posted Jul 11, 2019, 6:29 PM by David Alan Binder



Grudges are one way.


If someone has a grudge against you.  That is on them.  If you return that grudge then it has become a back and forth until one or both of you let the grudge be held on one side only.


Why carry the weight and the negativism of a grudge?


Why let it define the relationship between the two of you?


Why not let them take that grudge and nurture it and feed it and care for it, until they grow weary of doing so?


Grudges are not bidirectional.  They are only unidirectional, unless you decide to make it bidirectional.


You decide it is your choice.


Also, in the same vein, given all the energy drain of grudges, why start one? 


A Think Piece by David Alan Binder