Learning to tie shoes is a major milestone! But for many students, especially those with fine motor or attention challenges, it can feel like a frustrating chore.
As Occupational Therapists (OTs), we know that success isn't just about practicing—it's about finding the right method or the right equipment.
Here is an easy-to-read guide for parents and teachers on tackling the shoe-tying challenge with adaptive methods and options.
The "Two Bunny Ears" method is an excellent starting point for many kids because it relies on symmetry and a simple, repetitive movement. This method is often easier than the "Loop, Swoop, and Pull" because it skips the tricky first loop.
The Starting Knot - Make an "X," go under, and pull through tight. This secures the first knot, which is often the hardest part!
Make the Ears - Make two large "bunny ears" (one with each string).
The Final Knot - Make an "X" with the two bunny ears, go under, and pull through tight.
Easy Shoe Tie Method - Learn to Tie a Shoe. How to tie your shoe the easy way. Demonstrated by a 7 year old expert. Learn to tie your shoe in less than a minute! One of the easiest way for kids to tie shoes.
Different methods suit different children so give them all a go and see which suits your child the best.
Tying shoelaces can be a challenge for kids but practice makes perfect!
Sometimes, a child simply isn't developmentally ready for the complex planning and fine motor coordination required for tying. In these cases, moving to an adaptive option reduces frustration and increases independence.
Best For: Fine Motor Challenges, Quick Transitions
Why It Helps: They look like regular laces but spiral to stay tight. No tying needed!
Best For: Decreased Hand Strength, ADHD/Attention
Why it Helps: They stretch to slide the foot in, and a plastic clip locks them in place. This is a one-time "set it and forget it" solution.
Best For: Significant Dexterity Challenges, Younger Children
Why It Helps: The fastest and simplest solution. They require less precision and force than tying.
Best For: Children who can manage a large grasp and pull action.
Why it Helps: Use a single pull/toggle to cinch the laces tight, or a zipper to close the shoe completely.