How to Buy a Sex Toy in Manila, Philippines
First things first
The thought of buying a sex toy, whether online or in an adult toy store, can feel absolutely terrifying, especially if it’s your first time. If you feel this way about getting your first play partner, it’s perfectly fine.
In a country where sex is still spoken about with giggles and deep red blushes, it’s not only natural to feel that way, it’s to be expected. As you get used to the thought and begin to figure out what works for you, you’ll not only grow in confidence, you’ll soon find yourself having fun.
But, while getting a sex toy can (and should) be fun, it’s also serious business. There’s a lot you should know about the process and the best way to go about it. In this brief guide, we’ll explain all you should know about getting sex toys Philippines residents can trust.
Start with what makes you feel good
If you’ve never purchased a sex toy before, a good place to start is with what makes you feel good. Think about what kind of sexual sensations you enjoy and how they would translate to a sex toy. Then go for something that would feel that way.
You don’t have to start with a mammoth dildo or impressive-looking rabbit. A nice, little battery powered vibrator can do the trick for your first time, until you’re more assured in your preferences and the adventures you’d like to take.
Consider what it’s made of
The next thing you should keep in mind is – not all sex toys are created equal. When it comes to what you put in your body, you deserve only the best. You should ideally go for sex toys made with non-porous, 100% safe material like Silicone, Stainless steel, Borosilicate glass, Wood, Lucite and Elastomers.
Apart from the fact that they can be cleaned easily, the unbending quality of some, like wood and steel, makes them sweet for G-spot stimulation. Plus, all that shiny steel looks (and feels) kind of sexy too.
What materials should you avoid?
You should generally avoid anything that includes phthalates. The chemical is often used in producing cheap sex toys Manila folks should be careful of and can be bad for you.
Exposure to phthalates is thought to cause fertility issues, neurodevelopmental issues, type 2 diabetes and is also designated as a probable carcinogen. Other chemicals to avoid include phenol, timethytin chloride, toluene, carbon disulfide and admium.
You should also be careful of anything made with porous material, including jelly rubber and PVC. These materials can harbor a ton of bacteria and are much more difficult to clean. If you must use them, make sure you do so with a condom.
What are your best options for buying?
For a first timer, an online purchase may be just right. Going into a pleasure store or sex shop in Manila may feel a bit too much when you’re just starting out, although that’s really where all the fun is. In an adult toy store, you can really get a feel for the types of sex toys that feel just right for you.
But if you’re more comfortable with shopping online, you’ll have plenty options to choose from, both overseas and locally in the Philippines. But you should clear up the issues of legality first before you go shopping.
Summing it up
Think before you buy
Everyday large companies like E-bay and Amazon is fighting a never ending war to protect their consumers from cheap replica copies of known brands.
Make sure you can trust the sex shop that sells the items, and that the items are not replica.
Prioritize quality
Especially when it comes to adult toys, quality is important.
You want to make sure the toys are made with non-toxic body safe materials and avoid products made with for example gelly plastic or porous materials.
Can it go the distance?
It does not matter if you are choosing a vibrator, dildo, kegel balls or a butt plug - your new sex toy has to be able to go the distance.
That means not picking the cheapest products - often price and quality goes together.
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Where to buy sex toys in the philippines
You can buy sex toys in the Philippines from several local brands, however since this guide is created and published by NOTI.PH, you are of course more than welcome to pay us a visit.
That being said, you should buy your toy in the shop that feels right for you.
Remember The Fine Print
Delivery
Always make sure that items are not delivered from abroad - many sex stores use external suppliers to deliver your product.
This can cause problems with customs and it will often take you 1-3 weeks to receive your shiny new toy.
Returns
Buying locally also ensures you that you can return your sex toy.
Make sure to look for a good return policy when you shop online.
Customer support
Like any shopping experience, customer support is important.
Most serious shops list support emails and ability to chat through for example WhatsApp or facebook.
Are sex toys legal in Philippines?
The truth is, it depends on whether you’re bringing it into the country, or buying it here. Under the Republic Act 10863, sex toys may be considered a “representation of an obscene or immoral character”, at least the Board of Customs routinely consider it so. Due to this, buying a sex toy online and bringing it into Philippines may be tricky.
If you’re buying in the country, things may be a bit more fluid. So long as the pleasure store is not considered to engage in “immoral doctrines, obscene publications and exhibition, and indecent shows”, you should be fine. Plus, there are many popular stores right here in the Philippines where you can get a sex toy already.
Shipping and warranties
It’s great practice to only buy sex toys that come with a warranty. A sex toy is not like a laptop. You can’t take it back in a huff or tweet up a storm if it stops working or doesn’t work as it should. Warranties spare your blushes (literally) and allow you enjoy your toy for longer.