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The digital parenting guide: from first phone to social media to AI safety, age by age
Parenting & Families
Date Published: May 26, 2026
Your 8-year-old wants a tablet. Your 11-year-old wants a phone. Your 14-year-old is on three apps you've never heard of - one of which is an AI chatbot that talks back.
* Do you know what age to hand over a smartphone and how to actually do it?
* Do you know which AI chatbots your kid is talking to, or what to say when one of them gets weird?
* Are you tired of being told to "limit screen time" without a plan for keeping kids off social media past Wednesday?
Screen-Proof Family is the missing manual for the smartphone and AI era of parenting.
Inside, you'll find:
* An age-by-age roadmap with milestones, red flags, what to roll out and what to delay at each stage.
* The 30-Day First Phone Rollout - a day-by-day plan for the single highest-stakes handover in your child's digital life with a Readiness Checklist for kids 9 to12.
* A Family Tech Contract template you can adapt in twenty minutes, plus the conversation script that gets your kid to actually sign it.
* The Family Safe Word - one low-tech rule that defends against AI voice-cloning scams and deepfake calls targeting kids.
* The Mirror Check - the research-backed parent habits your kids are already copying, and the systems that change them (because the strongest predictor of your child's phone overuse is yours).
* Conversation blueprints for the talks no one wants to have - smartphone addiction, social media and teenagers, cyberbullying,online predators, AI chatbot dependency and "everyone else has it" talk.
* A Parental Controls Field Guide - current router-level, device-level, and monitoring tools, organised by age stage.
* Neurodivergent considerations woven throughout - because ADHD, autism and screens interact differently than generic advice assumes.
What makes this different. A system, not a rulebook. Research-backed and platform-agnostic - built on habits, environmental design and conversations that survive the next app, the next AI model or the next app update. Every chapter ends with three things you can do this week, one habit to establish this month and one conversation to have this quarter. No alarmism or tech jargon. No screen-time math that doesn't really work.
Who this is for? Parents and guardians of kids 0 to 18. Also grandparents who may feel out of their depth. Pediatricians, teachers, and counsellors who want a single book to recommend. Anyone tired of being told what's wrong with screens but not what to actually do.
Phones aren't going away, neither is AI. Your job isn't to fight the future - it's to raise a kid who can stand inside it, with judgment and confidence.
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Max Hartman is an IT specialist. A few years ago he moved abroad with his wife, to a country where neither of them spoke the language, and they worked it out the slow way, on the ground. His wife now teaches English to adults: transferred professionals, trailing partners, people seeking asylum.
He wrote The Relocation Companion about the move he actually made — the one he and his wife did badly at first, then figured out what would have helped. Screen-Proof Family he comes at from the other side of his work: he knows how the phone in your pocket is built to pull at you, and what that does to the kids growing up around it.
He writes from what he’s lived or learned, not from theory, and brings in research only where it earns its place. He’ll tell you the truth about how hard a thing is, and give you something concrete to do about it. That’s the whole job.
Contact Links
Website: https://www.hartmanmax.com
BookBuzz: https://bookbuzz.net/screen-proof-family-by-max-hartman/
Purchase Link
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0H2WGSWYM
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