magical Tool-Manipulation

1.     Establish Superior Atmosphere

A skillful bully is quick in identifying invisible leverage (age, rank, power affiliation, earning power, gender, ethnicity, etc.) and exudes superficial warmth and friendliness which creates a polarized superior-or-inferior or convincing-or-mistrust prelude as a foundation for his/her favorable influence.  A skillful bully is good at exaggerating, bragging and portrait himself/herself as a virtuous and righteous person to increase the weight of superiority.

2.     Create a Superior-Inferior Power Structure—From Influence, Control, to Manipulation

Invisible leverage turns into persuading influence and then distorts misstatement into truth and leading control, domination and then manipulation to superior performance and justification in grabbing (or stealing)  more power, privilege, and assets from submitting ‘inferior’ or ‘disadvantaged’ counterparts.

Steps in Gaining Power

#1 Gaining Power Strategy—Proclaiming Visible and Invisible Favorable Superior Traits

#2 Gaining Power Strategy—Spotting Gentle, Good-Nature, and Non-Assertive Individuals, Such As Supporting Staff, Supervisees, Younger, Older, or Inexperienced People in an Organization

#3 Gaining Power Strategy—Intimidating, Belittling, or Overly Critical in Private Settings to Degrade Opponents/Counterparts into Inferior Status

#4 Gaining Power Strategy—Gaining Psychological Territory, Conquering Easy Preys, Putting Down Victims, Claiming Victims’ Credits and Assets Legitimately

Ultimate Goal of Control and Manipulation-Exploitation

Skillful bullies are natural predators and have innate ability to identify easy preys.  The ultimate goal is to exploit others for self-serving interest.

Discrepancy-Lack of Integrity

Lack of integrity can be interpreted as hypocrisy or two-faced characteristics.  The deceitful side has to be hid in secrecy, isolation, and darkness, (i.e. alter boy's sexual abuse as a secret, Clinton's emails).  

The best way to detect a skillful bully is his/her lack of integrity and incongruence between publicly benign image and privately abusive behavior and the duration of revealing the skillful bullies may take at least 2-3 decades.  A skillful bully is generous in spending company, public or others’ funds but stingy in spending his/her own funds.  On the same note, he/she is generous in praising powerful allies publicly but verbally and emotional abusive to subordinates privately.  A genuine successful executive tends to be congruent in public and private interactions.  The emotional reactions with a genuine successful executive after a certain period of time tend to be positive, consistent, supportive, and empowering. 

However, a skillful bully tends to elicit negative emotions such as confusion, a sense of inferiority, insecurity, powerlessness, loss of personal boundary or identity.  A skillful bully in avsuccessful mask is an intelligent criminal who steals others’ power, voice, credits and asset and financially, mentally, or sexually abusive toward voters, entities or victims without a trace.  The current legal system can only capture ordinary criminals who commit petite crime with tangible evidences.  How can you prove invisible motive, manipulation strategies, stolen power, self-worth, votes through legitimate ways and capture the mastermind of the well-designed legitimate scheme?

Damage Control?  Mitigate Damage?

In a small and personal scale, a skillful bully’s spouse and family members usually suffer the loss of self-esteem, self-worth and self-reliance initially which leads to depression, isolation, cognition decline after a few years and spirals downward into severe mental illness, physical disability, and willingly submits his/her own finance/identity/power in the "trusted" bully spouse.  A female bullying partner can create more damaging harm to her male victim.   Male victims' recovery and attempt in seeking help would be more difficult because traditionally females do not fit into the socially accepted stereotype of abusers.  How do people calculate the monetary damage of the loss of self-esteem, self-worth, quality of life, happiness, and dignity?

In the scale of a business entity, a skillful bully is considered as a competent executive and leader in a company.  The subordinates tend to be attracted and admired by outwardly charming traits initially.  Several months and years later, the casualty of power struggle, layoff, re-organization and skillful firing would start the financial bleeding.  Once the scheme of the skillful bully is unveiled, the financial loss is easily hundreds of millions and billions. 
How do people calculate the monetary damage of the loss of victims' self-respect, career hope and dream, personal and occupational potential, financial crisis of victims' families, loss of mortgages and properties?

In a larger political arena, a skillful bully is much harder to spot through his/her long-term well-manicured political track records and immaculate leadership images burnished by the political parties and media allies, but he/she leaves a long trail of bleeding victims, such as political, financial, sexual and family victims (Benghazi victims, rape victims, Ponzi scheme victims) behind his/her own perfect tail, such as Bill Cosby, Bill Clinton, Hillary Clinton, Clinton Foundation, Bernard Madoff, Catholic Churches, just to name a few. 

Failed political policies from skillful bullies would have severe consequences after at least 2-3 decades later, such as Adolf Hitler in the West and Mao Zedong in the East.  With the powerful cover-up assistance and manipulation from media allies, current failed political policies in Syria and Middle East areas will entail more severe damage and terror in the United States and the global political system for the upcoming 20 to 30 years, too.  But the skillful bullies who fail to oversee the recent political safety can walk away with their 4 or 8-year glory and legacy without any consequences.  However, American voters and ordinary citizens in USA and the Middle East areas become innocent victims and will be paying the enormous visible and invisible prices for the next 20-30 years. 

How do people calculate the monetary damage of the loss of thousands and millions of soldiers' and civilians' lives, shattered belief of safety, constant fear of terror of a country and a geographic region for more than 20-30 years?   How do people calculate the monetary damage of the disillusion in democracy system, trillions dollar debts (Obama generates 12-trillion national debt in only 7 years) , unimaginable collective loss of quality of life, career future, financial security for millions of American young people for more than 20-30 years?   A thief, a robber, or a con artist has to face legal consequences for their crimes of hundreds or thousands of dollars.  How come the skillful and eloquent bully can walk away from the long term crime scene with his/her stolen assets, benefits, power and failed performance but leaving behind a broken partner/victim, a broken company, or a broken country/region with trillion-dollar debts and loss of lives of innocent people? 

When an intelligent individual/politician (bully) steals the power or was elected as the leader, it is unconstitutional because the partner/subordinate/believer/citizen will lose the rights of becoming a healthy, happy and secure person.  Partner/Subordinate/Believer/Citizen's intrinsic rights have been stolen and sold by the skillful leader (bully) for his/her own personal gain under the disguise of "trust" and "protection". 


I had once worked with Dr. Trudy Hu 8 or 9 years ago and she helped my family and my two daughters a lot.  Recently, when I contacted Trudy several weeks ago, I have been struggling psychologically and financially because of my previous job loss about 18 months ago.  After I quit my job involuntarily, I lost all my confidence and I accepted a lower job title and much lower salary.  My family and I all suffered financial stress and lower quality of life after I left my job due to a bully at workplace.  Several co-workers had experienced similar hidden bullying from this particular "popular" lady.  I was the whistle-blower and reported her abusive behavior but the Human Resource Department (HR) believed in her because of her long-term positive alliance with HR.  I experienced depression and financial loss for a long time.  During my second appointment with Trudy, Trudy referred me to read this article and suddenly I realized that I have been an unaware victim of a skillful bully at my previous workplace, a naturopathic medicine clinic, and have severe doubt about my hard-earned credentials and my career skill sets and talents.  After the 2nd session with Trudy, I was able to lift myself out of the funk, recover my confidence, and went on several job interviews.  In my 3rd session, I have been offered several job offers and I become so confident in myself, my skill sets, and all the credentials that I have built in the past.  I am grateful to her article and I believe that Trudy is onto something big and significant.  Dr. Trudy's new discovery in skillful bully prototype completely turns my career, my confidence and my financial strength around.  I can not tell you how happy and excited that I have become.  This article is very healing and eye-opening.



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中文: 心理精神疾病革命性的發:


:胡慧菁博士, 中文翻譯:王曉蘋

經過30多年的臨床顯示, 心理精神醫生仍堅持, 心理精神疾病是由個人的大腦化學成份失調造成的, 個人非理性的想, 個人情緒的波動不穩, 自己的破壞性行為, 是個人扭曲的觀點引發的。因此, 臨床的醫生, 在做臨床初步診, 心理精神病的探索, 治療過程, 治療, 也主要放在呈現心理精神問題, 尋求幫助的個人

本文將建立一個心理精神新的理論架原型, 給予傳統臨床理論嶄新的角度, 並提供了新臨床, 的探索, 治療的重點, 以了解尋求幫助的病人, 犧牲品和替罪羔羊, 真正的肇事者病人的人,擁有一看不,操縱

在婚姻和家庭中承受鬱症的人, 可能是/, 有個技術有虐待傾向的配偶/伴侶, 家庭成員或親屬在工作場所, 焦慮巨大的壓力, 可能是/, 有個技術且懂得竊取專業秘密技術同事, 辱罵仗勢欺人的上司

同理可, 社會裡有一大群患有鬱症焦慮的人, 可能是為缺乏就業機會, 經濟蕭, 政府債務, 社會動盪, 就是演出政府領導和媒體巨頭合作, 通過長期為掩飾(即洗腦, )偷權偷, 政府社會, 充滿技術, 有虐待傾向又仗勢欺人的政客










這種仗勢欺人者和一般喜歡欺負人的人有什麼?  這種仗勢欺人者又多有什麼?