Many families have shifted from thinking about worrying about Covid-19. Families are now increasingly worried about their child showing signs of anxiety and depression. At the same time, families are struggling to find resources to help their child re-socialize or talk to someone. To help parents cope, psychologists offer this advice:
It’s normal to feel fearful, anxious or stressed now. Discuss your experiences with relatives and friends or share a laugh. If you continue to experience problems, try a telehealth consultation with a mental health professional.
Many parents are overly critical of their parenting styles. Remember that it is okay to parent to best fit your family dynamic. Find something that energizes you and helps you sharpen the saw. If you are in a good state of mind your child will feed from your emotional state.
It’s important to maintain a routine. Routines help family members cope with stress and be more resilient. Post a written schedule of when you expect children to get up, do schoolwork, eat meals, play and go to bed. Also include times dedicated to your own work.
Parent should encourage unplugged and unstructured playtime. Create tech-free zones or times, such as during mealtime or one night a week. Discourage use of media entertainment during homework. Set and enforce daily or weekly screen time limits and curfews, such as no exposure to devices or screens one hour before bedtime. Remove smart devices from rooms to avoid temptations.
It does take a village to raise a child. Balancing work and family simultaneously isn’t an easy task. In today’s outlook having both parents working is quite common. It’s okay to ask for help. Talk to your spouse or partner about sharing responsibilities. One person can get the kids ready while the other makes breakfast. One partner can plan the next day’s activities while the other checks homework. If one person gets the kids up the other can put the kids to bed. If you do not have a partner or spouse ask a grandparent or close family member for help.
You—and everyone else in your family—need alone time every day. Take a walk, enjoy a long shower or just sit in your car. If you can’t get away physically, put in earbuds and practice mindfulness meditation via your phone. And practice self-compassion. Don’t worry if you can’t concentrate or let housekeeping standards slide. During this stressful time, it’s important to go easy on your children and yourself.
Source: American Psychological Association
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