Children with ASD may have difficulty using and understanding
nonverbal behaviors and developing appropriate peer relationships ,in
part, because their interactions often lack spontaneous exchange. While
they often have keen interests and skills in certain subjects, they also
may have a great deal of difficulty with organization. ASD children may
appear to lack in empathy, have difficulty with sensory issues and very
often strongly rely on routine.
You will learn that a Scout with ASD has many strengths. However, listed below
are some issues that may become apparent to you as you work
with. Many of the behaviors you will see are NOT under his or
her control and they are not a result of malice or willfull
misbehavior. At times a Scout with ASD does not innately know how to
appropriately respond. No doubt, you will learn other strategies which
will be helpful.
- This syndrome is characterized by a sort of "swiss cheese" type
of development: that is, some things are learned age-appropriately,
while other things may lag behind or be absent. Furthermore, children
may have skills years ahead of normal development (for example, a child
may understand complex mathematics principles, yet not be able to
remember to bring their homework home).
- It is important to remember that just because the child learns
something in one situation this doesn't automatically mean that they
remember or are able to generalize the learning to new situations.
- A Scout with ASD reacts well to positive and patient styles of
- Generally speaking an adult speaking in a calm voice will reap
- At times, our child may experience "meltdowns" when nothing may
help behavior. At times like this, please allow a "safe and quiet spot"
where a Scout with ASD will be allowed to "cool off" Try to take note of what
occurred before the meltdown (was it an unexpected change in routine,
for example) and it's best to talk "after" the situation has calmed
- When it reaches a point that things in the scout activity are going
well, it means that we've gotten it RIGHT. It doesn't mean that our
child is "cured", "never had a problem" or that "it's time to remove
support". Increase demands gradually.
- A Scout with ASD may have vocal outbursts or shriek. Be prepared for
them, especially when having a difficult time. Also, please let the
other children know that this is a way of dealing with stress or fear.
- When you see anger or other outbursts,a Scout with ASD is not being
deliberately difficult. Instead, this is in a "fight/fright/flight"
reaction. Think of this as an "electrical circuit overload" (Prevention
can sometimes head off situations if you see the warning signs coming).
- A Scout with ASD may need help with problem-solving situations. Please
be willing to take the time to help with this.
- When dividing up assignments, please ASSIGN teams rather than
have the other children "choose members", because this increases the
chances that our child will be left out or teased.
- Note strengths often and visually. This will give our child the
courage to keep on plugging.
- Foster an atmosphere that supports the acceptance of
differences and diversity.
- A Scout with ASD may repeat the same thing over and over again, and you
may find this increases as stress increases.
- It is more helpful if you avoid being pulled into this by
answering the same thing over and over or raising your voice or pointing
out that the question is being repeated. Instead, try to redirect the Scout's attention or find an alternative way so he/she can save face.
- Allowing a Scout with ASD to write down the question or thought and
providing a response in writing may break the stresses/cycle.
- A Scout with ASD may have a great deal of difficulty with transitions.
Having a picture or word schedule may be helpful.
- Please try to give as much advance notice as possible if there
is going to be a change or disruption in the schedule.
- Giving one or two warnings before a change of activity or
schedule may be helpful
Sensory Motor Skills/Auditory Processing
- a Scout with ASD may have difficulty understanding a string of directions or
too many words at one time
- Breaking directions down into simple steps is quite helpful
- Using picture cures or directions may also help
- Speaking slower and in smaller phrases can help.
- Directions are more easily understood if they are repeated
clearly, simply and in a variety of ways.
- A Scout with ASD may act in a very clumsy way; he may also react very
strongly to certain tastes, textures, smells and sounds.
- He may get overstimulated by loud noises, lights, strong tastes
or textures, because of the heightened sensitivity to these things.
- With lots of other kids, chaos and noise, please try to help him
find a quiet spot to which he can go for some "solace".
- Unstructured times may prove to be
the most difficult for him. Please try to help provide some guidance
and extra adults help during these more difficult times.
- Allow him to "move about" as sitting still for long periods of
time can be very difficult (even a 5 minute walk around, with a friend
or buddy can help a lot).
- Some ASD children learn best with visual aides, such as picture
schedules, written directions or drawings (other children may do better
with verbal instruction)
- Hand signals may be helpful, especially to reinforce certain
messages, such as "wait your turn", "stop talking" (out of turn), or
"speak more slowly or softly".
- At times, it may take more than few seconds for a Scout with ASD to
respond to questions. He needs to stop what he's thinking, put that
somewhere, formulate an answer and then respond. Please wait patiently
for the answer and encourage others to do the same. Otherwise, he will
will have to start over again.
- When someone tries to help by finishing his sentences or
interrupting, he often has to go back and start over to get the train of
- At times, it looks as if a Scout with ASD is not listening to you when
he really is. Don't assume that because he is not looking at you that he
is not hearing you.
- Unlike most of us, sometimes forcing eye contact BREAKS his
- He may actually hear and understand you better if not forced to
look directly at your eyes.
Social Skills and Friendships
- Herein lies one of the biggest challenges for ASP children. They
may want to make friends very badly, yet not have a clue as to how to go
- Identifying 1 or 2 empathetic scouts who can serve as
"buddies" will help the a Scout with ASD feel as though the troop is a friendly
- Talking with the other members of the unit may help, if done in
a positive way and with the permission of the family. For example,
talking about the fact that many or most of us have challenges and that
the ASP scouts challenge is that he cannot read social situations well,
just as others may need glasses or hearing aides.
- A Scout with ASD may be at greater risk for
becoming "victims" of bullying behavior by other Scouts. This is
caused by a couple of factors:
1. There is a great likelihood that
the response or "rise" that the "bully" gets
from the ASD child reinforces this kind of behavior
2. ASD want to be included and/or liked so badly that they
to "tell" on the bully, fearing rejection from the perpetrator or
This is very important to most Asperger Syndrom children, but can be very
difficult to attain on a regular basis in our world.
Please let the scout know of any anticipated changes as soon as
you know them, especially with picture or word schedules.
Let him know, if possible, when there will be a new or different Scout leader and details of upcoming events and activities.
Although his vocabulary and use of language may seem high, Scouts with Asperger syndrome may not know the meaning of what they are saying even though
the words sound correct.
Sarcasm and some forums of humor are often not understood by a Scout with ASD. Even explanations of what is meant may not clarify, because the
perspectives of ASD child can be unique and, at times, immovable.
A Scout with ASD may lack the ability of remember a lot of information or
how to retrieve that information for its use.
It may be helpful to develop schedules (picture or written) for
Please post schedules and duties assignments on a note board and
if necessary make a copy for him and make sure that these get put
into his backpack because a Scout with ASD can't always be counted on to get
everything home with out some help.
If necessary allow him to copy the notes of other scouts or
provide him with a copy Many ASP children are also dysgraphic and they
are unable to listen to you talk, read the board and take notes at the
A Final Word
At times, some of a Scout with ASD behaviors may be aggravating and annoying
to you and to members of his Troop. Please know that this is normal and
expected. Try not to let the difficult days color the fact that YOU are a
wonderful Scout Leader with a challenging situation and that nothing works
all of the time (and some things don't even work most of the time). You
will also be treated to a new and very unique view of the world that
will entertain and fascinate you at times. Please feel free to share
with us whatever you would like. We have heard it before. It will not
shock us or make us think poorly of you.
Communication is the key and by working together as a team we can
provide the best for a Scout with ASD.